Dorothy Nell Parker

Dorothy Nell Henderson Parker was born on February 2, 1943, in Onalaska, Texas, delivered by a midwife in the warmth of her parents’ home. She was the eldest of seven children born to Katherine and Lonnie Henderson Sr., and from the very beginning, she embodied the nurturing spirit that would define her life. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Allen Parker Sr.; her parents; her sisters, Maxine Milburn and Dianna Banks; and her brother, Lonnie Henderson Jr. Growing up in a large and lively household in rural East Texas, Dorothy developed an early sense of responsibility, resilience, and resourcefulness. Life in the country offered both challenge and joy—from learning to drive a stick-shift truck at a young age to playful adventures like sneaking into the neighbor’s watermelon patch with her siblings. The discipline that followed was legendary among the siblings. She was known to be a bit of a disciplinarian among her siblings, perhaps as a result of lessons learned through her own mischievous youth.

Dorothy graduated from Booker T. Washington High School in Houston and briefly attended Texas Southern University before marrying her high school sweetheart, Allen Parker Sr., in April of 1965, shortly after his return from military service. Together they built a home in the Acres Homes community and soon welcomed two children—Monique and Allen Jr.

Dorothy dedicated over three decades to her career at AT&T (formerly Southwestern Bell), retiring after 31 years of service. Yet, her true vocation was the loving, generous, and faith-filled life she led beyond work.

Affectionately called “Dot” by her husband, she was the heart of her home. The Parker household was a place of refuge—not only for family in need but also for strangers in search of kindness. Whether hosting a community event, a holiday dinner, or simply welcoming someone with a pot of gumbo, Dorothy gave with open hands and a full heart. Holidays were especially cherished times, filled with meticulously planned meals, beloved family recipes, and joyful gatherings. Her variety of cakes—often chosen from the pages of Southern Living—and her legendary potato salad were perennial favorites. She could crack and peel special order pecans for a pecan pie with astonishing speed, all while enjoying her favorite Hallmark movies.

Dorothy’s spirit of service extended well beyond her family. As a devoted member of St. Monica Catholic Church in Acres Homes, she was actively involved in numerous ministries, including the Knights of Peter Claver Ladies Auxiliary Court 151, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, the Altar Society, and the Silver Steppers. She treasured the fellowship of her church family and found joy in serving alongside them—coordinating the Altar Society Sweet Shop for homemade desserts at the annual church Bazaar, preparing dishes for special parish events and contributing her cherished recipes to the church cookbook.

But of all her roles, perhaps the one she cherished most was being “Meemaw” to her grandchildren: Chloe, Cambria, and Matthew. She poured her love and wisdom into them, delighting in their growth and accomplishments, proud that the family legacy lived on so beautifully through their lives.

Dorothy and Allen’s marriage was a testament to the beauty of Christian partnership—a bond built on mutual respect, love, and shared purpose. Together, they lived their faith through action, modeling the love of Christ in their home and in their community.

Dorothy leaves behind a legacy of love, kindness, and devotion. She is survived by her daughter Monique, son Allen Jr. (Linda), grandchildren Matthew Shroyer, and Chloe and Cambria Parker, and stepdaughter Pamela Mayo. She is also survived by her sisters Ruby Mouton, Maggie Brown, and Katherine “Marie” Henderson; her sister-in-law Carolyn Parker; brother-in-law Glenne Parker; and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends who will miss her deeply.

Dorothy’s life was a blessing, her memory a treasure. She was deeply loved and will be lovingly

remembered always.

A visitation for Dorothy will be held Tuesday, April 26, 2025 from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM at St. Monica's Catholic Church 8421 W. Montgomery Rd. Houston, Texas 77088. The funeral service will immediately follow at 11:00 AM. The committal will be held from 12:45 PM to 1:15 PM at Paradise Cemetery North, 10401 W Montgomery Rd, Houston, TX 77088.