This past year Catriona has never been far from our thoughts and our heart. Taken far far too soon. Catriona was the glue that stuck everyone together.  However our thoughts, prayers and love go to Bill and their entire family on this sad day  1 year on as they are the ones who soldier on without her.

Missing you Catriona ❤️😢
Margaret and Ian Shaw, Cardross 

I was 13 when I came to Mrs. Catriona. I came from a studio with teachers who were emotionally abusive to myself and others, and ruined my love for dance. On a whim, I gave the art one last try, and made the switch over to Allegro West. This was one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life, to this day. 

Not only did Mrs. Catriona reignite my love for dance, but she loved me for me. I was loved despite my skill, despite my weight, despite my performance. She loved a chubby, tall dancer and expected the same of me that she did of every one of her dancers. I was not a great ballerina, nor was I ever meant to be. Regardless, she never stopped expecting greatness from me. I attribute a large part of the success I have experienced in my professional life to the work ethic she demanded from me. 

If I had to summarize Mrs. Catriona, the word that comes to mind is giving. She gave so much of her time and love to so many — even the dancers at her academy who would never have a professional dancing career, such as myself. She was the dawn welcome after far too long a night, and she loved me more than I thought I was worth. What I could give her played no part in what she was willing to give me. 

Mrs. Catriona will forever be someone I will owe so much to. And, in true form to many of us who aren't proactive in our relationships, I deeply regret not making the time to thank her in person for all she did for me. She deserved more from me.

Mrs. Catriona, thank you for all you have done. I am so grateful for the way you touched, changed and shaped my life. I love you always. 

Nineteen years ago this September I met a highly recommended ballet teacher with a delightful Scottish accent and dynamic personality that would prove to powerfully impact my family and dramatically change the course of my daughter's life.  It was in a shared makeshift studio in the back of a Kroger on Fry Road, as a four year old, that my daughter, Emily, met Catriona Steel for the first time.  She was her student for the next nine years.  In that time she went from that small studio to the stages of the Wortham, Hobby Center, the Grand 'Ole Opry and later, to Carnegie Hall.

In memorializing her passing, I know this earth will never be quite the same without her light that shone so brightly on hundreds of promising young dancers, their families and audiences.

Nearly nine years after our meeting, on June 12, 2009, which also marked Catriona's birthday, Emily was diagnosed with a rare cancerous brain tumor upon admission to Texas Children's Hospital.  It was while in a ballet class as she began seeing spots before her eyes and struggled to keep up with her peers, that we had come to realize something was very wrong.

Catriona Steel not only taught Emily pliés, pas de chats and pirouettes, but instilled in her the character traits that would prove to serve her well in her active battle with cancer.  Perseverance through pain, stage presence, a passion for excellence, but most of all, grace under pressure; these are the virtues she embedded in her very being.

Emily credits Jesus Christ and the doctors and nurses at Texas Children's Cancer Center with delivering her from the jaws of death at the hands of such a dreaded disease.  However, it was a brilliant, but humble Scottish ballet teacher who imparted the practical skills needed to fight with courage, determination and grace.  She taught her to face any and all obstacles with a smile that lights up the stage of life.  Catriona's light will shine on in the lives she left behind and served so selflessly.  

Catriona; a name that meant so much to so many.
My story with Catriona began almost 22 years ago when we met at an expat coffee morning in Houston. I think we both realized then that it was the beginning of a special friendship. She took me 'under her wing' as I adapted to life here.

Together we partied,we got in(and out of)trouble, we vacationed, we occasionally cried but I'll always remember the laughter.From 'cheating' at trivial pursuit, pool parties, holiday events and many, many memories where a microphone was involved we laughed and giggled our way through them.
We shared many of life's ups and downs and were always there for each other. Catriona especially would drop everything to help anyone at anytime as many people sharing their memories here can relate to.
Before Catriona, I never knew how important a best friend could be.

But to me Catriona was more than a dear friend, she was like a sister, she was family.

So many memories that cannot be shared in a few paragraphs and so many attributes and acts of selflessness to list but they will all remain in my heart forever.
My heart aches for Bill, Kirsty and Lynsey and I will be there for them ,always.
Thank you Catriona for being my friend and while you may be gone from my sight you will never be gone from my heart.
Sleep well my dear friend. Love you,always.


This past April, I had a special dinner with Mrs. Catriona Steel and her daughter Lynsey across the street from Lincoln Center. I am sad to say this was the last time I would see Mrs. Steel, but I am very grateful that it was so memorable. Lynsey and I have been the closest of friends for a decade now. We always try to find a way to celebrate our joint birthday together. It was special to have her mother with us this last time.  Lynsey, I loved sitting with you and your mother that night. She had me laughing only the way that you can! Everything was simply joyful, except the food... which was quite hilarious, indeed, as I got to see the forthrightness with which your mother handles such situations.
For as long as I've known you Lynsey, my dearest friend, I have wondered where your fiery personality derives a seemingly endless kindle. I see it is just an essential spirit that your mother passed down to you. I am so sorry that she is gone. I write this, Lynsey, from our special Pier on the Hudson with endless love.

To Mr. Steel, Kirsty and Lynsey,
I hope that your love and support for one another can help to replenish your hearts as much as is possible. I hope that as you remember her, you can truly feel her love, that you dream of her from time to time and that you can see her in a beautiful light. I hope that you can treat yourselves with as much patience and compassion as your souls deserve. You deserve happiness and peace. I am heartbroken for you all. Take time and honor your emotions. You have hearts as big as Mrs. Catriona, care for yourselves as much as she always did.

It has been an honor and privilege knowing Miss Catriona for the short time that I have been at Allegro West.
When I came to the studio I was older then others in many of my classes, and had lots of gaps in my technique however,  she never once gave up on me or let me give up on myself.  Ms. Catriona pushed me and worked with me that first year so that I could improve and fill those gaps quickly.  She continued to push me over the past years and I’ve continued to improve ... for that I’m forever grateful.
Being the only boy dancer at a studio you sometimes get forgotten, but not at Allegro West. Her and Miss LynSey always made sure that I was dancing as a male should and that I always working to become a strong male dancer.
I am forever in Ms. Catriona and Miss LynSey’s debt for all that they have done to be sure that I was able to be a part of the Allegro West Company. Again Thanks!
Ms. Catriona, I will miss your  smile, hugs and yes, even her “corrections”.  Please know how important you have been to me and as I continue to grow as a dancer you will forever be in my heart. 
Love,
Konner K




Mrs. Catriona, I feel so honored to have had you as my mentor and friend for the past 17 years. It has been hard for me to find the right words; you are genuine, hilarious, and honest to a fault. I can't count the number of times I bragged that you were "the best ballet teacher I'll ever have" You instilled in your dancers the value of respect, discipline, and responsibility- all of which made your studio so one of a kind. The most welcoming family of well behaved young students. Bradley and I loved watching you teach class, making it seem effortless while being so creative and always bringing out the best in every dancer. 
Outside of dance, I always admired how fearless you were. You lived life to the fullest and always had the biggest personality in any room. Your open heart had time to listen and share your wisdom, even if it was in the form of an old Scottish jingle noone has ever heard of. 
I remember when I moved to Katy it was instant, I lived at your house more than my own. You were always there for me picking me up from school for class, getting me into college, at the hospital when Bradley was born so early, the list goes on. I cant thank you enough for sharing your love with my family. We miss you so much.
My heart aches for Lynsey, Kirsty, and Bill as they have to learn to navigate the days without you here. Although, it brings great comfort knowing you are not gone, just with us in a different light. I know you would not want us to be sad but rather celebrate your beautiful life, keeping our heads held high. 
I love you and will do my best to keep your legacy going through kindness, hard work and a touch of humor here and there. 
It is a privilege to keep you in my heart always. 
Love,
Elizabeth, Bradley, and Joe 

Mrs. Catriona was full of life, joy, laughs and passion. My heart goes out to Lynsey, Kirsty and Mr. Bill. As hard as it is to write this, I know I should be so grateful for having her in my life, as one of the most influential people in it for the past 25 years. What a privilege to learn from her. I was able to learn ballet technique, followed by how to teach dance - but more importantly, I was able to watch Mrs. Catriona’s example of how to live life to the fullest. In the main studio at Allegro West, it reads “In Pursuit of Excellence”. Colossians 3:23 says: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord...” and Mrs. Catriona daily demonstrated this, for everyone to see. She set a beautiful example of cherishing, honoring and loving Mr. Bill, in their marriage. She took such joy in her daughters, and being their mother. Mrs. Catriona required discipline and fostered kindness among the dancers at the ballet studio. In all areas of her life, Mrs. Catriona “pursued excellence” and had her heart on a higher goal. Forever unselfish, she didn’t worry about trophies, winning competitions or promoting her own name among dance circles. Instead, she honored God by training her students’ hearts and minds to persevere through challenges, encourage each other, and show kindness. She accepted each student with grace and value, then encouraged them - encouraged all of us - to grow. Grow as dancers, grow as individuals. I am so blessed to have known Mrs. Catriona - and hope that we all have the opportunity to honor her in the way we go about our daily lives - in our marriages,  in our families, as parents, in our skills, gifts and talents, -and the way we encourage others, may we all pursue excellence.

Our family knew we were home when we came to Allegro West.  Mrs. Catriona and Ms. Lynsey both welcomed our daughters with open arms, high expectations, and love. What more could a parent ask for? 
This picture is of Alayna, our oldest daughter, when she was accepted into the Allegro West Company. It is a day my daughter will never forget as she was SO thrilled to be a part of such a special group Mrs. Catriona and Ms. Lynsey cultivated. 
Mrs. Catriona was always present. On exciting days as pictured, but also down on the floor at the dance shop when she received her first pointe shoes to make sure they were an exact match, during class, and when they exited the Allegro West building to say goodbye and thank you. 
Mrs. Catriona touched our daughters lives as well as ours as parents. Her mark will be with us forever and we couldn't be more proud and honored. 
We love you Mrs. Catriona & Ms. Lynsey!
Love,
The Parlevliet Family 
Mirko, Karri, Alayna, and Sydney

Wherever a beautiful soul has been there is a trail of beautiful memories. Ms. Catriona has definitely left a lot of beautiful memories with Sofia and all her Allegro West family. She was a very dedicated dance teacher to all her students who walked through her doors. She pushed them to the max and saw their true potential. I am forever grateful that Sofia was taught  by her. She will be extremely missed.  My thoughts and prayers go out to Lynsey and her family.

Lynsey,
I am still without words. I only knew your mom for a short while, but loved her and you so much. I will be forever grateful that Shelley introduced us, and will always smile when I think of Catriona. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you need anything.  I’ll do anything for you! My prayers for your family. I have such wonderful memories of our times in NY and Dallas and Catriona  made YAGP more fun! Love you so much, sweet girl! 

Auntie Catriona
As a little girl I remember watching you dance at one of the many Highland games and wishing I could be just like you. You were always smiling, and always had words of wisdom.
The last time I saw you was at my own mothers funeral and as ever you showed support and kindness, 
 
I will truly miss you.


On our return to Scotland in 1982 we enrolled our 4 year old daughter in Catriona’s dance school which operated from Garelochhead. We were keen for our 4 year old to mix in the community and make new friends. Some nine years later and under Catriona’s tutorship, our 13 year old daughter became the Scottish junior Ballet champion and the Scottish junior Modern Stage champion. This was the culmination of hard work on the part of both teacher and pupil and over this period, a bond developed between the two that would endure forever.
This experience very much shaped the future of our daughter who has since enjoyed a successful career as a performer, choreographer and teacher. For this reason, Catriona will always have a special place in our hearts.
We now have a 4 year old granddaughter, enrolled in dance school under the tutorship of her mum, our daughter (and others). If she aspires to the same level as her mum, Catriona’s legacy will certainly live on in our wee family.
Our thoughts are very much with Bill, Kirsty and Lynsey at this sad time. 



When we first met Catriona about 14 years ago, it was through Sue Hamilton.
We then met their husbands Bill and John and became very good friends .
Catriona was always up for a laugh and loved  a get togther with friends .
She always new all the verses to all the songs that we grew up with.
For many years now , we went to Bill and Catriona for Christmas dinner and we would  all help cook and then washup just like the big family she made us into.
If anyone was having a party or get together , if asked who was coming , the answer would be  "The usual suspects" 
They consisted of Sue and John, Catriona and Bill and Richard and myself.
Today we are one "Suspect" less.
Catriona you are not here in the flesh but you will always be here in our great memories and being loved in our hearts.
Its like losing a little sister I never had.
From the boys.
All our love and hugs always xoxo
BJ and Richard

Aunt Catriona,  
When I said goodbye to you at the airport just 4 weeks ago, I didn’t know it would be our last ever goodbye and I still can’t believe that I am writing this.  So many memories, so many cuddles, so many tears and so many laughs.  I found a quote that I sent you for your birthday – Only Aunts can love you like a mother, keep secrets like a sister, behave like a true friend and kick your butt if you need it – never a truer saying - I sure did need all of those over the years and I got my butt kicking on your last visit! You and Uncle Bill used to take me to the cinema when you were dating, I was a flower girl at your wedding, the many (eventful) family holidays together before you moved away, coming to visit you all over the years in Houston and even getting the chance to bring my daughter over a couple of years ago – what wonderful memories we have to cherish, I just wish so much that we got the chance to make more.  When Mum suddenly passed away, you were on the first plane home to help us. No matter how far away you were, you were always my “go to” and never more so than recently.  You loved with your whole heart and we loved you with all of ours.  Seeing all the tributes paid to you makes my heart burst with pride and sorrow that you didn’t get to finish the way you would have wanted to.  The last messages that we exchanged were how proud you were of Erin at her dance competition and I know how much you championed her, not just in her dancing, but in life. I know how proud you were of Kirsty and Lynsey and I promise that I will always be there for them just like you were for us. Although I am heartbroken that you are no longer here, I will go on in the knowledge that I have been so lucky and blessed to have you in my life and you will never, ever, ever be forgotten.  Love you always,
Your Flower Girl in pink
Kirsteen xxx


This is a picture of Catriona visiting us in Williamsburg, Virginia 2017. Over the last few years we got to see Catriona and Bill at least once a year. They spent the last four Thanksgivings with us. 
Catriona was a dear rock to us, especially after our son passed so suddenly in 2014. I always thought Catriona had great wisdom developed by being the youngest of 11 children ..and watching the goings-on of a large, wonderful family. If Catriona had not been an awesome Ballet Teacher she could have been a counselor - which in a way she was to so many people - young and middle-aged and elderly. Love you Catriona, our dear friend. May you R.I.P. xxx

Lynsey - words can't even begin to describe just how amazing your mum was.  I'm sorry it has taken this long to message you.  With my lack of social media, and having Naomi Hart try and track your number, I'm happy I stumbled over this page. 

I may only have danced with your mum for a few short years, but through my hazy memory, and reminiscent memories with Siobhan Dowling (also a former Cardross girl) before the news broke - I will never forget dancing on that stage, giving it our all to "I’m a bow legged chicken".  (Needless to say, the police officer in me no longer has coordination).

You and your family will always have a place to stay here in Scotland.

Forever in my heart and memories xx

Auntie Catriona,
So many memories! All our joint fun family holidays to Spain and family parties at your house in Cardross when we were kids! Then holidays when you moved to America. I first came over myself in 1998, the night I arrived you got got me drunk on brandy and made me promise not to tell my mum (she wouldn’t have been surprised anyway), you then didn’t know how to work your house alarm after Uncle Bill had set it when he went to bed so we had a sneaky cigarette,  wafting the smoke into the vent  in the en suite in my room (sorry Uncle Bill), we went camping and had a fantastic time! 
I came over again with mum in January 2001. Again we had a great time.  You drove us to Louisiana for a couple of nights and we went to a boat casino and gambled the night away....at one one point you demanded to see the captain of the boat as it was moving and you didn’t do boats, in actual fact the boat hadn’t moved from the dock (and hadn’t done for years) ....and there was no captain, you however didn’t believe this and thought we’d set sail! Lol!
In between this we seen you several times on your visits home to Scotland, but the most important visit to us  was in March 2017, when my mum suddenly passed away, you flew over immediately and organised us, were there for us and so much more, you truly went above and beyond for us and I will be forever thankful for that! 
In August 2017, my sisters and I visited along with my two eldest nieces Erin and Chloe and it became an adventure we’d never forget, we arrived the of night ‘Hurricane Harvey’  and that was us housebound for several days, the hardy wee Scottish kids still in your swimming pool, we made the most of it! Eventually we had to evacuate but you and uncle Bill despite your fears for your house still made it an adventure for us! 
Your love for life is contagious, your love, kindness, advice and fun knew no end!  I’ll miss you!
Lots of love forever 
Your ‘ Shony’ x


Such happy memories of Catriona, from Alaska & beyond. A lovely friend who will be so missed. Lots of love Linda xx

I first met Catriona when I visited Allegro West nearly 10 years ago, to examine her beautiful students.  Being a fellow Scot, we immediately connected on a personal and cultural level and I spent a happy few days with her.  She was so warm and friendly but most importantly she had such an infectious of humor.  We kept  in touch, but I was not able to return until last month when we met for dinner.  What a lovely evening we had and how much we laughed.  I will never forget her kindness and her ability to make  connections, particularly with all with her students.  She was truly an amazing teacher, a wonderful  human being that will be sorely missed.  I send my deepest condolences to her beloved family.  Rest in peace Catriona. XXXX


I wouldn't be the person I am today without Mrs. Catriona. For more than 15 years, I had the privilege of learning about dance, about life, and about love from the greatest teacher in the world. As I grew older, I came to understand how lucky I was to have this caring adult in my life that invested so much into me on her own time. It made me feel so incredibly and deeply loved, to say the least. She never gave up on me. I have continued to use the great things she has taught me, and I wouldn't have been able to be who I am without her messages of diligence, determination, and confidence. She gave me so much, I have a hard time fathoming the extent of it. After I moved away from Houston, I still felt her love every time I came back to visit Mrs. Catriona and Lynsey in the holidays. Regardless of my path in life, Mrs. Catriona always, always encouraged me, greeting me with a hug and kiss, never forgetting to remind me that I am loved. This extended beyond me of course; I saw Mrs. Catriona's love for literally everyone that walked through the door. It has been amazing and inspiring to see this. So, I hope that I can carry even a fraction of this on, because Mrs. Catriona truly embodied love, care, and passion for so many people. I can't say enough great things about her, as she means so much to me and so many others. I am so lucky and grateful I had Mrs. Catriona in my life, and I will miss her so much every day. I love you so much, Mrs. Catriona, and thank you for giving me the greatest gifts ever. I am praying for and thinking of her family.

I began training with her when I about 5 years old. From the very start she welcomed me with open arm. She guided and molded me into the person I am today. Mrs Catriona very often believed in me more than I believed in myself. She truly felt that you can be whoever you wanted to be , with hard work of course. Allegro West is a family , one I am proud to be apart of . And it is a family that grew over the years with Ms Catriona in the center of it .  She was a loving mother to both of her children and her students . She made sacrifices for us without hesitation ; loving each and every person that walked through those studio doors. She gave us her passion and knowledge of dance . She taught us in amazing ways . Throwing shoes at us, using amazing analogies,and even bouncing coins off of our bottoms. She taught me the value of hard work . And though she may not be here with us, everything she built,  Allegro West Academy Of Dance , will continue to represent her. Ms Catriona you are loved by so many and will be missed tremendously . You will always be in my heart

I was so lucky to have someone like Mrs. Catriona in my life. Even after I had left her care, she cared for me with the same ferocity that characterized everything about her. She loved her students enormously, celebrated life joyfully, and gave so much to others naturally.  I remember thinking how crazy it was to have a teacher that still had such a strong presence in my life, and how weird that must've seemed to others. But to me, it was so natural. Everytime I came home from school, the only people I would see were my family first, then Mrs. Catriona and Lynsey. She created an environment that allowed for great relationships to develop. I can say with confidence that the lessons I learned from her were incredibly valuable and shaped me into the person I am today. I was taught what true hard work and determination looked like and quickly learned manners and respect in her classes. At times, I was almost surprised with how much she cared for our success, but I can look back and appreciate it so well now. I will carry her with me forever by making her proud and passing on that which she gave to me. Counting my blessings and praying for her family.

Eight years ago, we moved to Katy and lived next door to Bill and Catriona. The first day we were in our home, we left our golden retrievers in our yard and went to run some errands. When we returned, we realized the dogs had gotten out of our yard  and made friends with the neighbors. Later, we found out that Bill had told Catriona that he had met the neighbors. She quickly asked if they were nice and he jokingly said he wasn't sure but they (our dogs) were swimming in their pool. 
That comical moment was the beginning of a dear friendship to an amazing couple and their daughters.  From sitting on each others porches with a glass of wine and a good conversation, to taking walks around the neighborhood, golf trips, babies, birthdays, and sitting at their holiday table, they became our family. Catriona and Bill were in essence, a set of grandparents to our children. To say that they adored her, is an understatement. They loved to run over to her house where she always had a treat or a toy waiting for them.  More importantly, they loved the way that she loved them. She called them her "best boy and best girls".  
I will forever miss our long conversations of life and family, the example of marriage that she and Bill set for James and I, and the way that she spoke with pride and admiration for Kirsty and Lynsey and the dreams that she had for them, and the way that she loved my babies as her own. 
I pray that I can have the zest for life, love of family, and work ethic that she embodied and continue to pass these  on to her best boy and best girls. She will forever be a part of our family, as will Bill, Lynsey, and Kirsty. 
Love you always, Catriona.

To my coolest,most loving and thoughtful Aunt Catriona. We first met in 1981 and I have never forgotten that. If it were not for you I would not have the most wonderful and cherished life today. I am completely heartbroken that you have been taken before your time and my thoughts go to Uncle Bill ,Kirsty and Lindsay. Until we meet again Aunt  Catriona. You will forever be in my heart ♥️. Sleep well my lovely. 

With deep sadness and a profound sense of loss I send my kindest thoughts and sincere condolences to you, Bill, your girls and the rest of Catriona's family. In my mind's eye she is in first year at Hermitage, sitting next to me in tutor group.....what a wonderful woman she was to become.....she'll never really leave any of us. xxx

Mrs. Catriona Steel is watching from above. She will be dearly missed....
Down here we have lost more than just a great dance teacher. 
There are never going to be enough words to express how thankful I am for everything she has done for my daughter Enya. 
Thank you for welcoming her with open arms, providing her with a home away from home, for the countless hours she has spent working with her, for providing her with all the tough love she needed, for inspiring, helping, and motivating her to achieve things she never thought possible. She has shown her that dancers truly are family.
She has made one of the greatest impacts on my daughter’s life. She is the big reason as to why she does what she does and she has touched not only Enya but all her students in a very special way.
With Love,

I loved the way Catriona always cheered on my students as well as her own. She was very supportive of all students of dance. I will miss our talks at YAGP and NYCDA.  
Joyce 

I remember when we used to play on the roundabout in the park on Old Luss Road.we used to see who could sit on and get dizzy  the longest then see if we could walk in a straight line....we had so much fun ..
We used to go to Stewarts dancing when we were about 10...lots of memories...💐💐.RIP Caitriona..💐💐

It was a Friday night ,and Mrs. Catriona was trying to get me to use all the space in the room. After her many attempts of getting up from her chair and walking me through the  exercise, she stopped and said to me,” If you give up now, you will never see what you could’ve  accomplished.” I will forever remember this in her honor.

Catriona, 

You gave so much of yourself to all of us and never questioned it. You taught all of us and our daughters with your motherly wisdom.  Through the ups and downs you were always there. The laughs we had still make me laugh out loud today. From string bikini shopping with Lexie and Rachel H in Florida to eating marshmallows on Cheetos with Lexie and Daphne down in Galveston, whenever we got together the laughter seldom stopped. You were so humble that I don’t actually think you were capable of understanding the impact you have had on so many lives. You are sorely missed for now but I know we will laugh together again.  I will continue to pray for the complete healing of your family. 
Love,
Susan

Mrs Catriona, 

With my family’s heartfelt prayers and thoughts to yours, we will truly miss you. We will never forget the impact that you had on Brianna, our family and so many across the globe.  You opened the eyes of the world to see the beautiful gifts and talents of dancers who entered your studio in only your amazing way! Thank you for being transparent about the challenges we would face and your bravery to defy the odds, that dancers, no matter what their background, can dance on the stage for any audience.  So many dancers will dance bold, fierce and with perfection because of your teaching and what you instilled in their character. Thank you to the Steel family for sharing Ms. Catriona  and truly being the support to make so many dancers dreams come true. We pray that God give you comfort and peace during your time of grief. 

I am so heartbroken for the loss of Ms. Catriona and I still have a hard time processing it. I counted on her to improve my dance technique and I feel lost without her. In the past two years, she not only worked on my weaknesses, but also my confidence. She was a tough-love teacher and that’s one of the things I’ll miss most about her. Although she constantly gave me corrections, she never forgot to tell me what I was doing well and she always remembered to encourage me. She believed in me and taught me to always work hard, and be the best I can be. In the last week of my classes with her, she taught me to not only start beautifully but also to maintain it and finish strong. She taught me how to persevere and never give up, even in the hardest times. I am extremely grateful for everything she taught me, helping me become better in dance as well as in life. My memories with her will be stored vividly in my heart forever. I will miss you dearly, Ms. Catriona.  Love, Kathleen 

What Mrs. Catriona and I lived, is unforgettable. Culture, countries and languages were never a barrier in her life.
She opened the doors of Allegro West to me unconditionally. She invited me to work by her side and in that road, I met a teacher who was straightforward, creative, cheerful, generous, smart, positive, disciplined, nature lover, illimitable, and outstanding in her work. Above all Mrs. Catriona had a benevolent heart. She was an extraordinary wife and mother, a unique woman to admire.
Today, I am thankful to the Lord for having been by the side of an amazing person, for giving me the opportunity to work and learn every day from her.
I present my everlasting thanks for sharing time and space with me. Mrs. Catriona, thank you for being a part of the raising of my daughters and educating them through the astounding discipline of Ballet. 
She will always live in our hearts. 

 It’s hard for me to find all the words to describe what Ms. Catriona meant to me. I am ever so grateful to her for taking me into her studio. And even though I trained under her for only two years, she really helped me be a stronger person and a stronger smarter dancer. She taught me lessons that I  will carry with me for the rest of my life. I will always remember her funny analogies in class and her great personality. She is such a generous and strong  person and I am so grateful to have had her as my dance teacher. Whenever I am dancing now, I always think of her voice in my head and the corrections she has given me these past years. Although she is physically gone, she is still in our hearts. Thank you for being such an amazing part of my life, and I will never forget you Ms. Catriona. 

Love, Caitlin 

Our hearts are broken but know heaven gained a Angel... what a lovely talented witty women who gave so much to so many. Amy Blake’s Academy of Dance will forever be grateful for her sharing her students and  joining us at our Merging Forces concerts. We will forever hold her close to our hearts. 
In love,
Amy Blake

Mrs. Catriona...  Words can't describe how much you will be missed. You had such a massive influence on my love for dance and who I am as a person today. I will never forget how you opened not only your studio but your heart to me. You were the first to pick me back up when I was down on myself. Your love for dance and life itself will always stay with me, and I will never forget you. Thank you for everything. Rest in peace. ❤

Kirsty, Our hearts and prayers are with you and your Family. I'am so sorry. We are here for you. Love you dearly. God Bless.

I’m still in shock by this whole thing. 

Mrs. Catriona was like a second mom to me, and taught me everything I know about ballet. By yelling corrections at me in class so the technique was beaten into my body (by using anything to help like hangers, pens, shoes, Mrs. Stickler, and etc) so I can become the best dancer I can be. Even though that I didn’t really know what my body was doing half of the time (total Bambi), she was patient and always supporting me with love and care. I will miss the road trips we had together, like the time when you took me and Rhys to Orange, TX for a performance and got us some shakes from Wendy’s while playing Ballet QuizUp during the entire ride (you were the best at that game)! Your legacy will carry on through all the dancers you inspired and helped with their growth as dancers and human beings (and there was a lot of us that were affected by your kindness)! I wish the Steel Family, my Allegro West Family, and anyone else that knew her a lot of love during this difficult time. Will love and miss ya forever, Mrs. Catriona!😘😢💃🏼 #RIPCatriona #Teachingballetinheaven #illkeepmakingsuremyfeetdontsickle #Adageneverstops #iwouldntbewhoiamwithoutya 

Love:
Your Brittles💙

On behalf of the Royal Academy of Dance, we extend our most profound sympathy to Catriona’s family and friends in their time of such great loss and grief.

Catriona became a Registered Teacher of the RAD in 1997 and was a beloved and valued member. She will be remembered for her generosity and unhesitating willingness to share her time and knowledge with aspiring and experienced teachers alike. 
ROYAL ACADEMY OF DANCE USA


Catriona, you will be sadly missed in the world of dance... your attention to detail and wonderful manner made your pupils a joy to examine.
I classed you as a personal friend, even though we only met professionally.
I send my love and heartfelt sympathy to those you’ve left behind.
Rest in Peace dear lady x

Ms. Catriona Steel, I know I would not be where I am today without you opening your doors to me as a new, young business owner. Through our conversations, your teachings and your blessing..I am able to stand on my own two feet today. TopFlight Dance Center and Company exist because of you. I have learned how to stand up for myself, let people go in love and light and stick to my worth and vision because I had a mentor to look up to like you. You and I have wiped each others tears when our hearts have hurt and I am forever grateful to had your shoulder to cry on. Thanks for giving me the courage to move on into my own space and let me know as you wiped my tears, "It is time for you to fly.." So much of you will live through our dance community and on a worldwide basis because of your passion for people, professionalism and your craft! To all of The Allegro West and Steel family...My heart goes out to you and my condolences to the loss of your heartbeat. Lynsey your mother instilled something in you and your sister that is undeniably great! I absolutely love the amazing woman you were Ms. Catriona. I will forever hear your lessons, lectures and guidance in my ear.

Bill,

I am so sorry for your loss. Truly wish I could be there to show my respect. We are thinking about you and your daughters through this time and will hold each of you in our hearts and prayers.




I first met Catriona 22 years ago when I was only 5 years old. She & my mom were best friends so therefore Catriona became a second mom to me. I have such fond memories of spending the holidays each year together, which became a tradition among our 2 families. She was there when I was bringing baby dolls & barbies to her house, supported my awkward teenager phase & smiled as she held my first born child in her arms. Catriona always thought it was surreal that I came into her life as a small child & now I was married and she was meeting my babies. She was always so joyful and her laugh extremely contagious, I can still hear it now. I will forever cherish the memories I have of her. Rest easy Catriona, know that you were a one of a kind, joy in this world. It was an honor knowing you.

Aunt Catriona,  so many years, so many memories. I wish that we could make more , taken from us too soon and unexpectedly.The hole  that you leave will never be filled . You were the first to support any of us when it was needed and your  family always came first . Without you I would never have who I have on my life and experienced the love and security of family.   So glad that you just came home to Scotland so recently and we managed to spend time together . Love and miss you  xxxxx 

I spent many afternoons and evenings as a teenager with the Steels. Catriona was just: Mom. Never fully supportive of Lynsey and I’s shenanigans, but never fully against them either; at least it didn’t feel that way.  She would shake her head at us, rolling her eyes, but still smile. 

I will never forget the time she came in on Lynsey and I cackling at some, probably inappropriate, joke; and she yelled at us “You two girls have a dirty laugh!” It was like she knew we were up to no good, and wanted to let us know in her own subtle, but hilarious way that she was onto us. She felt more to me like a cool Aunt that would bail us out if we needed it, than my partner-in-crime’s mother. 

And she did bail us out. She bailed my boyfriend out after setting his face on fire one particularly interesting New Year’s Eve. She bailed me out of a terrible, terrible hair-do moments before Prom. She bailed us out of that teenage hunger and boredom that strikes right as school lets out for the day. She was always there for us when we needed an adult, but didn’t want to ask for an adult. 

She was full of wisdom and demanded respect. And she was so incredibly generous, and truly one of the funniest people I’ve ever met. She was always part of the joke, part of the party, and she made me feel like part of her family. 

Dear Ms. Catriona, 

My teacher. 

Where would I be without you? 

You’re the one who believed that I could be a part of this crazy world, and you lovingly whipped me right into it. I thank God you came into my life when you did. You taught me so much about being a dancer, and a person. 
 
It’s shocking that you’ve gone so suddenly, I just can’t wrap my mind around it. 

 I’m proud to be your student, and will proudly keep on singing “adage never stops” in a terribly off-key voice, and always remember that “a bad works-man always blames his tools.” 

I love you Ms. C, and I miss you already. 

Your “Sassy-little-madam”, 

Lexie

I’m Catriona’s nephew. Because of the spread of ages in the family I’m not so much younger than her. My brother and I were always mortally embarrassed when she and her friend used to chase us round the room for a hug and kiss. Catriona was an amazing aunt and will be very sadly missed.


  My dear friend Catriona, I still can’t believe you are gone.
  The first time we met, 10-year-old Courtney was taking her first ballet class with you and Brittney was in a baby carrier about 18 years ago. I watched in amazement how you knew in an hour what she needed to work on and was already hatching a plan. I always admired how you would look at any dancer that walked across your path and say “they have so much potential” (contrary sometimes to what my eyes would see and was thinking – you always saw an amazing flower ready to bloom) and you went to work nonstop thinking about what does this dancer need to become the dancer they could be. To watch you pour your heart and soul into each of your dancers was an honor because you never did it for the money or accolades, your award was watching that child bloom into their full potential and conquering their challenges!
   As friends, we were quite a pair – total opposites. Your bigger-than-life charismatic personality and witty humor always brought a laugh or smile to my face. You never knew a stranger; you would light up a room in an instance and would charm anyone with that Scottish accent that you started talking to as I sat and observed with a big smile on my face. It benefited us on many occasions on our travels and at the studio. 
  Many might not know the philanthropist you were, but I was privileged to see it on a regular basis, your heart was bigger than Texas. Whether it was a dancer that could not afford to train or compete, a family that just had a loss, or a cause that was dear to your heart – you would give the shirt off your back in a heartbeat.
   As a second mom to Courtney, Jennifer and Brittney, you made such an impact on their lives as dancers and human beings. They will carry on your love of teaching, dance and fun Scottish games/songs.
   I was so blessed to have you be such a big part of our lives. I rejoice in the fact I will see you at the “barre” in heaven when it is my time to join Him. ❤

Mrs. Catriona, you have always supported and believed in me even when I was struggling to support myself. You were more than merely a dance teacher... you were my second mom. You pushed me to make sure that I always was my best me inside and out of the studio. You taught me strength, grace, and beauty in dance and in life. I still am having a difficult time processing that when I walk into the studio you will not be there physically, but you will always lie in my heart. You created a home for me in your loving arms and for that I cannot thank you enough. I will forever miss being called “Pascale”, long searches for your keys, and listening to the many songs that you have introduced me to. I love you so much and my life will be forever impacted by your love and affection. Rest In Peace Mrs. Catriona, you will never be forgotten💔

On the passing of our young cousin Catriona,we would like to send our condolences to her husband and daughters.Also to her brothers and families,many good times we had ! You are all in our thoughts and prayers.Rest in peace. Isabella Margaret Jean Helen .xxxx

So shocked and saddened to hear of Catriona’s passing.  It is impossible to adequately describe the amazing woman she was.  She welcomed my daughter, Kate, into her studio when Kate was truly a lost soul.  She helped Kate find the joy and love for dance that had lived within her for most of her life.  She worked tirelessly to help and support her and brought her back to the dancer she had been and so much more.  She included her in everything as if she had been in her company forever.  She helped her achieve a lifelong dream of danicing at YAGP.  And she loved and supported her as she moved on to her next chapter with Tulsa Ballet Company.  The moment you met Catriona you knew she was far more than a gifted dance teacher.  She had a love and a light that filled up a room.  She had only known us for a month when she gave us the key to her studio so Kate could practice when the studio was closed.  That is the kind of person she was—trusting, kind beyond measure.  She was so excited when Kate landed at St. Andrew’s in Scotland and promised to visit her, which I know she would have.  She will be missed more than words can describe.
Much love to her husband and beautiful girls who she talked about every time I saw her.

Catriona - my first ever dance teacher.  Taught me 1981-1991.  My first show, first exam, first competition and first audition.  With her support I danced with The Scottish Ballet, became the Scottish Ballet Champion and the Scottish Modern Champion and gained places at various vocational schools.  I remember dancing with Catriona in both Garelochhead and Cardross.  I spent lots of time with her at her family home in Cardross and indeed held both Kirsty and Lynsey as babies.  Dance has been and still is my life.  As Catriona was making her journey to dance in heaven my 3 year old daughter was literally stepping onto stage.  Clearly Catriona influenced my direction in life which in turn has influenced my daughter.  Rest in Peace Catriona.  Lots of Love and thanks always.  Bill, Kirsty and Lynsey - you are in my thoughts and I am sending you love and strength x x x x

Miss Catriona was a wonderful fun loving woman to know and work with. I have enjoyed our business relationship over many years and friendship. The dance community has lost another wonderful teacher. She will be dearly missed. 

Catriona was my daughters first dance teacher at 4 yrs old in cardross church halls! Catriona took maureen to her first competition  in mussleburgh , and from there maureen developed a love for ballet. I have memories of kirsty endlessly practising  "Im a bow legged chicken" in Cardross  church halls along side of maureen practicing  her song and dance...and Catriona shouting "louder". Haha...she was not only  a dance teacher but a friend . She had a love for every pupil  she taught. She will be sadly missed by everone .Her memories  will live on.She was one special lady! R.I.P  Catriona.x💞❤

Bill, Kirsty, Linsey and family, our thoughts and love are with you at this unbelievably sad time. Our memories are of  many years ago,  visiting when Ian was working in Texas, and having the pleasure of celebrating Christmas with your  family and friends.  We also felt very privileged to visit and see  Catriona’s much highly acclaimed dance academy in its infancy. What an amazing achievement, what an amazing person.  We also have happy memories of life in Cardross before you headed off to Alaska. Catriona touched so many people’s lives in so many different ways. She was unique.  We hope you can take some comfort in the love and support of family and friends who held her in such high esteem,  to help you stay strong at this very difficult time.  Love Ian and Margaret .

I have so many happy memories of Catriona - going to Garelochhead on Saturday mornings to teach dancing then over to the Vale to work in the Dancewear shop, going to Filey to the festival, BATD competitions, dancing displays and the list goes on...... And I have a very vivid picture in my mind  of her and Bill on their wedding day and getting ready to leave the reception. Woven throughout  each of those memories is  the sound of Catriona’s laughter! She was always such good fun. I haven’t seen Catriona for many years, although a couple of years ago we connected again through Facebook, but she still has a special place in my heart. May she rest in peace and may her family in the USA and Scotland  know God’s strength and peace during these difficult days. 

My dear friend  Catriona, can’t  believe you are gone . Will always remember how you took me under your wing when I first arrived in Houston. The parties we had, the singing of Scottish songs, the laughter and the tears.  Sleep well hen, god bless xxx. 

We were blessed to walk in the studio doors last summer and welcomed with open arms.   All year Ava has asked for and looked for Mrs  Catriona.   She could make my girl light up in the most special ways.   She took her weaknesses and showed her ways she could make them her strengths.   She hugged her in and hugged her out every single day.  Demanding her best and pouring in positivity.     This Summer was no exception.   She always made her feel lovely.   Ava said she will miss her so much more than a wee bit.   
My little nugget Lily Grace was terrified of her last year.  She would tell her she was going to put a target on her butt, but she quickly fell in love with her too.   She never made her feel like she couldn’t keep up or stay all day.   She made everyone smile just being in her presence.  
  Her students are Lyndsey are simply breath taking to watch all come together and we are blessed with the friendships and mentor ships from a Allegro West.    Thank you for always making us feel welcome.   Praying faithfully for your family during this difficult time.   
Amber Riley 

I am so heartbroken over the loss of Ms. Catriona. She has always been there for me, and I will never forget the important lessons she has taught me. I am so thankful for how she has corrected me, shaped me, and helped me grow into the dancer I am now. I can still hear her voice when I am dancing, and I know that she will always have a place in my heart. Ms. Catriona has always been like a second mom to me, and I will always remember the role she played in my life. I will always enjoy the sweet memories such as dancing to Scottish songs at Christmas and listening to her wisdom about dancing. I will miss you 💔

Attached with love from Lily Grace Hamilton 
9 years old (Summer ballet student)

Catriona Steel..... thank you for allowing me to be a part of your Allegro West Family for so long while I taught in Houston. Please understand what a GIFT this woman was to young dancers. It was an honor to watch her teach and mold some of THE BEST ballet dancers I have ever seen.

Her sharp, and spicy Scottish wit kept everyone on their toes and she guided with such love and compassion. 

Teach those angels how to dance up there and please know how much I appreciated and respected you.
Until we meet again, I thank you for everything and am so sorry to see you pass on. 

To all of her family and students..... I pray for you and send love and light.

You will always hold a very special place in my heart.

Love you ,
Kiki Lucas

Ms Catriona & I had so much in common; our love for Ballet & a passion for sharing it with our students. I was so very lucky to spend time in the most gracious Steel home and so greatly enjoyed teaching at Allegro West. May Ms Catriona’s talent & passion live on through all of her wonderful lessons. God bless 

The Houston dance community and, more specifically, the Allegro West dance family have suffered a great loss. Catriona Steel was a gifted and dedicated dance instructor.  She cared about her students with an often tough, grandmotherly love that not only developed her students as dancers, but also as human beings. She has been almost a daily staple in my daughter's life for the past 5 years and I'm so grateful.  She was demanding and insisted on discipline, yet her love of dance encouraged her students to grow in the art of ballet. She was quick to correct, but just as quick with a hug. She didn't hesitate to call you out when she felt you weren't working up to your ability (or her standards) but, she would also offer encouragement. She was a real treasure,  one of a kind and will be greatly missed.  To her husband and daughters, I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words that can make this easier. May the Lord our God hold you in the palm of his hand. ❤

Mrs. Catriona was my ballet instructor at HCC and also at her studio. 
I have never met someone so dedicated, so sweet and so strong.  
I have always been a sub-par dancer, and somehow she never said I shouldn’t do ballet; maybe she knew just how much I love it, and never said anything negative about my technique or height (since I’m rather short and all of her pupils were/are exceptional dancers)
Always a joy to be around, she would always share a smile-she inspired kindness and above all, love for dance.

I will forever be thankful.

Thank you Mrs. Catriona. Rest In Peace.

It’s hard to describe the mark that Ms. Catriona made on our lives. She entered our world during my daughters transition from sickness to health and to say that she taught my daughter and I both so much would be a reckless understatement. She was firm yet loving, kind and devoted and lived out loud. She taught Jordan so much more than technique, she taught her to persevere, the value of hard work, how to accept criticism.. Catriona “normalized” her and instantly made her one of the pack. She inspired her and opened Jordan’s mind to a life that she had never seen for herself.. and set her on the path she is on today. We owe Ms. Catriona so very much. Though we left Houston a couple of years ago, we often talk about Catriona and lessons that Jordan learned there.... lessons that have left a lasting impact far beyond dance. We send her family as well as our Allegro West dance family all of our love and pray for comfort for their very broken hearts.

OBITUARY

Catriona Mclachlan Steel

June 12, 1957 – June 16, 2019

Forest Park Westheimer Funeral Home and Cemetery

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