I want to extend my deepest sympathies to the Cuellar family. I knew Ben from the master's program, and I truly adored him. He was a dynamic, kind, funny and caring man, whom I will always be proud to have been able to call my friend. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Dear Juan and family, Keeping you in prayer during this very difficult time.

Juan, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.  I'm also sorry that I didn't get to meet Ben.  He seems to have been a great person, so loved by those he taught.  You and your family will be in my prayers. Rest in peace Ben.

Juan, our heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family.  May your faith in God help you find comfort and peace.

John and Charlene Hoxter

Juan,
Although most of us never met Benjamin in person, it is obvious from the many kind words and heartfelt compliments, that Belynda and I, along with your entire professional family knew a significant part of Ben, just by knowing you.   Quoting from the many Guest Book entries:  Friend, loyal, helpful, good natured, jokes, humor, funny, witty, sarcasm, knowledge, intelligent, smart, teacher, mentor, respect, attentive, compassionate, sympathetic, and the broadest praise: Role Model.  If I were to use these words to describe one of my colleagues, Juan Cuellar would be the first name that Belle would respond with.  

Please take some comfort that in Ben's life, he managed to touch many in a way that you can be proud.  Those connections will forever be positive influences on Ben's contacts.   

Ben, Juan and your entire family are in our prayers and thoughts.

On behalf of Sylvia my sister in Christ and co-member in the helping Hands Ministry at Lakewood Church, I pray that God be with Sylvia and the family where He will grant you peace and understanding while trusting in Him...

In memory of Benjamin Cuellar.  May he rest in peace and may the Lord watch over his family and give them peace and comfort during this difficult and sorrowful time.

  I met Ben thru Jeff at starbucks immediately he gave you a need to speak to him .. we had some intresting conversations  in the short time I knew him  everytime I saw him on his motorcycle I asked him if I could ride it I was never able to convince him although I think I almost did when he asked to see my motorcycle license ... but no still didnt talk him into letting me  we were not close friends at all  nothing like  some whom have written kind words about Ben here but Im absolutely sure not being closer to Ben  was,,, is, my loss.
   My deepest condolence goes out to his family friends and students  ....
Victor H. Santillan.

You were funny and smart. You will be missed.

Ben, you will be greatly missed at Stratford. I always enjoyed working with you especially when you were my mentor. You were always so helpful to me when I was a new teacher.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If there's anything we can do to help, please do not hesitate to call on us. A donation has been made to NAMI in Ben's memory.

Ben Cuellar was a good man.  He was funny and fiercely loyal to those he loved.  He will be missed by many.

Juan, you and your family will be in our hearts and prayers.

Lindsey, my thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time.  I never met Ben, but he sounds like he was a truly wonderful person. I'm here for you guys if you need anything. <3

Juan
They say that time does not erase what love has created, I hope that the good memories that you have of your son can help you through this difficult period.  My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Juan - Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family in the loss of your beloved son.

My most heartfelt condolences to you and yours.  We are just not supposed to survive our Children.  Take solace in Knowing a groundswell movement of hundreds of your friends are spreading the word and sharing your sorrow.

Juan - I was so saddened to hear of Ben's passing.  I will never forget his wit, intelligence, and good humor as a child.  It sounds like he maitnained these qualities as an adult.  I'm so sorry for your heartache and for your family's.  I will keep you all in my prayers.
with love - Sharon

Mr. Cuellar,
I will never forget English class with you my sophomore year. Ever since day one I hated school and thought it was pointless. But you, Mr. Cuellar, taught me more than any other teacher and I actually enjoyed it. Even though almost every class you separated me, Cameron, & John, I always looked forward to your class. Your jokes, sarcasm, and incredible knowledge to teach will be deeply missed. 
I don't think I will ever forget you. Thank you and rest in peace.

There is not a time in my life that Ben was not a part of.
My son's midle name is "Alejandro" .
My Husband kept warm with your sweater when we were at the hospital for our baby to be born. And when he grows up he will know you were "El Capitán".
Words can't express how much I will miss you!

Within the Cuellar family you will find some of the most devoted, caring, and passionate people who all seem to be blessed with a unique penchant for witty, good natured humor.

I was so sorry to hear about Ben's passing.  Juan, you and your family have my deepest condolences.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

May the family and friends of Benjamin find peace and closeness. I am Benjamin's Aunt Silvia's church member. Silvia is very special to us. Our church family is praying for Silvia and her extended family.

Rest in Peace, Ben, you were our patient for many years and you were such a good kid, you will be missed, Ms.Rangel(Sanchez) our prayers are with you always.

Juan and family

We were very sad to learn of Benjamin's passing. May God grant you peace in this time of loss, and wrap his arms around your family and give you comfort and healing. Our prayers are with all of you.

Mr. Cuellar was someone I looked up to. I realize this only now after he is gone. I remember his class and our discussion about respect. He understood where I was coming from better than many a teacher. Though we were not close, I thought of him as a friend, and a role model. As I hold him in high respects, I pray for him, his family, and the people who enjoyed his class as I did. He recommended me for an advanced class, and I returned
 to his class in Analyzing Visual Media. He helped me greatly when I was injured. Some teachers showed no sympathy, and gave me no breaks. He lightened my workload so I could focus on my recovery. When I returned to Stratford this year, I was disappointed that he was no longer teaching there. Thank you Mr. Cuellar. I will always hold your memory. I hope to attend your funeral, as I will miss you greatly.

Rest in Peace,Mr Cuellar,you helped me in more ways than you can ever know..

Ben was an amazing person. The kind of guy everyone should meet at least once in their lives. I will never forget all of our talks and time shared. Our New Orleans trip has always been and will always be one of my greatest memories. I love you Ben and miss you dearly.

Ben was a great guy who left us too early. I remember fun times in high school and he always had a good heart. He will truly be missed..

Ben was a really good brother I remember wen we used to go outside and get onions cus he was Goin to make tuna for us those were the good old times.but I knw I haven't seen you in a while but wat I really du knw that you will always b in my heart bro.luv you very much Ben. Anabell Rangel

Ben we didnt always see eye to eye. I still can't believe this is happening....I love you so much and I know that most of all Jack and mom....and  they're hurting but we hope you're at peace. Love you bro.

always,

Lucy

Ben was always to first to help me out with a technology problem in my classroom or to share a new idea. He was an amazingly compassionate teacher--and an astoundingly gifted writer. I missed him so much when he left us to pursue full-time graduate work--his departure was such a loss to Stratford's English department. He included everyone in his invitations whether they were young or old, dear friends or merely acquaintances. My prayers now are for Ben's family here on earth.  I know that in the future they will be reconciled with Ben in heaven, and we here at Stratford will see our good friend again.

Ben, I am still in shock. I'll see you later teddy bear. Rob and I send our condolensces to the Ben's family.

Ben was a good friend of my daughter and she spoke very highly of him. Please accept my condolences at this very sad time.

Juan and all your family have our sincere condolences for your loss.  Juan my friend you are also in our prayers.  Bob & Jan Brown

Ben will remain in our hearts for forever. My deepest condolences to the Cuellar Family.

Please Benjamin's extended family receive our sincere condolences for your incommensurable loss.

My most sincere condolences to Juan and all his family.
May God's love bring peace and give strength to everyone in your family through these hard times.  
Descanza en Paz Benjamin!

Ben, I immediately had to know you when I met you at the New Jersey Writing Project training.  I thought-this guy is so funny and witty.  I must be his friend. And I was so fortunate to become just that. Thank you for being such a wonderful person in this world. I have many memories and I will never forget you.

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family, Juan. I pray that God gives you and your family strength through this difficult time.

May the good lord grant eternal rest to Ben and fortitude to the Cuellar family in bearing this loss. UT & Eno.

I clearly remeber mr.Cuellar, he was my sophmore english teacher four years ago. I remember loving his class and even though he had a sarcastic tone, it made me love it more. We never talked much since i was quiet but he was very attentive to my writing since he would put super helpful comments. I will always remember Mr.Cuellar

I was one of his students at Stratford  he was one of the best teachers I have ever had if it weren't for him teaching me,  I would had never had passed last year I allwayse. thought of him as a friend in a sort of way he also taught me a little bit about life . I used to love listening to his hilarious jokes every outher day in class. Even thow rude students made rude remarks towards him he always kept his head high. Mr .cuellare   thanks for the great memories you will always be remembered by me. Rest in peace.

I remember hearing many stories about Ben, his humor, and his love for his family. God grant you strength and comfort in the coming days as you mourn his passing.  Our family will keep you all in our prayers.  Trust in God's infinite love and mercy and know that He is with you.

Mr. Cuellar was the best teacher I ever had. He made learning interesting and his wit always seemed to make me laugh. He was such a gift to my school and he impacted my life in so many ways. I pray for your family and friends, Mr. Cuellar. Be at peace.

He was one of the best teachers I ever had. It was an honor to know him, and I will never forget him

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you Juan, Rhea, Lindsey and Chandler during this most difficult time.  I am so very sorry for your great loss.  Always cherish the wonderful memories and special times you all had together.

Mr. Cuellar was an amazing teacher, if it weren't for his teaching style, I probably would have still been a terrible writer, I will miss his witty responses, and the way he use to stroke his beard in class :(

The world has lost a great guy and gifted teacher. Prayers to Ben's family. He will be greatly missed.

Mr. Cuellar was my homeroom teacher for four years and one of the most amazing teachers i have ever encountered he will be greatly missed.

Mr. Cuellar was an outstanding teacher.  He taught me how to be a better writer.  My writing improved so much while I was his student.  
He had a book of all of his writings.  He would let us look at it when we had free time.  He was such a good writer.  
I remember details about a lot of his stories.  
A good teacher like Mr Cuellar is hard to come by.  I appreciate the efforts he made to help us learn more about the books we were reading.
He said he was leaving to learn more about literature, it seemed like he couldn't get enough of learning and reading.  He was very smart.  I will always remember him and miss him and I will treasure his memory.

OBITUARY

Benjamin Alejandro Cuellar

July 12, 1982 – January 13, 2013

Heights Funeral Home

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