Joyce Marilyn Kitay, PHD, 76, of Honolulu, a psychologist and family and marriage counselor, died November 13, 2010. She was born in Los Angeles, California. She is survived by her husband, Jerry; son, Chad Kitay; daughter, Jill Pargoe; step-brother, John Nilinger; 2 grandchildren. Visitation only from 12:00 p.m. to 1:00 p.m. on Sun., November 21st at Borthwick Mortuary Mauka Chapel; graveside services and burial 2:00 p.m. at Hawaiian Memorial Park. Arrangements under the direction of Borthwick Mortuary, Honolulu, HI.