Name: Lakeshore Memorial Services
Address: Holland, MI

Louise & family, today’s service was lovely. 
Paul had such a profound impact on so many and that was undeniable by the crowd gathered in his name today. 
I only had the distinct pleasure of knowing Paul these last few years. Every interaction we had brightened my day; just by being in his company. I  learned so much from him, listening to his very wise words, stories he shared and life lessons we talked deeply about.  I feel I am truly  a more purpose driven person because of his influence; making me slow down, be present and loving everyone around me. He had that effect on many! 
Paul will be greatly missed.

Dear Louise and Family,

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Paul was an incredible presence at St. Francis, and I feel truly blessed to have known him. His outgoing nature and his gift for making people feel welcome and connected were something special.

Paul was not only a mentor but also a dear friend. I will always appreciate the ways he supported me in my ministry, both at St. Francis and beyond. His encouragement and wisdom meant so much to me, and I know I am just one of many who were impacted by his kindness and generosity.

One of my favorite memories of Paul is how he mentored a young Hope College student who was preparing to enter the Church. Paul took him under his wing, training him to be an usher, introducing him to the community, and making sure he felt at home. That was Paul—always looking out for others, making sure they felt seen, valued, and included.

Please know that you are in my prayers. May God grant you comfort and peace in this difficult time, and may Paul rest in the embrace of our loving Father.

With my deepest sympathy,
Ricardo Valdez

I met Paul when we were both Tulip Time tour guides.  He was always very professional and knowledgeable while doing it all with a sense of humor….and he always brought treats. I will miss him as will the other guides who had the privilege of working with him.  Rest in heavenly peace Paul.

In sympathy and compassion for those left behind, and in faith that we all will meet again.

To the family of Paul Kuiper,
After moving to Holland in September of ‘23, Paul, with unmatched enthusiasm, gave myself and a visiting friend an incredible tour of his beloved, Holland.  Paul’s vivacity for life, people, and the area touched me, deeply.  Louise is a wonderful soul and I wasn’t surprised to see the positive energy they both brought with them, wherever they journeyed.

Paul’s commitment to God, and others, to the wonderful “ministry” at Renew Therapeutic Riding Center”, is the example that I believe we can all learn from, and hold as a bright light, and remarkable honor to have encountered.

He will never be forgotten, and will long live on in our memory, and hopefully, actions.  It will take a village to make up for what Paul accomplished.

With belief he is in Heaven, and love for all the good he bestowed in Holland, Michigan, may “Holland”  rise to Paul’s great standards.

Prayers to his family suffering this immense loss,
Karen Church
(Friend of Louise and Paul)

So sorry ( and shocked) to hear of Paul’s passing. I met him at Our Lady of the Lake and our paths often crossed there. We also volunteered together at Tulip Time for many years. It won’t be the same this year without him.

My deepest sympathy. I met Paul many years ago when I was part of “The Bookies”- a group of women from Booksellers on Mainstreet. Paul shepherded us as we learned about investing. Along with his cheeriness and jokes, he always brought chocolates to our meetings. I remember he had a passion for scuba diving and I took one lesson from him at the Zeeland pool. Great man.  He’s gone too soon.

I worked with Paul as a Victim Advocate with the OCSD for many years!  Paul was one of the kindest, caring man I knew and he had a great sense of humor!  Working with him and Louise at Fire Departments open houses we had so much fun. Paul you will be missed so much!  Thank you for all your years of service!💙💙💙💙💙💙 Char

My condolences to Louise and the family. Always enjoyed Paul’s willing spirit and loving attitude. Truly a blessing to see his smiling face around the fire station .
Sincerely,
Phil Hunderman

So sorry to hear of Pauls'  death. He was a mentor of mine and always so encouraging to me as one of his "youngers" in the local financial services profession.

As a Police Captain overseeing the Victim Services Unit at the Holland Police Department, I was so grateful to have Paul on the team.  Paul was selfless and so compassionate dealing with so many tragic events but what he did was bring peace and love to the victims of the tragedy.  Paul will be so missed!  Paul reminded me of who Jesus was!  Till we see each other again, my friend!

Paul was so kind and welcoming to me during my time at St Francis de Sales. He had a big heart and a way of making people feel seen and heard. Praying for you, Louise and for the repose of Paul's soul. May he be received into paradise with the same welcome that he offered to so many at St. Francis.

Paul was a shining example of kindness and warmth. He was always open to new friendships and made everyone feel welcome at church where I happen to get to know him better. He greeted every person with a smile at the 10:30 Mass, making sure everyone felt included. Above all, he showed what it means to love and cherish those close to him. His devotion to his wife was unwavering, treating her like a queen, with deep respect and affection. His generosity of spirit and his ability to make people feel at home will be remembered by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Paul was a student of mine when I taught scuba in Holland, Michigan.  Not only did Paul become a great diver but he became a great teacher to others around him.  He was a humble man that brought comfort and peace to those who knew him. He helped me many times during some rough spots.  His legacy lives on in those he touched and the family that he leaves behind.  

Miss you Brother 

Eric P

I first knew Paul as a wise financial consultant,  always dressed to the max; starched white shirt, navy suit, etc. Years later, I run into him behind a shovel, picking up horse manure at Renew TRC, where we both served on the Board.  Truly a man of many talents! I will miss him; his wit and his positive spirit. My deep sympathy to Louise, daughters and his many friends.

Paul and Louise were probably the first ones to greet us to St Francis de Sales. Paul was a larger than life presence at the church entry. Smiling and greeting and knowing so many by name. When Lori and I moved to Holland and volunteered as ushers, Paul showed us the ropes and was a to great example for us in his gracious demeanor as a greeter. Paul, we will be thinking of you and missing you everytime we take our post.

Dear Louise,
Kath and I are praying for you.  I am asking our Lord to give you His transcendent peace--the peace that passes all understanding. May He eclipse your grief with wonderful memories of Paul.

Each time I think of Paul, I have this most wonderful memory of his warm and engaging smile.  The smile that brought happiness to so many people.

Blessings,
Virg and Kathy Gulker

Paul , you will be missed so very much. You were one of the most kind, generous, joyful and patient people I've ever known. Working in the office next to you was a blessing and the years of VSU as well. You lived out every one of the fruits of the Spirit in your walk with Jesus! So glad the goodbye is not permanent! 
Jill Vanderzel

For decades Paul was a fun & vivacious customer of our family's store downtown Holland.  Paul was always buying treats for others.  His unconditional kindness to everyone made Paul a beautiful example of walking the talk of acceptance, inner happiness and spiritual faith.  Paul's interest in other people was genuine and refreshing.  He was just so fun to be around!  
And then Paul met Louise!  
True love beamed from both of them. 
Our family is so grateful for both Paul and Louise.  
We all express our love & condolences to you, Louise and family.
We hold you close each new day.
Your friends,
The Fabiano Family
Holland Peanut Store

Louise, I have admired you and Paul for many years, and you are an incredible team.  Your loss is hard for me to even comprehend. Paul always had a smile for me when I saw both of you at St. Francis on Sunday morning.  There were times when that smile lifted my spirits and was just what I needed to right my attitude.  I am so grateful that I had the joy of meeting both of you.  RIP Paul, the earthly world lost the presence of a very good man.

What a loss to our community!! I’ll always remember his participation in Victim Services Unit with Ottawa county and Holland Dept of Public Safety, our Holland Catholic community, and numerous other community outreach programs. 
He always had a friendly smile and support for people he encountered. 
Our sympathy and support for his family and friends!! May the memories of all the good times shared bring us comfort and peace.

On behalf of the Copper Ridge Condo Assoc, we express our deepest sympathy.  Paul was always such a fun guy, with a generous and kind spirit.  Our community events were continually sprinkled with  joy and laughter when Paul and Louise were present!  Louise,  may the countless prayers and care of others provide a safety net of comfort and peace, as only our beautiful God can give.  Paul is now safely home.

Everyone who knew Paul will miss him. His enthusiasm for new adventure was contagious and positive.  Our loss is his Eternal gain.
Thelma Hoekman

Paul was just the best man and a dear friend.  Arno and I will miss him with his booming voice and jolly smile.  He was a special person.  He gave so much of himself to the community and he and Louise were  very special people in our Victim Services Group.   Louise, remember we love you and we are so sorry for your loss.  Rest in peace, Paul.   We miss you already.  Heaven will be overjoyed to have you!!!

Paul was a good friend and I had the privilege to know him for the past five years. Paul had passion for preserving memories for people and I was always amazed at how well he could connect with anyone, he always knew something about whatever hobby they might have. He also loved and cared deeply for Louise and the rest of his family, he will be greatly missed.
Our deepest condolences to Louise and family.

Love,
Rick & Anna

Jim and I are so sorry and shocked to learn of Paul’s passing. He was so kind and positive anytime we saw him. He reminded me of a gentle giant. We will certainly miss his presence at St.Francis de Sales and will pray for his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed. R.I.P., Paul.

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Paul Allen Kuiper

August 1, 1948 – January 31, 2025

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