Survived by his loving wife of 64 years, Nicolina (nee Di Renzo) and forever remembered by his children, Patrizia (Dale) Bell, Mirella (Jim) Semple, John (Joanne) Ranalli. Proud Nonno of 9 grandchildren: Amanda (William), Sonia (Alex), and Stefanie (Michael); Andrew (Alexandra), Colin (Natalia), Julia; Jacob, Justin, Jenna; and 8 great grandchildren: Noah, Levi, Jonas, Alayna, Ezra, Lily, Sofia and Bella.
Predeceased by his parents late Giovanni ✝️ and Domenica (nee Di Renzo)✝️. Dear brother of Pasquale✝️(Celestina ✝️), Fiora ✝️ (Giovanni D’Angelo ✝️), Mario (Elia ✝️), Giuseppe (Liliana ✝️), and Antonio (Angelina). Dear brother-in-law of Iolanda (Gino DiGravio), Benedetto (Iva), Mario (Nives ✝️), Antonio ✝️ (Rose), and Eda (Mario Cicconetti ✝️). Will be missed by many nieces, nephews, extended family members and friends.
Alfonso was born on February 2, 1936, in Pennadomo, a picturesque small town in the Abruzzo region in Italy. This place remained close to his heart throughout his life, and he often shared stories of his childhood there. As a young boy, Alfonso worked the fields with his family and also, it was there he developed a skill for stone masonry that eventually became his career. Additionally, he met his lovely wife Nicolina in Pennadomo and there they were married on May 8, 1960.
Alfonso and Nicolina began a new chapter in their life when they decided to immigrate to Canada. Nicolina arrived first, while Alfonso joined her in 1961 after completing his service in the Italian army. They settled in Guelph, Ontario, where they made their home, established their roots, and started their family, with all three of their children being born and raised there. Despite starting with very little, they dedicated themselves to working hard and making countless sacrifices to ensure their children had every opportunity to succeed and thrive. The values and traditions of their Italian heritage were woven into the fabric of their lives in Guelph, leaving a lasting impact on his children.
Alfonso took great pride and joy in his work as a stone mason in Guelph, where he worked closely with his in-laws (his wife's brothers) to establish the construction companies in developing homes throughout the city. His craftsmanship and dedication were evident in every project he undertook. Unfortunately, at the age of 44, Alfonso’s life took an unexpected turn when he suffered a stroke which left him with paralysis on his left side and was no longer able to work. Despite the profound impact this had on his life, Alfonso faced his challenges with resilience. He eventually learned to walk again with the aid of a cane. His determination to preserve his independence was unwavering; he was determined to drive and pursue his passions, adapting to his reality. Alfonso’s strength and perseverance in overcoming such obstacles remain a lasting testament to his character.
Alfonso's greatest joy came from being surrounded by his family, and his deep affection for his grandchildren and great-grandchildren was always evident. Despite the distance of where his children had moved to, Unionville, Oakville, or even St. Louis, USA; Alfonso’s limited mobility never deterred him from driving or flying to be with them. His happiest moments were spent in their company. He delighted in playing games with them, teaching them Italian card games, and taking them on countless ice cream outings. As the family’s designated barbeque master, Alfonso ensured every barbeque meal was perfect for all. He also took immense pride in sharing his traditional skills, from making homemade sausages and teaching them the art of winemaking. Alfonso’s love for his family was reflected in every moment they spent together.
Alfonso had a deep passion for sports, with a particular love for soccer and hockey. His enthusiasm was even greater when he could share these moments with his grandchildren, whether cheering for Juventus (soccer team) or the Toronto Maple Leafs. He rarely missed a game and stayed well-informed about current events through his daily Italian newspaper. Wherever he traveled to visit his children, Alfonso always found a way to get his hands on an Italian paper. He also enjoyed playing bocce and playing card games with his friends/family, further reflecting his zest for life and connection to his heritage.
In the final five years of his life, Alfonso faced significant challenges due to the effects of his stroke and his diabetes. Despite these difficulties, his love for his family remained strong, and he took great comfort in hearing about their lives and well-being. The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at St. Joseph’s Health Centre in Guelph, especially on the Oakridge (3rd Floor) unit, for their unwavering dedication and compassionate care during Alfonso’s last four years, including the particularly challenging period of the COVID pandemic.
Arrangements entrusted to Gilbert Macintyre & Son Funeral Home, 252 Dublin Street North, Guelph, Ontario (519-822-4731). A private family funeral service has taken place. As expressions of sympathy, donations may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or Diabetes Canada would be greatly appreciated by the family. Donations can be made in person at the funeral home (cash and cheque accepted) or online at www.gilbertmacintyreandson.com.
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