Ray will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Terry Stafford; his children: Loretta Hayes, Lisa (David) Simon, Raymond (Susan) Stafford and Bill Stafford; Terry’s children: Joe (Alisha) McLain, Patrick McLain and Katie (friend Jamie) Kaminski; his father-in-law Nicholas Urso; the mother of his children Sharon Stafford; his sister Caroline Theile, his 17 loving grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren as well as many other relatives. He was preceded in death by his parents Thomas William and Ethel Mae (McGowan) Stafford.
A true patriot, Ray felt the call to serve his country during the Vietnam War. He enlisted in the Navy and proudly served for 30 years; retiring as a Chief Petty Officer. He enjoyed sharing his experiences and showing off his numerous medals and honors he earned during his career.
Friends and family were most important to him, and he treasured the time he spent with everyone. As member of the Sault Tribe of the Chippewa Indians, he enjoyed researching genealogy. He also loved day trips to the casino and talking all things military.
Visitation for Ray will be held on Friday April 18, 2025 from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at Reyers North Valley Chapel where a funeral service with military honors will follow at 6:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, please consider memorial donations to Talons Out Honor Flight.
