It’s been 3 whole years since I wrote last here’s a pic of Star’s baby girl Luna and Valente’sbaby girl Zoe. Oh Ma how I wish you were here you would be absolutely in love with them both. I miss you sooooo much Mom. Please continue to watch over all of us . I love you to infinity and beyond!!!!tell my daddy I love him

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA
 I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH ...
 I wish you were here mom .. have a beautiful birthday in Heaven  mommy! I'm gonna go take you balloons  in a little bit and Valente has a present for you we love you so much mom and we miss you even more!

Mom, 
in two days it will be our first Thanksgiving  Without you here and I miss you so much!I used to love Watching you when I was a little girl And the idea of helping you in the kitchen (which I probably wasn’t helping you at all)!Im really gonna miss your pecan pie this year. I would do anything to just see you and talk to you. I keep having these weird dreams And Roy has to wake me up because im crying in my dreams begging for you not to leave. Mom im so lonely for you!im sorry Mama if i let you down but i just couldnt hold it inside anymore . I know you are in heaven and you and my dad know the truth now more then ever... I have so much i want to tell you but im sure you already know you ! Please kiss my dad  for me and please find some way to wrap your loving arms around me so i can feel you hugging me again. Please continue to watch over our whole family like you always have. I love you so much mom im so thankful to be your daughter. Love you to infinty and beyond

Mom , 
Today is Easter and I miss you so much!  You’re birthday is in 9 days and I’m so lonely without you!!! Please continue to watch over us and guide me in the right path. I love you so much and I’ll be for ever  grateful for everything you have done for me. Please kiss my dad for me love always your baby! Lez

Mom today is victors 18th birthday. And I miss you like crazy . I want to wake up from the reality that you’re not here anymore Mom. My heart hurts for you  everyday! 2 days ago would have been my dads  70th birthday! I miss you both so much! I found a voice recording of the both of us having a conversation the other day and cried and cried. I just wish there was someway I could lay down next you and know everything is gonna be ok! I love u mama 

Auntie Val ...
You were always such a fun aunt, you let me & lezlie dress up in your high heels , put makeup on to go to ice cream truck, you tell me just don't tell your dad , lol. 
I wish I could hug you one more time tell you I love you , you would be shocked how much ive grown to be a spitting image of you , I know we will be together again till then give Grandma a hug & kiss from me , I love you auntie Val 

Mama , 
Today is  Valentes 19 th Bday & the first Valentines Day without You ... I miss you so much mom! I wish you were with us!!! I don’t know what am going to do without u! There isn’t a day that goes by that i don’t think u. Mom please help me I’m  so lonely for you!! Please continue to watch over us! I love u mama Happy Valentines Day ! Kiss my dad for me! I love to infinity and beyond  Your daughter
                          Lez

To my Auntie Val, there are not enough words for me to express my love and gratitude for you.. I want to say thank you for your love and devotion to your family and friends.. You were the one there for me when I had no one else.. You were the one there for my children when I was lost in a bad place in my life and for this I am eternaly greatful... You will be loved and missed by each and every one of us until we see you again...All my Love "always" 
Annie

Mama, I’m so honored to be your daughter!. U have a heart of gold.My whole life I’ve  watched u take care of everybody else. Thank you for allowing Roy ,the boys and I to live with you and help take care of you! These last three years we grew closer then ever!! U are my best-friend &I don’t know how I am going to live without u. Mama please continue to watch over our whole family like you always have. I’m sorry if I let you down by not bringing u home right away and letting u stay in that nursing home for 16 days..I’ll regret that everyday I’m alive!I find peace in knowing That you're not lonely for my dad anymore or suffering from a broken heart! Now u & my father can dance to a song that will never ever end!mama  it’s ok u don’t have to be scared anymore or be in pain! I was so blessed to have my dad & u as my parents ! U both loved me unconditionally and always showed me how much!! The thought of having to go on with life without u is almost unbearable..To the point where I can’t even breath. I’m so used to seeing you everyday. I’ll never ever forget you mama &  I appreciate Everything that you have done for me and my family!! It’s so hard to forget about someone who gave us so much to remember! please kiss my daddy for me !i love you both to infinity and beyond! Heres poem that describes the way I feel about u
 love always your babygirl Lez

I love you so much mom and will forever miss you I will forever be thankful for everything you have done for me thank you for being you I love and miss you mom❤️

Valerie, I’m so happy I got to spend time with you. You were such a wonderful grandma to my two nephews and a amazing mother-in-law to my brother.  Thank you for always being so kind and having that beautiful smile. You will be missed by me, and my family.

Love, Tisha, Mark, Leo, Amanda and Valente

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Valerie S. Lopez

April 21, 1951 – December 20, 2019

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