Grace Miller

If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Grace Miller. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Grace was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.

Grace was born in Arcadia, California. She was the daughter of Leo and Dolores Sausedo. Grace was raised in Arcadia, California. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Grace was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Grace's personality throughout her life.

Though Grace was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with her family, she was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. Grace was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, Grace worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. Grace was raised with three siblings. She had two older brothers and one sister (Ted, Charles, and Natalie). Grace and her siblings had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another.

For Grace, the school routines were never a problem although she generally preferred variety to structure. She seemed to be able to start a project and work right through to its completion. And she was able to do it quickly and efficiently. Grace was also adept at details. Grace was very observant and was generally quick at picking up new things. She graduated from Arcadia High School in 1959. She enjoyed some courses more than others, having favorite classes and teachers. Her favorite class in high school was home economics.

There was one thing that all of Grace's friends knew and will still remember, and that is that she was a talker. She could pretty much talk to anybody about anything. This quality is one of the primary reasons that Grace was such a popular person throughout her life. But Grace was also dependable, loyal and trustworthy. Grace was the kind of person who simply radiated good fellowship. While she maintained personal standards and her own personal values, Grace was very accepting of others. With a distinct skill for working things out, Grace was often the person who would organize events. In fact, Grace was fairly comfortable playing the role of “host” for just about any occasion. When Grace made friends, she made true and lasting friendships. While growing up, some of her best friends were her cousins Diane, Susie, Patti, and Judy. Later in life, she became friends with Francis, Gloria, and Neil.

Grace was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Grace cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. Compassionate and devoted, Grace worked hard to make her new life partner happy.

Harmony was important to Grace and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Grace was blessed with two stepsons, Fred Jr. and Willie. Grace was always conscious of the feelings others had. She was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Grace was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Grace would listen before she would act.

Taking her work seriously came naturally to Grace, and she expected the same from those around her. Grace was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. Grace was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that Grace handled well. She could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” Her primary occupation was Restaurant Manager. She was employed for 30 years for the Broadway. She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

A methodical woman, Grace enjoyed spending time working on her various hobbies. She had no problem following all of the steps and instructions on a given project and was proud of the fact that she could have something to show for her efforts. Her favorite pursuits were cooking, crafts, dancing, gambling, and traveling.

Her high moral standards and traditional values served Grace well with her faith. Religion and faith were important to her. She was a member of Holy Angels (Arcadia) until 1975 and St. Dennis (Diamond Bar) until 2011. She was well respected because she was such an outgoing individual who sought to help in any manner she could.

Not only did Grace enjoy traveling, but she also seemed to enjoy planning all of those trips and vacations. She was a facilitator who could easily make up a near perfect schedule of all of the things to do and see. She rarely tired of going back and revisiting her favorite places. Favorite vacations included Hawaii and Mexico.

Grace was a lover of animals and cherished her pets. One of her favorites was Bobbie, a Shepherd dog mix, who was a best friend for 6 years. Her family was rounded out by her pets; Princessa, Dukie, Baby - Rabbits.

Since it was easy for Grace to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and talking about the good old days. Since she was practical and cost effective, Grace was ready when that day to retire finally came in 1990. Her new life involved relocating to Diamond Bar, California. In retirement, she found new pleasure in crafts. Even in retirement, Grace stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.

Grace passed away on February 2, 2011 at Casa Bonita in San Dimas, California. She is survived by her husband Freddie; her two stepsons Fred Jr. and Willie; two brothers Ted and Charles (Anita); several nieces and nephews; and friends Services were held at Oakdale Memorial Chapel. Grace was laid to rest in Oakdale Memorial Park in Glendora, California.

Grace was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Grace was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Grace Miller.