It’s likely impossible.
In this space it seems I am to record Steve’s accomplishments. His greatest accomplishments exist in the unconditional love he showed his friends and family and in the many kindnesses and joy he showered on them. They lie in the gentle and supportive way he taught and coached his students at Blackhawk Middle School and Snider High School, and in how he helped every neighbor without hesitation. They live on in how he urged his golf buddies to take their eyes off the ball to look at a leaf or a bird or a sky. And in how he made every person with whom he came into contact feel better about themselves. They’ll resonate forever in a 41-year marriage where he made me feel beautiful, respected, and loved every single day. In the words of Tim McGraw, Steve was a friend a friend would like to have.
How do I sum up the life of the most happy and creative man I’ve ever known?
The words of John Lennon and Paul McCartney come close:
“And in the end
The love you take
Is equal to the love you make.”
Steve Riley became heaven bound April 28, 2024 at the age of 66 at Stillwater Hospice, Fort Wayne, IN. He was born in Fort Wayne. He graduated from Northrop High School and earned a Bachelor of Arts in Education from the University of Saint Francis and a Master’s Degree in Administration from Indiana University. Surviving are his wife, Audrey; his niece who is like a daughter, Alexandra Riley; sisters Terri (Dan) Stemen and Julie (Kevin) Burns; and brother, Scott (Robin) Riley. Also surviving are his other wonderful and beloved nephews and niece, Anthony (Jamie) Paino, Andrew (Erin) Paino, Maggie (Ty Schrock) Paino, Riley Lenaway and Ethan Lenaway. He was preceded in death by his parents, Dave and Sharon Riley.
Celebration of Life is 1 PM, May 21, 2024 at Sycamore Hills Golf Club, 11836 Covington Rd, Fort Wayne with calling two hours prior.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a gift to the Audrey and Steve Riley Scholarship at the University of Saint Francis, 2701 Spring Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46808 or to the Evans Scholars Foundation c/o Sycamore Hills Golf Club, 11836 Covington Road, Fort Wayne, IN 46814.
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