Hi Liz. Dee and I are in Berkeley for 3 months and I just saw this obituary.  Sorry to be so late getting in touch. I LOVED your Patrick, as you know, always so encouraging, smart, curious and funny. What a superb teacher and wonderful soul. I MISS him and can hardly imagine how much you all do, though my Mom died 10 days ago so maybe I can. Anyway, our thoughts are with you and yours, including Miss Madeleine.  May his memory be a blessing for us all. Love, Wendy & Dee

Liz, we are so terribly heartbroken to hear of Patrick's passing.  He was an absolutely wonderful person and will be forever missed.  At any time that may be convenient, I would love to have the opportunity to get in touch with you.  All the very best to you and your family.
David and Lisa Tolley
917-562-3624

Dear Elizabeth 

We were so sad to hear about Pat.  He was an amazing person and we were so lucky to have had a chapter in our lives that included him.  We worked with Pat at 92nd Street Equinox back in 2000 and we all loved him.  We were a tight family and we all are heartbroken to hear one of us is gone.  We made a donation in memory of him.  We will forever miss him and we are sending all the hugs and kisses.  

Penny Geller and the Equinox crew.

When I first met Pat he was so close with the Smyth family and John, I thought he was one of John's brothers. I did actually ask him if he was and he said "I am Pat Carroll John's roommate!" By this time he was with Liz in Smithtown with only occasional days in Sunnyside, and soon John and I were going to their wedding.  But I wasn't wrong at our first meeting; John and Pat loved each other as brothers. John's second bedroom will always be to us, Pat's room! 
All my sympathy. Always in our hearts. Love, Carol

I worked with Patrick at Equinox from 2006-2012.  Patrick was always happy, always willing to help and coach new trainers. He was very healthy. He followed what he preached. I don't know a person who did not like Patrick. Patrick was very knowledgeable about everything. He was truly one of a kind.  For the 6 years I worked with Patrick, I never saw him upset or talking bad about others. He was his brother's keeper! The world just lost a giant!

I will keep his family in my prayers for God to grant them strength and comfort.

Dear Patrick my brother from another mother. You have been such a force in my life. You gave me the tools to have the courage and strength to battle my own fears of talking to people. You were always there when I wanted advise on how to improve business or myself whether it was with Equinox or outside. I am going to miss you so much. Just last week I was telling my wife I need to make an effort and go have a beer with Pat. I am sorry I waited so long. I love you brother. I wish your family all the strength to deal with your loss. You absence can never be filled. Rest in peace. Love you forever. Sinu

To the Batman ,
  You will be missed my friend . I look back at the fantastic times we shared at the Gambino household , Molly camps upstate and many track meets and parties . I was so happy to see you at the last golf outing and knew your voice when you yelled out to me .
  Rest in peace 
  See you at the big track in the sky one day 
 Xoxo
Chuck Niebling 
‘80

Patrick was one of the best people I’ve ever known. I trained with him for many years at Equinox and experienced his love for and loyalty to all the people in his life. He shared stories about his family, the camps up at Esopus, his friends, and his work. And he always wanted to know about my family and life. He quizzed me on historical dates (especially June 6th and December 7th), taught me about rugby, and discussed all kinds of movies. He was always curious to know what was going on at the school where I teach. Usually, the only person I received texts from on the Jewish holidays was Patrick, and half the time I had to look up what the Hebrew message meant. I will miss this sweet, good man terribly. My heart goes out to Liz—whom he called his angel--and the rest of the Carroll family during this very difficult time. I’m so sorry for your profound loss, and I hope your memories of Patrick will comfort and sustain you.

Even before Patrick became my trainer 18 years ago, I had noticed him around the gym. I always figured he was a California surfer, because he had long blond hair pulled back in a pony tail, and he wore some kind of beachy necklace. Once we started to train together, though, I learned he was a local boy and he favored a variety of haircuts, all of which reflected a different part of his personality. There was the High and Tight, the Marine haircut, sometimes accompanied by the Mao cap, and then the middle-distance hair, on the way to becoming pony tail or buzz cut. Over time, I learned of his vast reading of military history, because that’s what we talked about most of the time, as well as his encyclopedic memory for American TV, music, and sports. I always saw him as Dennis the Menace—or Peter Pan—but he had another, side that all his friends knew well—he was constant, supportive, loving, steady. He embraced my kids, attending family gatherings, and asking me to repeat for him their funniest utterances. They cried with me over his illness and passing. He was deeply religious, and he never failed to say the appropriate greeting to me on the various Jewish holidays I observed. However, at the center of his thoughts, night and day, was the love of his life, Liz, who not only physically saved his life after his heart stopped on August 6, 2009, but also brought him two children whom he loved as his own, and who closed a great longing in his life, and little granddaughter, Madeline, who made his eyes shine, even through the darkest moments of this final journey. My heart is breaking, but I know it’s nothing like the pain felt by the extended Carroll family. Godspeed my dear friend Patty. I will miss you terribly.

Patrick was a friend, a colleague, an engaging, kind and uplifting human being, I always looked forward to our lounge conversations... with  both of us being sports enthusiasts we shared many, many  stories… his recall was legendary and would always leave me with a smile on my face… and me asking the same question (how does this guy remember all of this). Truly a rare individual. Peace & love my brother… Forever  remembered, forever missed.

I worked with Patrick many years ago. He was the first person to great me with a smile and always had an encouraging word. Things were hard at that job and he always lifted my spirts with his kindness.

I trained with Patrick at Equinox from 2011-2016. He was incredibly smart and thoughtful. He also had the most incredible memory for pop culture, history, and everything in between. He also ALWAYS asked me about my daughters (Cami pictured above) and their sports. He followed their progress in college and always remembered all the details. It was impressive how he could recall just about anything. I shared with him USA Rugby and Wisconsin Hockey swag which he wore proudly. A kind soul who will be deeply missed by all who knew him and loved him, and to know him was to love him.

Sending my deepest condolences to Patrick's family and friends.

I will remember him as the only person who could match and surpass my never-ending, happy-go-lucky mindset. It's comforting to see how his zest for life touched us all.

Patrick made himself part of every family event.  So many warm and loving memories of  him.  Patrick  was loved by everyone who met him.  A light has gone out in the world with his death and he will be greatly missed.  Our heartfelt condolences to Liz., Alison, Garrett, Catherine, Madeline, Aunt Jo, Maryellen, , Eddie, Janice, Ryan, Richie, Joseph and Eddie.  
With love , Anthony and Amy, Diana & Family, Elizabeth and Family

Met Pat at camp back in 1980... always remember him as the guy who was always smiling and happy!  Always the Sunshine!  God Speed Pat.
Thanks for the memories...

Pat,
I think we all wish for more photos of the earlier times. Even Without those physical memories, none of us who were blessed to have met you will ever forget your boundless optimism and your boundless energy.
Rest well my fellow Fordham Rugger

He was, and will always be, a brother. My memories of Pat are a collective. As I laugh and cry thinking of that emotional memory collage, one comforting feeling seems to arise. Home. When I spoke with Pat, or spent time with him over these many years, I was at the greatest of ease. I was home. Hopefully, I made him feel the same. I will honor him by doing my very best to carry his wonderful spirit with me. Until we meet again.

Love, love, love the memories of Pat !!!  Hard to imagine I won’t bump into him again ..  our time together was  happy times !!!  Love Pat Carroll !!

Deepest condolences to the family and dear friends. Pat was the life and SOUL of the party. Pat will always be in my memory and his smile and wit are always in my mind !  
Rest in peace my sweet friend.

I met Patrick nearly twenty years ago when he became my trainer at Equinox. I hated training but with Patrick it was always a fun and rewarding. We both loved 80s music and British football and the tv shows and films from our youth. He cared deeply about my family and always called me to check up if someone was sick.  He made a point of introducing me to several of his clients who are now my friends. He was a truly generous, kind, and compassionate man who loved his family and friends so much. I am still so shattered by his death that it's so difficult to write this condolences, Patrick was family to so many people who met him. It is a true privilege to have known this remarkable man.  Our deepest sympathies to his family. Sending love and healing during this extremely painful time.
Penny, Thomas and Natalie.

This news made so many of us so sad. I worked with Pat at ad agency BSB in the early 90’s and he carried such joy with him always. The biggest smile, a surfer dude mentality of life, and never a bad word about anyone. I did not stay in touch with Pat after that so it has been decades, and it’s what makes my reaction to this news (and others who knew him so long ago ) such a testament to his huge positive spirit. God bless pal and wishing support and love to your family ❤️

Pat was one of a kind. A blithe, rousing soul of a man—who always had a bit (more than a bit) of the playful boy in him.

I’m deeply grateful that he and I were entwined in many way: Molloy, Esopus, Fordham, rugby and fiercely competitive.

I’ll never forget one night during camps in the late 90s, when playing on opposing teams in a night game of indoors ultimate frisbee, he gave me the best of compliments, after doing his best to stick to me like glue: “Morris, I can’t guard you.”

On Fri Oct 20, 2023, i did the Esopus Century Ride by myself—due to injuries from a fall from the bike on Sep 1.  Pat sent texts to me all day long, encouraging me and joking about the rain I was riding in.   Later that night, I received my last text from Pat: “Well done, my brother. Proud of you.”

I will forever say that back to him, in my reflections and memories of Patrick Carroll.

Patrick was my trainer for over 20 years.  He trained my son and son-in-law and thus, became a dear friend and honorary family member.  I think I was only able to train so long because working out with him was such a joy! I cherish our many conversations, sharing stories about our families and always giving each other support.  And  mostly, laughing a lot! His was the ultimate mensch - caring and kindness in his core - during his illness, at all times, he always asked about me and my family. It was just like him to think of others regardless of his own personal struggle.  I will never forget him and always be grateful that he graced my life.  RIP dear Patrick.  No one deserves it more than you.

I first started training with Patrick nearly six years ago. Beyond being knowledgeable and expert, he was compassionate and FUN! I looked forward to every session with him and came away with a little bounce in my step. That was the effect Patrick had on everyone. He brought joy.
 
Patrick was so interested in people and seemed to sincerely want to connect with everyone--and also connect people with each other. He had nicknames for people, including me: Maggot! Impersonating a boot camp trainer, he’s say, “C’mon, Maggot, give me 10 more!” He was so funny! We developed a goofy rating system over the years – how hard or easy an exercise was, and instead of 1-10, our rating system was, randomly,  1-27. His last text to me, sent just over a week ago in reply to a photo I’d taken while on a trip, Patrick wrote, ‘Looks fabulous – 27’. I think that says so much about him that he could still keep up a running joke, even in his final weeks. He loved life so much and was so full of optimism and kindness. Above all, he loved his family and spoke of you often, sharing news and stories and pictures of his adorable granddaughter. Such a loss. He made such an impact on my life and I send all my love to his family. May your memories bring you comfort.

Patrick was and will continue to be a source of great encouragement and support to me and I’m sure everyone who came to know him.  It was always a true pleasure to see him!  His presence made the world a better place.  I thank God for the opportunity to know him as a colleague and a truly wonderful friend for some two decades.   I will miss you greatly Pat and your fine example of how to treat others and how to be a true friend will always be with me.  I want to extend my heartfelt sympathies to his wonderful family, please take comfort in knowing that Patrick is much loved by us all.  Thank you so much for being the support to him in his life that helped him be so kind and helpful to others.

Patrick (“Grandpaddy”) in matching beanies with his granddaughter Madeleine ❤️

On behalf of the Sciales family, we send our love and condolences to the Carroll family.  I will always remember Patrick’s big smile, twinkling eyes and fun-loving attitude. He was a good man who knew many in my family from St Marys, Molloy, Fordham, and  the neighborhood. He was taken too young and we are all saddened to hear of his illness and passing. May he rest in peace.

My sincere condolences to my friend and colleague for the loss of your beloved Husband. My sincere condolences to the beautiful family. My prayers are with all of you.

I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I knew Pat from back in the day during college years. He was smart, funny and very kind. I am very upset to hear about his loss. I hope your memories of him will help you through this difficult time.
 Sincerely,
 Dorien

We ran a lot of races, climbed a lot of stairs and watched a lot of hoops.  A great man.  A great friend.  Rest in peace, Patrick.

I knew Patrick through my dear friend and Pats’s loving and devoted wife Liz. And as Liz wrote, once you met Patrick, whether in person (or in my case on Zoom “drive bys”), he made you feel that you were the most important person (second to Liz) in his life. Patrick has touched my life and my soul, and will always be an inspiration. 

My deepest love and sympathy to Liz and their beautiful family.

One of my favorite memories of Pat is how anytime we were out together at an event without Liz or Ali, he would always take a photo to show them to brag about what they were missing. A generous and wonderful person whose light cannot and will never be extinguished.

To the Carrolls,
I am so sorry for your loss. 
 When I think of Patrick many happy memories come to mind. 
To name a few: 
The compound
Slug a brew
Hank Gathers
The beach 
Maryellen’s  “High School Sweetheart “
Bubble lip HPV 
Bugles…the corn chip
Christmas Cards with great pictures
Triathlon 
Shelter Island 10k 
Space Trucking 
Universal Friend 
Fighting over the backseat because Maryellen is driving in Manhattan.
Thanks for the friendship and memories.
Rest in peace my friend.
Love Susan and Peter

Patrick and I started Equinox on the same day. He was my best friend from day one. We went through the whole EFTI together and all our floor shifts until we were both senior trainers. He was simply the best. Our lives took different directions (mainly mine, by leaving the city and moving to Florida) but I always considered him a close friend and I always will.  I wish I had stayed in better touch over the years because I was always so happy when we got together. My deepest condolences to his family who he loved so deeply.

Pat will always be Superman to so many of us. This photo embodies all the things we loved about him, the smile, the confidence, the courage...there was nothing he couldn't do. We love him and miss his joy-filled spirit.

We met Patrick at Equinox, as our trainer, almost exactly 10 years ago. His knowledge and skill were exceeded only by Patrick’s commitment to his clients. He was by turns gentle and demanding, but always compelling. Patrick had a clear vision of a stronger and healthier you and was always part of the team.

During our countless one-hour sessions, Patrick shared his interests in many things: sports, training, our mutual participation in amateur athletics, military history, local and national politics, family, pets, etc. (Especially granddaughters!) However, those topics were overshadowed be his interest in you. Patrick always wanted to hear about what was happening in your life and what interested you.

Patrick was a dear friend, and he will be sorely missed. He sincerely cared about people and was loved in return. His legacy outlives him through all the people he touched.

The world has lost an extraordinary human being. Our deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends.

Ali & Family 
We are sorry for the loss of your beloved Patrick. Sending you prayers and love. 
David and Rosemarie Pedron xoxox

Patrick was the soul of 92W Equinox. He led by example and many generations of trainers who came on after him during his long tenure benefitted from both his experience and his gentle good humor. He was patient with members, took exceptional care of both his own clients and mine ( he was my go-to for minding my clients when I went on vacation), and was so supportive of his co-workers. His influence on our culture at 92W was immeasurably great. He will be missed by all.  I can still see him in his cow costume at Halloween, spotting a bench press with the udders in the member's face....

Thank you for being the welcoming upperclassman in 1979 to a incoming Freshman at Esopus .. and then for the next 44 yrs.   And for the morning "Timmmay!" at Penn Station in the mornings on the 2/3 platform.  My prayers for Pat's entire family .

Can’t stop thinking about Pat. Such a good soul. He made so many people smile.  He was always the guy to walk over to you in a bar, ask your name, buy you a drink and make sure you were comfortable. I've lost count of the number of times I would bump into Pat in random places, far and wide, him always in running shorts, with his wide, welcoming smile. Right now he is telling God one of his many funny stories. My deepest condolences to the family. Pat was/is an amazing person. I will never forget him.

God bless Pat.  I have not seen Pat since shortly after our days at Molloy, but my memories of Pat are so vivid.  There are not many people that I have come across in my life with such a positive, optimistic and kind spirit as Pat's.  Pat would bring that huge smile and energy to anyone that he would meet.  Such a wonderful person and I am so blessed that I came across Pat in my life.  God bless his soul and all in his family.

We hope you enjoy this picture of Pat at his finest.  Our early 1990's winning squad.

A real super hero!
Pat Carroll from the first time I met him in Esopus’s, where he helped me see the more to myself and life, through his welcoming and caring demeanor.
One of a kind, he pullled me out of my insecurities through his bigger than life persona and humble place at the table of life.

I watched him come out every Good Friday from work to greet and pray with the pas Christi way of the cross.

Through his battle of life and illness he continued to inspire me and others by living each moment.
You are missed already but I know I am better for knowing you and countless others can surely say the same.
Now you can truly use your super powers to help heaven and earth to truly become one!

A toast to The Batman after I finished our Camino! Patrick recognized the sweat drops on my forehead and suggested that the beer was even more refreshing becasuse of that! Miss him Tons!

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Patrick J. Carroll

July 20, 1963 – November 13, 2023

Quinn - Fogarty Funeral Home

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