I recently learned about your passing. I still remember your humble and lovely smile. May you rest in peace. With love your nephew William Perocier.

HOW TO HONOR A GREAT LADY
That's the question that I've been asking myself, since last night. My mother was an extraordinary human being that possessed many beautiful qualities and abilities. So, how do I now honor her without crossing the line into idolizing her memory?
Last weekend I attended a circuit convention. The main theme was "Honoring God's Name". One of the speakers spoke in detail about God's name, Jehovah, and the meaning of His name. "'Eh?yeh' 'Asher' 'Eh?yeh'" was the answer that God gave Moses and the translation is: "“I SHALL PROVE TO BE WHAT I SHALL PROVE TO BE.” The speaker explained that the meaning of God's name is very important because it conveys the message that God progressively fulfills his promises and realizes His purposes. In all fairness, only the God could live up to His name. The speaker illustrated this with a mother. A mother takes care of her children and becomes whatever the situation requires her to be. For example: the children need to eat -  she becomes a cook; the children are sick - she becomes a caretaker, etc.
That got me thinking about my mother. When my mother divorced my father I was five years old. That puts my mom at about 25 years of age. She had married my father just before her 18th birthday, seven years prior. The thing about her situation is that she had been 'taken care of' before she married my father, and she continued to be 'taken care of' when she got married. For example: my father did the all of the shopping. He bought home the food, the furniture, the clothes, shoes. He bought everything. My mom was a housewife in the literal form of the word. She cooked, clean, washed, took care of my sister and me, and so forth. She didn't know how to handle money. She didn't have any money. So, when she divorced my father, who taught her to make a budget? I can tell you there were a lot of bumps on the road, but we never went to bed hungry, and we didn't have to sleep under a bridge (thank God). As a matter of fact, she got pretty good at managing money. With very little money she always bought us new clothes for school, boots, coats, and she even bought us toys. On the other hand, she didn't wear new clothes very often, nor did she have boots for a long time. I remember coming in from the snow, with my warm boots, but having to pour water over my mom's frozen toes in a bucket while tears ran down her face. It was unfair. 
So, how do I honor such a great lady? Her love, unselfishness, and care were just what my sister and I needed; and she became just that for us.
I want to remember everything she said, everything she taught me and put it to good use! I want to honor her life with my actions. I want everyone to know how much she loved me!

Grandma, It doesn't seem like you are truly gone. It feels like you are just away on a trip or errands and at any moment you will return. I listen to that last voicemail you were able to send me and I go to call you, and then I remember I can't. I miss you so much but I love you even more. I'm glad you aren't hurting anymore but what I would give to have you back the way things were before you were sick. I love you so much and hope that you knew how much it meant to me to have you as my grandma...mi abuelita, solamente mi abuelita. Buenas noches mi abuelita y ti quiero mucho.

Mom, I miss you so much. At times I hurt so much and at times I feel that your passing is just a terrible, horrible nightmare and that it has not really happened. I find myself reaching for the phone to tell you how my day has gone or just to hear your voice. I just hope that you knew how much I loved you and will always love you!

Liliam and Maritza,I am sorry for your loss.  May Jehovah be with you during this difficult time.  I have fond memories of your mom and the kindness and love she showed me as a young girl.  I will always treasure the times we spent together.  May we all endure until the end and be there to welcome your mom back in Jehovah's new world.  Love always,

Damaris, our thoughts and prayers are with your and your family during this difficult time of loss.

Lilliam Zamora.

Nuestras condolencias para ti y tu familia por esta gran pérdida.
Es difícil sobrellevar la pena, pero ojalá que al recordar los gratos momentos que compartieron juntas encuentren paz y consuelo.

Fam. Chávez Zamora.

Lilliam Zamora.

Nuestras condolencias para ti y tu familia por esta gran pérdida.
Es difícil sobrellevar éste dolor, pero ojalá que al recordar todos los gratos momentos que compartieron juntas encuentren paz y consuelo.

            ---Familia Chávez Zamora---

Lily. I'm so sorry for your great loss.  May you and your family find comfort in the "God of all Comfort" (2 Cor. 1:3-5).  I want you to know my prayers are with you and your family.  Love you always,  Ellie Hodge (Hollywood, SC)

"Lilliam Zamora"
Para ti y toda tu familia son mis mas sinceras condolencias, ya que cono persona tu mÃ¡my fue muy "especia", que dejo de existir entre nosotros, mas siempre estarÃ¡ en nuestros corazones................
                                                    Bertha A. de Zamora (Nva. Rosita Coah.)

"Y limpiará' Dios 'toda lágrima de sus ojos, y la muerte no será más, ni existirá ya más lamento ni clamor ni dolor. Las cosas anteriores han pasado”. (Revelación 21:4)

"Lilliam Zamora"
 Nos hemos quedado sin alguien muy especial, sabemos que no sera fÃ¡cil sobrellevar la pena y el dolor, que en estos momentos envuelven. Pero hay que recordar los gratos momentos que con ella se compartieron para poder encontrar la paz y el consuelo.
Estamos muy sentidos por el fallecimiento de Ã©sta "Gran SeÃ±ora" te acompaÃ±amos en tus sentimientos, y a ella siempre la recordaremos en nuestros corazones, como una fina y amable persona (una seÃ±ora en toda la palabra).

                                                           familia: Zamora - calvillo

Lily, your family is in our thoughts through this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss.

O that in She'ol you would conceal me...That you would set a time limit for me and remember me! 
~ Job 14:13

Damaris, my love and prayers are with you and your family. I ask God to wrap his arms around you and give you comfort and peace. I love you and am here if you need anything or just someone to talk to. Please take care of yourself....


love Delores

You will call, and I myself shall answer you. For the work of your hands you will have a yearning. Job 14:15

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Ramona Perocier

December 4, 1938 – October 24, 2011

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