Still remember my dear USA pen pal from elementary school and I in the UK🤗 Was a joy to meet her and family’s in 1965! When I did an exchange programme. Fond Memories..

Still missing you girl!  I think of you and what your reaction and thoughts would be as you watch what’s happening in government.  You told me to watch out and to recognize the vulnerability of our system of government.  You were so right. Love you and miss you greatly.

I will always remember Paula as someone who was compassionate.  She helped me get through a rough time when we all worked for HEW and I had not gotten my full pay.  She helped me get it.  For that, I will always remember that.

Still miss you girl.  I think of you often.  The Democrats lost the house..  I guess what your reaction would be with the silliness going and then I laugh.  While I am laughing you would tell me it’s not funny and caution me to watch out.  See you are still advising me and affecting the course of my actions.  You are often with me.

To your family I continue to pray for them and hope they are doing well.    

P.  J.

On this 3rd anniversary of Paula's death, I remember her as someone who was very helpful to me when I was a baby lawyer with HEW.  I shall never forget her thoughtfulness and willingness to help.  Paula, I hope you meet my mom who recently joined you in Heaven.  Here's till I join you.

Paula was a wonderful person, who will be greatly missed.  We will always cherish her friendship.

Sidney & Sharon Cornelius 


Miss you girl!!  Perhaps in our next life we may share makeup   :-)  Thank you for all the kindness and support you gave me during our Federal careers.  I  always knew you had my back.   I can't and will not forget you.  Rest in peace.  Love you. 

P. J.

Your were a great friend.  I was so looking forward to celebrating with you in November!
Much love to your family.  You were one of a kind and will be missed.


I had the experience to meet Paula when I worked in an office located on the same floor and next to  the MSPB in the  90s.   My supervisor was Elizabeth Canfield, Director of the D/FW Federal Executive Board.   Yes, Paula  was a strong supporter of the women in the federal workforce.  My condolences to her family.
Janet Adams

Paula and I reconnected  shortly after we moved to Dallas.  We met at a Mexican restaurant around twelvish...finally parted about 3:00! 
Our waiter said he had neve seen two women having such a great time.  

That was the first of many adventures.  We were there for each other during and great times, as well as the trials.  I miss her brilliant mind a nd her quick wit.  I hold all of those memories dear and miss her very much.

Hello Jana & Nikki and family. First of all my condolences to you on your mother’s passing . I was a old pen pal from England when we where younger !  around 1952 !  I met up with your mum and dad in 1964 in Oklahoma ,met your Grandpa and Grandma from both sides. I had been in Rochester New York on a exchange nursing program and 3 girls of us where doing the $99 Greyhound trip before going home ! We kept in touch for many years ,then life gets in the way! I have photos of you when you where small . I went on line to find out your mums current address to get ready to send her. 80 Th Birthday Card ,we shared the same birth year mine just this last Feb , only to find the sad news .I have many happy warm  memories of meeting your family ,as a youngster it was always exciting to get a letter from the U S A .   I have lived in Canada for the last 51 years . Two daughters 5 grandchildren .Be assured of many thoughts  and prayers for you all ,keep safe and cherish your memories. Thelma Smidt  ( nee  Dunster )

As a 1958 Muskogee Central High School graduate,  Paula and I did not share any classes that I remember; but, I do remember Paula as this full-of-life young woman who had a quick laugh and always a sweet smile on her face.  I think we all knew she would reach her goal of doing something in her life that would  give reason for all of us to remember her and to be proud that we knew her.   Even though of petite stature, she was never over shadowed by anyone else.  I was so happy to hear or her accomplishments.

My sincere sympathies to her family for their loss. 

I met Paula when we worked for the federal government and I was straight out of Law School. Paula was so helpful to me during that time and she was a mentor. Being a fellow Okie, we stayed in touch over the years. Rest in peace Paula.

OBITUARY

Paula Alexander Latshaw

August 1, 1940 – March 18, 2020

Ted Dickey West Funeral Home

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