Hi Dad,

I love and miss you so much and I think of you often. Every time your favorite movies or songs come on I just bawl like a baby! Of course the repeat button is pressed numerous times!! Never gets old 😃  I can't you've been gone gone for 13 years, when it feels like just yesterday you went to be with Jesus. I know that you are always watching down on us. Every time I'm driving and I'm at an intersection and I see the lights change I remember that you used to pretend you had magic on when the light would change. You definitely had me convinced, I'm still very nieve Lol. Please put extra eyes on mom, Timothy and Caleb. I worry about them all the time. And mom tries to be everyone's hero but deep inside she's hurting.  I wish I could take her pain away. She's a trooper for sure. You married an amazing women to be the mother of your children. She's just perfect. You would be thrilled to know that you have wonderful grandchildren and would be in complete joy around them. You were an awesome dad, I love you so. 💕

A picture when you were young no idea your age!

I went to high school with 'Sarge', down here in Ft. Myers.     We were the same graduating class.     He was very well liked, very polite.    I only knew him during high school, I don't know where he went to elementary or middle school.    Down here? 

Anyways, after graduating high school, we all scattered, went different ways.    I was very surprised to see he passed away on one of the 'high school class', websites.   (classreport.org)  

I'm beyond impressed how loved (Tom) 'Sarge', was to all of you up there in Ohio, where I've never been.    And it sounds like he had four kids?   WOW.  Nobodys having kids anymore.   I'm the last in my my olde German family, w/my parents gone now too.    

If 'Tommy', 'Sarge', walked by me in Walmart, right now, he'd get a huge smile on his face and yell out, 'Hey Lyle...!!', and give me a hearty handshake.    People like that don't exist anymore.   Just a very 'grounded', 'accepting', guy.

I think he had like a purple(?) Dodge Charger (early 70's?), in high school, boy that thing would be worth BIG BUCKS if he still had it today.  

I don't know if I'm allowed to leave contact info, but my email address down here is,  thelylefile@hotmail.com.     He's looking down and really smiling on you guys.    Life is waaaay too short, guys.    If any of you wants to contact me, and fill me in w/what Sarge did since high school, please feel free.

Hi dad… I always think of you. I have an awesome wife you would love and my kids are the best. I read my Bible first thing in the morning every day as you did. My son says he remembers you from heaven

I sure do miss you. I am sad most of the time. Mostly over Caleb. sometimes i wish I could talk to you, after all you and I loved him the most. tell everyone i said hi.

Hey Tommy,
I’ve been missing you a lot recently. I can’t believe you’ve been gone for so long. I remember coming home from school and getting one of your big bear hugs...I really miss those. I wish we could’ve had more time with you. Even though you were only a part of my life for about 2 years you meant everything to me, you were the father I always needed and I hope I’m making you proud up there! I graduated from high school last year, I’ve had a consistent job since I turned 16 and I’ve even gotten a place of my own. Shane has been doing really well for himself. He’s married now and you have 6 beautiful grandkids from him. I wish you could’ve met them. They are all so sweet and have these crazy personalities that you can just fall in love with. And they are all so smart! I really wish you could’ve been here with us to see all of the accomplishments we’ve made but I know deep in my heart that you’re always with us and watching over us. Please just watch over mom for me, she hasn’t been the same since you passed and she could really use your help and guidance. I miss you so much:two_hearts: say hello to grandma Mary for me and tell her that I miss her everyday. I love you Tommy and I miss you bunches.

Hi Dad!

I just wanted to say hi and that I love and miss you, I can't believe it's been almost 10 years since you saw Jesus's face I'm kind of jealous!! My heart aches for you things are just not the same like they used to be. You are going to like this, but I am starting to look more like you as I am getting older. And the boys I never realized look just like mom!! Its so interesting how appearances can change over time. I love you lots and think of you often, we miss you a lot. Please say hi to Grandma and Aunt Kimmy, as I'm sure you are enjoying spending time with them in heaven. Don't forget to look out for us, the boys really need you.

Hi Dad!!

It's been a long time since I've been on here I just wanted to say hi and that I miss you. There's been lots of stuff going on but we are all getting through it. Josh and Katie had a boy, and he is yummy! He looks like you a little bit, he's a happy baby! He's the only grandbaby at the moment. Joshua named him after himself. They moved to Florida, Mom is moving there to be with the baby. Joshua is your twin acting and looks for sure :) I'm so proud of mom, she's such a strong person always doing for everyone but never expects anything out of anyone. She's awesome. You sure found a perfect person to be the mother of your children. She's  definitely the highlight of our lives. I miss you a lot and think of you often, Please look out for the boys they need you. I'm doing alright I'm sure you were real excited to see Grandma in heaven!! I bet she had an awesome look on her face to see you and Aunt Kimmy, and Jesus!! How awesome that must be. I love you, I miss you. Keep looking out after us. Every time I hear a favorite song of yours on the radio I start crying and think of the times we kept repeating the music. Every time I am at a stop light I remember you pretending to change the lights... ;)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOMMY. I miss you. were having a grand baby in January, Its a *******!! Joshua and Katie found out today.  I cant tell anyone .
Timothy is doing well in CA. Rachel is perfect as usual, and Caleb, well hes got himself in some real trouble.Brittany is having a baby too, a girl. I sure wish you were here.

Hi Tommy,  the year 2019 sucked!! Be glad your not here. I think of you often.  Sure do see you every time I look at Joshua.  He is so much like you. Rachel is too. Timothy is doing well, still in CA. Caleb  is not doing well but God is on his side.  Spend alot of time praying,  trying to see a glimmer of light at the end of this dark tunnel I've been in. I wish you were still here with us.

Dear Tommy, well our baby is moving away to CA. i'm excited for him, and sad for me. my mom moved back to Ohio last July, she is doing well. we all miss you. We have NO grand babies yet, only grand-pets!! they will do for now. Victoria.

Well its almost that day again, the day you left us to join the Lord in your heavenly home. You sure are missed greatly here.the kids are doing well, no grand babies yet, i suspect in a year or two. Bonkie is expecting again in June. Elisa has had a baby too. Natalie is doing better. i cannot express how much you are missed. i use to think that the kids needed us most when they were younger, NOT true. maybe because the only have Ken and I, i'm not sure. sad really how things turn out. well i just wanted to say hi and that i was thinking about you. oh by the way... Timmy is a great young man. he has your heart.

I sure do miss you Tommy, you were my first Love. thank you for a wonderful life and our wonderful children. Timmy is in a bit of trouble and could use some of your guidance. Caleb in home again, Josh is happily married. and Rachel is just an amazing young lady. Ken and I are good. Hope your having a good time in heaven.

Hey Tommy, wow almost 4 years, I cant believe it. seems like yesterday we talked, and other days it seems like its been forever. 
Timmy went to see you yesterday, I had to pull up the cemitary on satellite and guide him to where you are buried. he misses you so. 
Joshua is getting married soon, June, you would love  his girl, i call her "cutie Katie". she is everything you would want for him.
 Rachel is doing well too, she is such a hard worker, and so kind and loving.
 Caleb has moved to GA. still awaiting to see if that will be a success, however he is so brave, he can do anything.
 I sure do miss you. No one love our kids like us, its lonely some times and i wish i had you to talk to. Ken  has really stepped in  as their parent, God sure knew what he was doing putting him in our life.  a step parent chooses to love, that exactly what he has done, but you know that already. well i just wanted to say hi, and i miss you.

Hey Uncle Tommy i love and miss you so much. It seems to never get much easier. You had such an impact on so many people's lives. You were truly an angel of God. You made so many people's day better, they say laughing is the best medicine  and you handed so much of it out. Happy birthday. LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!

Happy Birthday, it's been a long 3 years.  I miss you and love you

Christmas is two days away, I miss you sooo much.  I saw mom and dad  a couple of days ago.....I know they don't understand why I don't come around.....they remind me of you and it hurts so bad.  I will come and see you Wednesday....I love you so much, and think of you every day I miss you terribly

hey there birthday boy . How's heaven? I miss you so much, the kids miss you too. Seems we all have our ups and downs. I know I shouldn't question things, but WHY, just Why. I just can't wrap my head around why you are gone. You touched so many lives. Your kids are suffering a lot. miss you Have a great birthday party in heaven, tell Kim I said "Hi"

Tommy, its been so long.  I miss you so much everyday.  Rebekah is doing good.  We listen to your favorite song all the time and cry.  Shane is doing well.  He is working and expecting a little girl in October.  I saw mom and dad last week, I don't see them too often cause it hurts and reminds me of the life I should be living.  I want to hear your voice, I want to talk to you and hold you tight.  I wish I would have known, you were gonna be taken Home so soon....I would have made every moment count.  And I would have held you when He came to take you.  I don't make it to Eagle Rock very often, it reminds me of you, which is why I should go, but the pain is too much to handle at times.  I miss you kids, saw Caleb last week, he looks so much like you.  I love you very much, you still have my heart no matter what I do or here I go.  I love you.  P.S.  Tell Dad I said hi and give him a big hug.

Dad
Sometimes I wonder if I wouldn't of been such a problem child that you would still be here. I gave you and Mom soooooo many problems i just wish you guys could've seen that i tried so hard to make you happy but everytime I'd do good I'd just screw it up. I sometimes if i wouldn't of gotten in trouble and went to jail and rehab and put so much stress on you and Mom if you'd still be here it was so hard to see you guys come in and see me i used to wish you guys wouldn't come just so i didn't embarrass you. Ik i wasted alot of my talent and intelligence but I'm gonna make it Ik that everyone thinks I'm a failure but I'm not i work hard and i minister to people. Ik people think i had an easy life but i haven't especially the year you died i found this amazing girl and she got pregnant and had a miscarriage and i still haven't gotten over it and then i got my own apartment so i could become a good father and man like you would of done but then i got involved with some bad people and i basically smoked and drank that relationship away and that is one of my biggest regrets. I nuts having you tell me you were proud of me no matter what bc sometimes that's all i need all i every hear from people its how i screw things up but i don't. All i want to do its help people. Its hard to look at myself knowing what I've become but you know what keeps me  is that when i look in the mirror i think if all the people who said i couldn't make it in life and i laugh bc i serve a great God and Ik he'll shape me into the man if God i an meant to be well i love you and i miss you and i miss my family they never want to talk to me anymore

Well fathers day was a bust this year, the kids are so sad with out you. I don't like fathers day because that was the day you left us. oh well, besides that we had many good years. Some times I just can't believe you are gone, I just can't make sense of it.  I can still remember how happy you were when you became a father, so happy you got into an accident telling your sister about it when you were picking her up from school. what a day huh! that little girl sure did impact our life. what a princess. I miss you.   Victoria

Happy Fathers Day Dad! Today is a hard day without you. wish you were here to celebrate it with us. I miss you so much, i love you dearly. Why did you have to go so soon? Please look out for mom and the boys they need you! 

Xoxo

Dad,

I miss you so much, we all do! Mom is trying so hard being a single parent she has Ken (who is excellent and loves us very much, and we love him) she just has a lot on her shoulders. I feel bad for her all the time, and pray for her constantly to make this process easier on her. 

Father's Day is approaching soon and again it's going to be a hard day without you. Last year I cried this year I will proably cry again. Its just hard going to your grave, yeah technically you are there but you aren't. And I want you to be there and hug you and never let you go. 

I was at work the other day and this favorite guest of mine who I haven't seen in forever was asking how I was and I imformed him that you had gone to heaven and you are watching over me and he told me I remember that guy he used to come in and visit you while working and he had a smile on and earrings in! The guest had been staying here for 6 months. I laughed and told him we left your earrings in at your funeral!

I know God has plans why he takes our loved ones so early and we dont know why. 
Maybe he took you so early to look over us in Heaven and to protect us, one day I will know the answer just know I don't. 

Please look out for the boys they really need you. They are lost without you. I can see that they ache for you. Caleb is just like you and looks like you too so does Josh,  Tim well he always needs looked at.. They need looked out for. I pray for them everyday that they will be guided by you from heaven. Can you at least pat them on the back to show that you are there with them? I worry about them so does Mom.

I love you so much!! :) Think about you often! Wishing you were here. Look out for mom she needs you.

xoxoxoxox

Rachel

Tommy, our baby boy needs you! he is so searching for who who he is, I wish you were here to show him that being him is all he needs to be. you left us too early, our kids need you. I need to talk with you, No one love our kids like you and I, I feel so alone sometimes. Why, Why so soon, you were so young. somethime I just don't think God knew what he was doing taking you from us, what was he thinking..... well I have to trust he is in controll, my faith is a bit shakey at times like this though. forgive me God... its been a bad week.

Dear Tommy, 
     Well Caleb turned 21 the other day, he is so much like you. The kids realy miss you. Rachel and I went to your grave sight the other day, we took pictures, you know how silly we can be. You would be so proud of her, she has a good head on her shoulders. Caleb is growing up, and up, and up. actually I think he's done growing finally. Timmy and Josh are well too, still trying to find there place in the world with out you.
      I thought it would get easier as time went on, but I was wrong. There are just so many memories that involve you. I went to Eagle Rock on mothers day and sat there and remembered the many, many hours we would spend there, cleaning, feeding people, teaching in childrens, and serving etc. we were always doing something together, even after the divorce we remained friends. For that I will forever be blessed.
     well in a few years I will catch up to you in years, funny how that happens. well I just wanted to give you an up date on life with out you, I hate it some times, its hard, lonely at times, a lot of sadness, but I have great joy when seeing our beautiful children, and knowing we will see you again. God has blessed me with an awesome husband in Ken, he is doing a great job being a father to our kids too.

Lit a candle in memory of Thomas "Tommy" Kenneth Sarge

Dad. 

I miss you so much, just thinking about you makes me cry. I hope to understand why you left so early one day but right now I can't its still hard to think that you left the physical world but I know one day I will see you in the after world. 

You just left too soon...the boys and I are just kids and we need you. Mom really misses you, it really is hard especially for mom with you not being here. I feel really bad for her. 

Everybody is always talking about their dad and I cry because I can only talk about the memories and smile because I know I will get to see you again.

I know you are watching over me every day especially at work because almost every guy that checks into the hotel looks identical to you. 

Remember that time I was at the store by myself and I started to walk to my car and someone said "Thank you Rachel?" and no one else was around? That was for sure you because it was your voice I heard. I only knew it was you because of how you said it, and I for sure felt your presence there. I must have been thinking of you and you gave me a sign that you were there watching over me. I will never forget that day not only was I scared but relieved.

Thank you Dad!

And of course because I am so emotional I just start to tear up and put a smile on my face. You truly were a great dad, I loved the times that we had. And will cherish the memories!

I know its a Sarge thing to not express how we are feeling but why didn't you tell anybody that you were sick? If you told us you would still be here today. And nobody would be going through this awful feeling of a loved one being gone.

I love you with all my heart, and I miss you dearly!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo


Rachel

hey Tommy, Please keep an eye on Caleb from up there. He's in need of some guidance. the kids miss you so much. You were taken from us too soon, I guess some day we will understand, but for now it just doesn't make sence.

Dad,

Its tough without you. I am about to graduate. I am not even walking the stage because, well, you wont be there. Its hard right now. I just wish I had your advice. No one will ever understand our relationship. You were my best friend. I remember going over to your house and just enjoying your goofy laugh. Im so glad you were in my life. You are the man I am aming to be. I try to wake up happy every day just like you. Even though I have so much going on, I learned to be strong because of you. I just wish you could be thrre for my wedding and my first child. I never thought I would have to go through life without you. Sometimes I just put my head down in class and think of you. Everyone talks about their dad but no one had one with a heart like my fathers. I remember playing in your shoes and pretending to be like you. And wearing your shirt and pretending I was driving a truck like yours. Sometimes I cant look in the mirror becuase I look like you. It stings. I hope I make you proud some day. I wont give up or give in

Hey Tommy, we all miss you! You would be having soo much fun with your brother now that he has two kids. Those babies are so adorable! Seems like he & Jackie have a very loving marrige, you must be so proud of him. Love you! Mom

Well Tommy, my memory today is a sad one, a year ago today you died. I have so many memories of you, sometimes I wish I could just forget them.  then I get a glimps of you in one of our kids, espically Caleb, and I remember the good times we had.  Well I can only imagine the fun you are having in heaven, don't forget to save me a spot on your street of gold.

Its been a year and I miss you so much! Tell my mommy hi for me.
Love , as you would call me, bonk

Hey Tommy, I can't believe its almost a year since you died. I miss you. The kids are doing fine, of corse they miss you too.

Dear Tommy,
Well our Twin boys turned 19 today, they are so handsome, you would be so proud of them, Josh is so much like you all around. Timmy has your loving heart, he just loves everyone. he is moving forward with school. Caleb has grown leaps and bounds in maturity. you would be very proud of him as well. Rachel, well she is our Rachel, strong, level, and amazing. I miss being able to talk with you and hear you silly laugh. I was reminded today of the day the twins were born, we were both so young and scared, but we managed to get through it. i'll never forget when you told me i could worry when you started to worry, that comforted me for many years. Tell everyone I said Hi, see ya when I see ya. Save me a spot on your street.

Dear Tommy,
      Well our Twin boys turned 19 today, they are so handsome, you would be so proud of them, Josh is so much like you all around. Timmy has your loving heart, he just loves everyone. he is moving forward with school. Caleb has grown leaps and bounds in maturity. you would be very proud of him as well. Rachel, well she is our Rachel, strong, level, and amazing. I miss being able to talk with you and hear you silly laugh. I was reminded today of the day the twins were born, we were both so young and scared, but we managed to get through it. i'll never forget when you told me i could worry when you started to worry, that comforted me for many years. Tell everyone I said Hi, see ya when I see ya. Save me a spot on your street.

Ok the following was from Caleb Sarge....... He used my phone.

Hey dad I didn't know you had this or I woulda got on along time ago not a day goes by that I don't think of you I find my self crying  all the time and you know I'm not a cryer your death came hard for me me and you were just finally starting a relationship I miss you but you'll be glad to know I've changed the way I react to things I'm sorry it took me so long to forgive you for what happened long ago but you were and always will be a strong influence in my  if it wasn't for mom Idk what is do she keeps me goin I'm still not over you yet Idk if I ever will be I love you sooooo much dad is give anything to have you back I hope your having fun you are my hero you'll be forgotten.

I miss you Tommy, I never realized I would miss you so much,I guess after spending nearly 20 years together I should've expected it would be hard this year.are children miss you so much, their hearts are aching .it's been a long year ,I pray that 2013 is much better ,I don't think I can't take much more .I wish you were here. why did you leave  us?

Hi Daddy!
Merry Chirstmas! Sorry I am a little late. This was our first Christmas without you and it was very hard. Caleb really misses you but won't admit as usualand he is just a big Teddy Bear! If fact we all miss you.Joshua is a spitten image of you. Because he looks like you its easier to process that you are here all the time. And Timmy is just a sweetheart and full of energy.Mom is doing well too and she misses you. I love you Dad! Miss you a whole bunch. :) I bet Heaven was a blast celebrating it with Jesus our lord and savior! You and Aunt Kim had a ton of fun I can imagine. XoXoXoXoXo Love your daughter Rachel

Hey Tommy, mom is her visiting from Florida, we are going to visit your grave, I know you'r not there but that was the last place  i "saw" you. I'll never forget that day, i was there all alone, everyone had left for the church, and as usual it was you and I. Ken came a little while larer to pick me up, we sat there and talked, Ken knew how much you ment to me. you were my first love. I miss you so much, just to share how are kids are doing, no one loves them like you and I do. Tell Kim hi, and I miss her too. Love Victoria

Tommy, I miss you so much everyday....its been so hard trying to make it without you, and your smile.  I'd give anything just to hear your voice.  I love you

I miss you, are kids are doing good, you would be so excited that John is having a Boy. The kids miss you a lot. you'd be so proud of Joshua, he's such a hard working young mad, and so responsible too. He'll be graduating soon. He looks so much like you.

Happy Birthday Dad! I miss you. I love you dearly

Happy Fathers Day Dad! This is going to be a hard day with out you. We all miss you, mom and the boys do! Its hard not having you here. I love you very much. I cry all the time because you aren't here. xoxoxo

Hi Dad,

I miss you tons. I keep thinking about you. I love you!

Tommy, Our kids miss you so much, You meant so much to them. They are doing fairly well considering. I miss you very much. I feel so alone when it comes to the children, like alot of pressure being the only parent. I still cry alot, we spent so many years together. alot of ups and downs. My heart goes out to Carmen, I can't imagine how she is coping with out you. I know you loved her dearly. Joshua speaks to her often.  Joshua visits your grave too. Rachel went but couldn't find you. I'll go with her this week. I love you my friend.

Tommy,
I can't believe you are realy gone, I was talking with Timmy today and had to stop myself from saying "go ask your dad". You would be so proud of our kids, they have pulled through this amazingly well. I see you in them. I am getting a photo dvd together for them so they will always have something to look at when they want. Your children love you so much. 
I was telling Caleb just today how proud you were the day he was born, the glimmer in your eyes, the pride you had in having the first grandson.

Tommy always spoke of his cosin Christine and all the fun they had.

Tommy You have always been a big brother to me. I love you You have been at Carls and my side through the hardest time of our life. You are our family I remember sitting up late at night drinking coffee with you and all of us laughing until we cried. When there was noone for us as friends during chemo and beyond you were always here for us. Carl and I still are in shock and have no understanding to the why you are no longer here. But I know who you belong to and you are in his arms. We will take care of Carmen and your family. You would be so proud of Carmen she is an amazing woman of God. And your children are so beautiful. Life wont be the same here without you. I will so miss your smile, your laugh and your pranks. Carl is missing his best friend. But we will choose to go on in joy because this is your spirit. Thank you for your love. your laughter and just being you. Love you big brother and miss you every day.

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Tommy, Your funeral was very difficult for me, good-bye's are never easy, at the grave sight after all your friends and family had left, I stayed, like old times...the last to leave. You would be so proud of our kids, they are strong like you. Ken has agreed to step in and care for them in your place. Our marriage may have ended but our friendship was a lasting one, i don't think many people can relate to our ongoing connection. all in all i miss you very much, as do many others.

Hi Dad! :) 

Today was your funeral. Lots and lots of people were there who loved you very much.
It was absolutley beautiful. It was a little cold out but it was your kind of weather where you would be wearing your shorts and flip flops. However in the morning at the time of your service it was sunny and warm out. When I saw the saw the sun that morning I knew you were looking down at us all. I was so happy knowing that you were and always will. You looked so good for Jesus. The smile you had on your face was a smile knowing that you are celebrating with Jesus and he is happy that you are and he still is. Sorry I was crying at your funeral, you wouldn't have wanted me to cry you wanted me to be happy. Well we'll just say I was crying a happy cry because you are with Jesus :) And besides us girls are emotional people. I know you are having a blast with Aunt Kimmy up in Heaven celebrating with Jesus!! I love you dad, a smile is put on my face knowing that you are in a PERFECT place with your PERFECT creator whom I will meet someday, you just beat me to it first. Thinking of your smile and all your love.

I will see you later!

I love you

Rachel :)

Tommy you will truly be missed by so many people. You impacted so many lives. We celebrate your life and the difference you made here on earth. I remember all of the laughs we would have especially on Wednesday nights before & after services. It was a constant, as was  your smile and heart for people and your family & most importantly the Lord. It truly was compelling. Ashtyn always looked forward to having you as her teacher on Sunday mornings, you were one of the very few that could keep her from crying when she was little. That always brought joy to myself & Bethany's heart.

To the Sarge Family: We are so sorry for your loss and sorry we could not be there. We are praying for you during this difficult time. This family has always been one of the greatest examples of the love of Christ and a family of great strength. You have so much to be proud of with Tommy! We love you all and you will continue to be in our hearts and prayers! 

Pastor Kyle & Bethany Mills
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Elevate City Church Family

To the Sarge Family:  Our deepest sympathy to all the family.  Anthony and I were so blessed to know Tommy.  He always had a smile on his face and was always respectful to us.  He had a heart of gold!!  He was great with children.  I always loved watching him interact with them.  He is the only person (along with John) that always wore shorts in the middle of winter!! He made me cold just looking at him!!!  We love you all!!

Uncle Tom & Aunt Mary,
Wishing I could see you guys. My heart hearts for your loss. He is an Angel watching over us all. I was remembering the times I was at your house when we were kids and he used to shot me with rubber bands. :) I love you all!!! Praying for you all.

Tom and Mary and to the entire family, we are so sad and our hearts go out to you...Tommy is up in Heaven, pain free, and smiling..this is how we remember him, with his big smile that overtook the whole room...He was such a good person. We love you all. Milton and Sandy

My dear aunt Mary I love u and your family so much my heart breaks for u no matter how far and wide our love and family ties bind us ....I Will pray for you uncle Tom just know ur family is in my heart.

Everyone is talking about remembering Tommy for his smile. I agree. Can you imagine how big his smile was once he met Jesus? I can. It would be exuberant and full of joy like it was here on earth that brightened everyone's day and spirits. We will miss you, but we will see you again someday. 

To the Sarge family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the peace that passes all understanding and the comfort of our Father be with you all. We love you. 

~Ryan and Mary Hallquist~

I will always be thankful for Tommy's prayers on behalf of my sons.  He took the time to follow after those who were struggling, and I will never forget how much his encouragement meant to me over the years.  I will miss him in this life, but I know he is with Jesus, and I will see him again.  My prayer is that all who knew him, will also know Tommy's Lord and Savior.  It was his assurance, and mine.  There is no greater hope for any problem in this life.

To the Sarge family, I continue to pray for the Holy Spirit's presence with you during this difficult transition.

Much love,
Cristy Stebelton

Raising Cane's "G-Unit" purchased the Fireside Basket - Seasonal Garden for the family of Thomas "Tommy" Kenneth Sarge Jr..

I remember "peeking" out the blinds at you when you came to pick Carmen up on your "first" date...she was so nervous..you opened the car door for her....I thought to myself "she's found a gentleman"....She loved you with her entire being and was so grateful to God that you walked into her life...Her Daddy loved you...the "son" he never had"..Bekah tells me so many stories about you...she had you for a short time but you were her" Dad."....The smile that was on your face always will be forever in my mind......Thank you for coming into our lives.....MY FAVORITE SON-IN-LAW!

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Tommy at his sister Kim's wedding, and younger brother John Paul, and younger sister Staci

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Thomas "Tommy" Kenneth Sarge

August 26, 1966 – February 16, 2012

Schoedinger Midtown

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