Name: Schoedinger Midtown
Address: Columbus, OH

Julie and Mike- I know your father had a love for Lacrosse and I have donated via the link to the US Lacrosse in his memory.  My thoughts are with you all.

So saddened to hear of Paul's passing.  Deepest condolences to Julie, Michael, Jim and Barb and the rest of the family and friends.  So many fond memories: he was my assistant lacrosse coach at OSU in the late 60's; fellow midfielder and coach on the Columbus Lacrosse Club; OSU tailgates--lacrosse players always knew where to gather at Paul's tailgate in the parking lot South of  the French Field House (ahh his wedding soup); road trips to support the Buckeyes at the home of That Team Up North; many fun times at the Uncle Bennie Invitational where he insisted on using a one iron instead of a driver; his unselfish commitment to growing the sport of lacrosse in Ohio and nationally--especially his impact on high school girls lacrosse in central Ohio. Paul, you grumpy old man with the biggest heart who impacted many peoples' lives, you will be missed.  I am so sorry that Amy and I are out of state and will not be able to celebrate Paul's life at the service. Our thoughts and prayers will be there with everyone. 
Amy and Don Bennett, a.k.a. Uncle Bennie

Memories to Treasure was purchased for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

I knew Paul as I was friends with Mike and Julie.  I had nothing but the utmost respect for Paul.  He was a dedicated coach, father and grandfather.  Played many a pick up basket ball games with Mike, Paul and Julie.  Enjoyed many a rounds of golf with Paul, Mike and Mr. Keller.  Enjoyed his tailgates and wedding soup!  I was impressed to hear he knew about Salisbury, MD when I moved here 16 years ago.  He knew Salisbury because SU was good at lacrosse and  the Ward Water Foul Art museum was here.  Miss you Paul.  Thoughts and prayers to Mike, Julie and family.

Many memories of Paul run through my mind. I knew him as a lacrosse player on the Columbus Lacrosse Club team. I knew him as a husband and father to Michael and Julie. I knew him socially. And all those memories bring a smile to my face. I remember New Year's Eve parties, 4th of July parties and all the firecrackers he would set off in the street (and the cherry bomb he threw in our neighbor's backyard), lacrosse parties (won't reveal details), grilling brats at Centennial, grilling steaks at Zoofari, OSU tailgates, karaoke, wild game potlucks, and just hanging out. We have lost a special friend. Thoughts and prayers to his family!

Dearest Coach, 
I cannot begin to express how much I appreciate all of your time, support, and dedication throughout my four years of lacrosse at Coffman. Your passion for lacrosse was undeniable and contagious.  You always found a way to go above and beyond for us. I don’t know how you managed to make time for each and every player, but you did. You were a constant, reliable and solid leader that had an incredible impact.
I will forever cherish the memories with you and our team...from team dinners, Baltimore and Florida trips, to the dreaded timed circuits and practices in the freezing cold.  I can still hear you say, “Go hard or go home”. You were always there to inspire and encourage.  God bless you, Coach.  You will be truly missed. 
-Julie Eisert DCHS Class of 2001

Thank you Coach for your endearing love of lacrosse and mentorship. You challenged me to push myself and compete and I’m forever grateful for how you were able to combine compassion and the drive to win. As a coach now myself, I always strive to model myself after one of the best- you. Reading all these memories from your former players is truly a testament to your legacy. God bless. 
- Kelsey Viets (DCHS/DJHS Class of ‘06)

Coach Caldwell helped me find faith in myself through the sport of lacrosse. His caring attitude and genuine involvement in my life helped me find success in sport and life. Through his selfless dedication to summer leagues (some of my favorite Sunday nights in life were spent on the field at Thomas Worthington with Coach Caldwell and his friend Coach Leake), the beginning of the Northstar team, and by looking for glimpses of future greatness in young players he grew the sport of lacrosse more than any other central Ohio coach I can think of. He went on to help me as a collegiate player and high school coach. He was always ready to offer help even when I called him out of the blue. It is with great regret and sadness that I cannot make the trip up to Columbus on Thursday to pay my respects.  Rest In Peace Coach and Lax on in Heaven.  Jenny (Burns) Page Class of 2001.

Paul Caldwell was one of the best friends I ever had, starting at John Marshall High School and becoming closer friends at Hawken School. Paul and I also had our friendship because of the things we did together at Hawken and working in Columbus, Ohio.

Paul would call me and ask me to go to several football games and follow young men on certain teams so that I would go and see these individuals play and then I would bring each individual to Columbus, Ohio and introduce these terrific football players and have them introduced to Coach Woodie Hayes in the hope that they would become players for Woodies teams.


Through Athletics Paul touched many lives which made the world a better place because of him. Because of his professional ability to coach, Paul was loved by those who knew him and will forever miss him. I'll miss the several things Paul and I did with the athletes we both enjoyed working with. I'll never forget how loved he was by the athletes he coached and the great friends who knew him. I'll miss the frequent telephone calls that Paul and I shared. 


Bob Timoteo JMH  1957.

Florist Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

As I remember Paul Cladwell(always “Caldy” to me) 53 years of friendship and unforgettable experiences come to mind—Lacrosse, OSU, Woody, ’68 and ’97 Rose Bowls, piece of the goal post, King Ave runs, Clyde, the V-Club, the Michigan games, his tailgates and wedding soup, his “Bloody’s”, our Len Iemke bus ride to Ann Arbor, J-Van’s, Warren’s Chili, his conflicts with Jay, his dogs, his “Browns”, his coaching, his duck hunting, his golf and the Uncle Bennie, his playing basketball(can you believe it?), his weekly luncheons with Kellar et al, his “reffing”, his girls teams, how he would address me, his close friend, “Whiteman, You Asshole”, his expressing I was #1, but always with the wrong finger, “Size matters”, our boating get-togethers, Shooters(“The Catch of the Day”), Newport, Block Island, Dutch Harbor, “Christies”, where’s Kellar?, where’s Rudy?, Ballard’s, “BI Blenderfest”, fishing for stripers, Green Banana incident, Captain’s seasick, “Cuban Missile Crisis”, Whale Watch, chose safe harbor and the only slip w/o water, coffee or beer. “Go Back”, 1306 Nantucket Ave (“Classified”-a topic to be shared only in my next life), macerator pump, Red Man in the can, drainpipe, MaryLou for you, Rudy’s cabin in Michigan, Kellar’s car is missing, his kids Mike and Julie, his grandchildren, Boston Petey, dog Bruce with a ticket, 12 in C3 w/capacity for 8, his Stillwagon, Roman, his fabulous foursome-Caldy, Kellar, Gorilla and Bourne, his Nancy years, his brother Jim, 2008 #1-#2 Michigan Game 42-39(best ever?), Buckeye blood in his veins, his rebounding to attend our 2016 and 2018 LAX Reunions,  and I suppose I could go on and on……..
To many who read this, the above will be confusing and meaningless, but to those who knew Caldy, and loved him as I did, I hope you, too, can relate to and recollect these funny and unforgettable memories of him. 
I am disappointed that medical issues prevent me from attending his funeral, but rest assured I will be there in spirit. And when my time comes to join him wherever is his now, I am sure his greeting will be “Whiteman, You Asshole, Where were you and what took you so long?”
May he be Resting-in-Peace—Rick Whiteman, Rhode Island

Ruth Hunter Smith and Deborah Hunter purchased the A New Sunrise Spray for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

David Heider & Family purchased the Emerald Garden Basket for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

Back in 1965, Paul took me on his “midwestern trip” where he was interviewing several schools for a coaching position. He already knew Woody, and introduced me to him. We went out on several junkets with a number of OSU players and had a terrific time. For me it was a time of a lifetime. I even got to sit in on a player evaluation session with Paul, where he reported on the players academic status. Paul always supported us as players at JMH. He was like our big brother. Once, a fan spit on some of our players as we were standing below the stands. I saw Pail grab the guy with both hands and explained to the guy tha was not acceptable. The guy took Paul’s point and immediately corrected his behavior. Paul was like that, willing to stick his neck out for his friends. Paul had a big presence, and a big heart. I will miss him , and will surely see him in glory. Good bye, Paul. Hugh Larsen.

The 2009 girls lacrosse team...PC's "Elite 8" purchased the Emerald Garden Basket for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

Jim and Barb, our sincere sympathy at the passing of your brother, Paul.  He certainly had a wonderful career promoting and participating in LaCrosse, and we're sure he will be missed by you and all his family and his friends.  Our thoughts are with you at this hard time, when you say goodbye to Paul.

Fran & Har Chapman

On behalf of the Ohio High School Girls Larosse Coaches Association we are sadden to hear of the passing of Paul Caldwell. Paul was a pioneer for girls lacrosse, working tirelessly to growing the game in Ohio. He had a big heart for student athletes and started the North Star Lacrosse Club. He was very active as a coach in our Coaches Association, Chairman of the All American Committee, Officating games, member of The Ohio Lacrosse Hall Fame and served as our US Lacrosse chapter President for many years. Paul was a key contrbutor to the sport and we will always remember him for his love for the game. 

Dave Ferguson

The Chao sisters are forever grateful for Coach Caldwell and the lessons he instilled in us. He taught us to fight, to have passion, and to love being part of a team. We would not be the women we are today without Coach Caldwell's influence. 

I personally owe Coach Caldwell for an incredible coaching career that he had me start my first year in college. At 18, I did not know what a profound impact it would have on my life. Coach taught me to have pride in my school (Coffman and especially The Ohio State University) as well as myself. I am thankful to have the privilege of having him attend my wedding this past March.

Victoria and I are honoring Coach Caldwell's legacy and dedication to lacrosse by donating to US Lacrosse's "First Stick" campaign as we remember him gifting our first sticks back in 1998.

Thank you, Coach. We miss you!

Love,

Caroline and Vicky

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of one of the most significant supporters and contributors to the game of lacrosse in Ohio. He will be forever missed by the coaches, players, and the entire lacrosse community. I wish I would be there to celebrate his life and memory. Unfortunately I will be out of town. I will forever remember Coach Caldwell with fond memories.

I regret that I will be out of state on the day of Paul’s services..I will always respect and remember Paul’s contributions to the youth through lacrosse - especially how much he meant to my granddaughter and family.

Be My Love Bouquet with Red Roses was purchased for the family of Paul I. Caldwell.

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Paul I. Caldwell

May 28, 1939 – September 20, 2018

Schoedinger Midtown

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