Robert Edward Elder

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Robert Edward Elder, a man whose life was a testament to unwavering devotion, selfless service, and boundless love. A lifelong resident of Boone County, Missouri, his presence enriched our community and touched the lives of countless individuals.

Bob passed away Monday March 24, 2025, Bob was born on January 23, 1931, to Hattie Marsh and Marion Elder.

On February 20, 1965, Bob joined his life with Lorna Ann Roberts. Their marriage, spanning over 60 years, was a beautiful example of enduring love and unwavering partnership. He was a devoted and loving husband, standing by her side through every joy and challenge life presented.

After graduating from Hickman High school Bob joined the US Airforce where he honorably served his country, spending time in both England and the United States.

Bob was a member of the Locust Grove Methodist Church.

From May 15, 1954, to February 15, 1986, Bob served the Columbia Missouri Fire Department with extraordinary courage and dedication. Nicknamed “Lanky” by his fellow firefighters, he rose through the ranks, becoming a respected Battalion Chief of Training and then Ladder Captain, embodying the true spirit of a firefighter. His 32 years of service, as a proud member of IAFF Local 1055, reflected his deep commitment to protecting and serving his fellow citizens.

Retiring from the fire department did not mean retiring from service. He found a second calling at Columbia Public Schools, where he poured his heart into working with the children at Oakland Junior High. His ability to connect with and inspire young minds was a gift, leaving a lasting impact on his “Kids”. Later, he continued to serve his community by managing the maintenance for a local church, ensuring its doors were always open.

Bob's heart was always open to helping others, both emotionally and practically. He possessed a rare ability to see the needs of those around him and to offer support without hesitation. This compassionate spirit was a guiding light in his life, and he instilled this same sense of caring in all who were fortunate enough to know him.

He loved the outdoors, especially fishing. Montauk and Bennett Springs held a special place in his heart, where he found peace and joy casting his line. He tried to never miss a MU Tigers or KC Chiefs game.

Above all, Bob cherished his family. He was a loving father to Debbie (Gary) Thomas, Brenda Rudisill, John Elder, and Dan (Kathy) Baldridge. He also leaves behind Linda Kay Hendron, whom he loved as his own.

He was preceded in death by his beloved sons, Bob (Terry) Elder and Mike (Myra Little) Baldridge. His legacy continues through his 20 grandchildren, 32 great-grandchildren and 2 great-great-grandchildren, who were the light of his life.

Bob was preceded in death by 12 siblings: Brooksie, Marion, James, Freda, Joseph, Rosa, Bill, Martha, Raymond, Johny, Helen and Jerry.

He leaves behind a void that can never be filled, but his memory will forever be a source of inspiration and comfort. His kindness, generosity, and unwavering love will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

The family welcomes you to a visitation at Memorial Park Funeral Home on Friday, April 4, 2025 at 10:00 am and a funeral service at 11:00 am. Flowers are welcome, and for those who wish to make a charitable donation, We suggest contacting your local fire station to ask if they have a need or Donate to The International Association of Firefighters Fund, reflecting Bob’s dedication to his fellow firefighters.