When I was a kid, my mom and I would always go over to Mike and Chrissy and I loved it because I liked hanging out with Mike.. he was funny , he would beat me up and wrestle with me , he used to smoke with me lol.. he was a big part of my life in my early teen years, at that time of my life he was a refresher, not only to me but my whole family. He was a great addition. Even tho I hadn’t seen him in a long time the relationship him and I had would not be affected by time, like a stain on a shirt would not go away.. I appreciated him as someone who took me under his wing.. you never forget people like that when you get older, the ones who took care of you the best they could at the time..  it hurts me to write this I pray for the family.. I pray God comforts them rite where they are.  

My friend Mike. I miss you man. I can still hear your laugh running through my head. I’m so happy I got to hang with you not knowing in just one week you would be gone. My heart is with the kids right now. So many memories of the boys playing and you bbqing. I will stand by them and support them in all they do and remind them that their dad is proud of them. This is a huge loss for them and so many. I love you my friend. Until we meet again. RIP. 

I met Mike and thought he was the coolest guy a lil grouchy at times but a real person not fake genuine caring and a good friend and father since we met he was a father figure to my daughter Lexi both him and cousin Chrissy always there for Lexi treated her like his own daughter but that is Mike he loved his kids and Lexi too always included her in everything his home was her second home he made life better for Lexie knowing he loved her and she had a man in her life the girls shared their dad with Lexi Mike was full of love a kindness in his own special way I love mike for caring about and loving Lexi so much she even gots his ways he rubbed off on her a lil to much but I love it I’ve always loved and respect Ted Mike for that I love mike he was a very good person a unique kind of man that I had a lot of respect t for he will be missed greatly by me and my daughters who loved him so much my condolences to you the family for your loss I know it a big impact on our hearts I can’t imagine how much it’s impacted you losing him too my love sympathy goes out to you I’m this time of loss thank you for allowing me to express my heart felt thought with much love Melissa Lexi Felicia

 I love you more than you’ll ever know my sweet angel I promise to make you proud and keep your spirit alive for as long as I live. ❤️

I love you so much dad nothing will ever compare to the love and joy you brought me. I’ll see you next life time, forever 44. 🕊💔❤️

My dad, my best friend, my rock, my absolute favorite person in the world. My heart is broken knowing I have to continue living this life without you. You will always be #1 in my heart, I will forever cherish our memories and time spent together. I love you dad I will miss you forever, until we meet again my sweet angel. 

Reminded me that love was possible after divorce. Was so sweet and kind. 

Made me laugh and brought the goofy out of me. 

Christmas lights looking was so fun, a great memory I will always remember. 

My father was an amazing man and an amazing father. he did everything just perfect for me and my family and knew how to keep everything right. its a sad time in life right now with him gone but i know he would want my family to be happy. he’s at rest now with his 2 beloved brothers. rest in peace dad, i’ll forever and always love you. rest well.

OBITUARY

Michael Anthony Defalco

August 11, 1978 – March 18, 2023

Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary

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