I loved my dear friend Larry.  I had the opportunity to be his roommate for a year and we have stayed close since that time.  He had such a kind heart and was a special soul.  May G-d embrace him and may he be at peace.

It’s only fitting that we are here saying our farewells to my father in the midst of a hurricane. Nearly forty one years ago he became a dad during what he described as a borderline monsoon getting my mom to the hospital after her water broke. In hindsight his life was like the weather. He was a loving man and brought everyone here sunny days. Also there were heavy clouds and he shared that over his recent decades with us. The storms were at their strongest over the past few years, and the Cat-5 wind finally blew out his flame. 

But I will never forget those sunny days. Countless hours kicking soccer balls across fields and golf courses. Deep introspections while lounging in the pool. Practicing the fine art of eggs on a pan. Walking to and from shul and enjoying the hospitality of a generous host. Working through my shyness and testing out icebreaker awkward jokes with strangers. Learning that religion is not just an institution but an exploration. Taking long walks outside and seeing what that brings. 

Although I have a finance career, and he was a businessman, what my father gave me isn’t measured in dollars. He opened my eyes to mental illness at a young age and how to be a friend to those suffering from the storms and droughts that it brings. He taught me humanity, and helping others find peace, love and humor, often in tough times while being candid about our own hardships. 

So as we mourn his passing, let’s remember how he brightened our dark days, and try to pass that on to the next person with sad eyes looking for a reason to smile. I’ve certainly done that many times and will continue thanks to his legacy that will live on through us all. After all, rain feeds life, and that’s what my father has done for those fortunate to know this special man.

To The Segal Family,

We are so sorry for the loss of Larry, but we are glad we were able to spend some time with him and Joel this past spring. Larry showed us around Charlotte (we are from Northern Virginia) and brought us to some great restaurants! He will be missed. 

May God comfort you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem and may Larry's memory be a blessing.

With love,
Bruce and Wynne Busman

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Lawrence "Larry" Jay Segal

May 10, 1954 – September 18, 2024

McEwen Funeral Service-Pineville Chapel

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