As a young girl she danced with the New York City ballet and dreamed of being a Rockette. Her less than 5’2” stature would not allow her to dance on the Radio City Music Hall stage. Yet, that did not stop her from dancing through life. In high school, she met the man of her dreams. In 1967 and upon news the Air Force was sending Ray to Vietnam, she utilized her planning skills to turn a year engagement into a full-blown Italian wedding in less than a month. This December would have marked 54 years of marriage. Together they had two daughters, JaNeen and Tracy. In 1974, Braniff Airlines brought the family to Carrollton, Texas. In the 47 years of living in Texas she never lost her Yankee accent.
When it was time for Tracy to join her sister in school, Jan decided to work at the elementary school. Many Carrollton-Farmers Branch ISD students received her daily encouragement and hugs. Most knew her as the “lunch lady” or “Mom Jan.” When the girls moved on to high school, she moved outside the cafeteria to the crosswalk. In May 2021, she was still donning the yellow vest and carrying a stop sign to cross the elementary students.
Jan loved to entertain friends for a brunch or summer BBQ. She made the best elbow macaroni salad. Her joy came from serving others. Especially, her granddaughter Isabel and her friends. Whether it was hemming a dance recital costume, making homecoming mums, working a concession stand, or having lunch with friends, she would be there with love and support.
A few months ago, she was diagnosed with a difficult, complex, and aggressive breast cancer. She fought with a courageous spirit. The triple-negative breast cancer stole her quickly from us. We will miss her sassy ‘never quit’ positive attitude. Her smile and the ability to dance to any tune. She has a cherished place in our hearts. Jan will always be remembered for her kindness, love and happiness she bestowed on all.
She joined in heaven her parents, Frank & Gloria Grosso; her in-laws, Vincent and Mary Hopkins; and her son-in-law Matthew G. Frank.
She left behind her husband, Ray Hopkins and their daughters JaNeen Hopkins (son-in-law Ryan Riley) and Tracy Hopkins; her pride and joy, granddaughter Isabel Diaz; and her brother Frank Grosso. As well as many cousins, nieces and nephews.
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