hard part. To share with even with family and close friends is not something that we do
everyday…but it does need to be done somehow. I find it very difficult to bring it from the
beginning to the end because I didn’t live his life…I just danced along with him for 46 years. I
was and audience and an observer.
Born at the old Galt hospital in 1950 and born to Mary (Sebastian) and Alfred Smith he was
brought home to Preston to join his brother Tom and sister Jeanette. His parents and his
brother have passed and left to mourn him is his sister. Raised in Preston and attending PHS
he enjoyed his City and all the friends he made along the way. Not long out of high school he
was employed at Firth Brown Tools for 47 years and that was quite the journey that he relished
in the paycheque and the security that it brought him but did not enjoy the industry. He made
friends along that path that seemed to make him content. He realize that his humour drew
people to him and his goodness and kindness were always reflected in the people who he
touched. I can never remember one person speaking ill of him and he rarely spoke ill of
anyone else. That surely is a gift that can’t be taught.
When I first met Allen (Smitty) I was amazed at how comfortable he was in his own skin. He
didn’t want for much and he lived in the present, never worrying about the future and knew that
life just sorts itself out …. Good or bad….What drew me to him was how he could make me
laugh and we sure did that over the many years and our Friday nights with great conversations
about everything over a few bevies…He was very diplomatic, practical and grounded in his
world views of things. Simple things brought him so much pleasure and his life was lived with
peace within himself and a joy he would say “just to be alive”. I was the kite and he was the
rock.
What I am so thankful was how he embraced my family with true love. I would complain about
so many things and he would say “Shut up” you have a fabulous family. He respected my
parents and he enjoyed them just as Nan and Jim and they said if we ever parted they would
pick him over me. They have since past. He loved my brothers …Jim and his wife Barbara,
Mike and his wife Sandra and Kyle and his wife Diane and his many nieces and nephews and
enjoyed hearing about all the things they were doing. My brothers called him brother also and
treated him as their own. They all are left to mourn but he will always be mentioned in their
conversations over the years to come that they will share with their own kids and their friends.
Who could ask for more.
Even though he was Canadian we turned him into a true “Scot” over the years. He relished all
of the Scottish family visiting and he finally over the years could understand what they were
saying. He loved my connection to Scotland and often spoke about all of them. All the clan
will surely miss him but again will speak of him often.
We will do a nice “Celebration of Life” at a later date and we will toast him and have a good old
laugh.
A very special heart felt thank you to the Cambridge Memorial Hospital for your care and
especially your compassion that took him out of this world peacefully and with no pain. Angels
on earth…..thank you…….
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A favourite line from a song he loved……”Long May You Run”…………………………………..
Allen F. Smith - August 17, 1950 - February 7, 2024
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