I just learned today of the passing of my former neighbor Kay Porter Kay and I lived in the first high rise condo in San Diego in the late 80 s and  90 s .She was so high energy and committed to serve the San Diego  community in many ways to make it a civilized and  culturally  rich  city.She was so generous with providing her time ,talent , and knowledge .  She was fair ,Democratic , witty,fun, cheerful and effective.The city was most fortunate to have Kay as an active community leader,It was a privilege to be her friend and neighbor.God Bless her and her family.Mary Berend 

Kay was one of the first people I met after moving to San Diego in the ‘70’s. I have many memories of working with her on Showcase House projects and other organizations. She was inspirational.

It's been a deep and uplifting  joy recalling the innumerable breakthroughs Kay brought to the San Diego region; growth and fun Kay gave me personally. Her grand, profound civic accomplishments are beautifully outlined by others. I'll treasure Kay's example to consistently nurture deep and long friendships throughout her community presence. Additionally I'm inspired by the passion, yes: passion which Kay brought to her work, and those friendships. I was fortunate enough to witness all of this beginning with her leading our Brownie Troop (Kay'd recall the Troop number...apologies,Kay: at this moment I've forgotten) and continuing through over 60 years of friendship. In another day and time I believe Kay would have served several Mayoral terms in her beloved San Diego. In spite of political doors not fully open to her, Kay made multiple left turns to complete volumes of other service; always with full heart and humor. Rest in power, dear Kay...that is once you're ready to take a break from the festive, happy reconnection  happening right now with your beloved family and friends who've gone on before you. 


I remember Kay Porter’s close friendships with my friends Vivian and Oberlin Evenson, who founded the Spreckels Organ Society. She was such an encouragement and joy to us. After the Evensons had passed, she would still attend events at the Organ Pavilion. We are blessed that her son Ross is our Executive Director. Her enthusiasm to preserve San Diego’s heritage has surely rubbed off on him. Condolences to Ross and other family members. Your mom lives on through you.
Bob Plimpton  

The Mission Hills next door neighbors were the Murphys and Kellys, and we had many fun times growing up along side the Porter clan. Kay and my sister Gloria shared many memories from their San Diego High days. Kay kept a watchful eye out on all us youngsters in the alley; always with a smile on her face, even when we were in trouble. We have lost a grand lady. My prayers and sympathies go out to all the Porter family. 

Kay's dedication and perseverance of objectives for Community advancement are really unmatched.  In my Fifty plus year friendship with her working on so many things from COMBO to Balboa Park, I had the experience of witnessing what she was able to accomplish.  It was impressive in every way.  But, more than that she listened, discussed and approached the subject at hand with friendship and a warm heart. It was a pleasure to work with her.  My wife, with her many year friendship with Kay and their Wednesday Club association joins me in these thoughts.  Kay will be missed by us all.   


I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing.  She was certainly a fixture in the community and so full of life.  She was always so friendly and kind when I had the opportunity to see her.  My deepest sympathies to you.

OBITUARY

Kathleen "Kay" Porter

November 26, 1927 – September 15, 2020

Glen Abbey Memorial Park & Mortuary

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