From: Charlene Gonzales 
Sent: Friday, January 24, 2014 5:58 PM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: FW: Elsa Poyatos-Barajas
 
Elsa,
I don't think you are back at work, I hope you aren't.  I think of you daily and sending you good wishes for comfortI hope things here work out for you.
How are you?  How are the kids?
Charlene
 
 
From: Philip Browning 
Sent: Friday, January 24, 2014 9:01 AM
To: Charlene Gonzales
Subject: RE: Elsa Poyatos-Barajas
 
Charlene
 
I was so sad to hear the news about the passing of Elsa's husband-thx for letting me know.
 
I appreciate that Elsa has helped us during a very difficult time and I have asked our Deputy Director to see how we can help Elsa during this period.
 
Thx
 
Philip L. Browning, Director
Los Angeles County
Department of Children and Family Services
425 Shatto Place
Los Angeles, CA  90020
(213) 351-5600 office
(213) 427-6125 fax
pbrowning@dcfs.lacounty.gov

From: Elsa Poyatos-Barajas 
>Sent: Jan 29, 2014 9:36 AM
>To: Heather Mata , Thelma Fernandez , Magda Juarez , Elaine Maslar , Deena , Michele , Jay & Debbey , "heather @ home" 
>Subject: Special Gifts for Special People
>
>Hello Ladies, 
>
>I just want to take a moment and acknowledge how wonderful each and everyone of you are.  I don't believe that I would be able to do this without your constant love and support.  It really means a lot and I appreciate it.  

>I cannot thank you enough for what you have done for me this past two weeks.  The little things are what matter and the fact that I didn't ask, you just did it.  I am truly blessed with the bestest friends ever.  
>
>I know this does not reflect how grateful I am, but I would like to do something for all of you.  I would like to plan a Glen Ivy day for all of us (I'm sure coordination will be a challenge - but we will make it happen).  I would like to pay for your admission and a spa treatment for each of you.  
>
>Please list at least five different days that you are available in the next few months.  I will coordinate until we figure a day that works for all.  We can also do a weekday, if we can get mommy coverage.  
>
>Love you all, 
>
>E
>

Hello Heather and Elsa, 

I'm sorry I've been emailing so much.... please don't feel like you need to respond to them, I just wanted to keep you guys in the loop:

Revised Dinner Drop-off Schedule 
1/13- Johnston Family (baseball) 

1/14- Coach Brown

1/15- Coach Lyndsay & Coach Dylan

1/16- Stram Family (softball)

1/17- viewing

1/18- service and reception

1/19- Amezcua Family (softball) 

1/20- Torrez Family (softball) 

1/21- Johnson Family (softball) 

1/22- Brown Family (softball)   

 1/23- Johnston & Lundgren Family (baseball)

1/24- Parten Family (softball) 



Baseball Parents are starting to work on getting week 3 covered as well, I will keep your family in the loop. 



Erin :)



On Mon, Jan 13, 2014 at 12:16 PM, Erin Brown  wrote:
I heard that the viewing and services are Friday and Saturday so I switch the Parten Family to the 24th and the Johnston Family to the 23rd. So that will cover dinners from tonight though the next two weeks. 


On Monday, January 13, 2014, Erin Brown wrote:
It's no problem at all Heather... I wish there was more I could do to help. I've been asking the families to bring dinner in the evening around 6 to up feed 6 people.  Here is the schedule so far: 

1/13- Hamamoto Family (softball) 
1/14- Coach Brown
1/15- Coach Lyndsay & Coach Dylan
1/16- Stram Family (softball)
1/17- Parten Family (softball) 
1/18- Johnston Family (baseball) 
1/19- Amezcua Family (softball) 
1/20- Torrez Family (softball) 
1/21- Johnson Family (softball) 
1/22- Brown Family (softball)  

If services are made on any of these dates I will call the families and reschedule them to an alternate date. 

Our Athletic Director's Husband, Tim Vanderbaan, is a pastor in our community and has volunteered to do the service if the family would like. The service can be held at his church in Lakewood or at a funeral home. He is wonderful because he spends time getting to know the family. This is just an option for you all, please don't feel like have to use his services in any way. 

ASB has also offered to orange for snacks and drinks at a service if you guys would like as well... Again, this are just options for the family and don't have to be used. 

Again, if there is anything I can do please let me know. 

Erin 

On Monday, January 13, 2014, Heather M. Fernandez wrote:
Erin, thanks so much for this email.  Elsa, Rachel and the family are all so touched at your response to the horrible news.

As for meal delivery, that is fantastic!  Do you mind me asking what guidance you are giving the families on how much food to prepare?  I want to make sure there is enough for the visitors/well wishers that are coming by the house this week so that Elsa doesn't feel the need to have to feed them :).  As long as I know how much the softball families will be bringing, we can always supplement with other friends/family help.  

I cannot tell you how thankful we all are and for everything that you and the families are doing.  This is so awesome and a HUGE relief.  Let me know once you have your final calendar and so we can fill out the rest!

Thanks,
Heather

PS - you can also always call me at 415-710-1832




On Mon, Jan 13, 2014 at 10:08 AM, Erin Brown  wrote:
Hello Heather, 

This is Erin, Rachel's softball coach... I've started to organize a meal drop off for the family. Lots of softball parents have stepped up and committed to bringing dinner for the family. So far we have the 14,15,16, 17,19,20, 21, and 22nd of January covered for dinner delivery in the evening. I will continue to make calls to fill more dates. Please let me know if you and the family needs anything at all, I'm willing to help in anyway I can. I will send you the meal schedule once it's finalized with the names of the families that will be coming on each date. I know this is emotionally exhausting for you all I will advise the parents to simply drop off the meal unless you all would like to invite them in for company. Again, please let me know if I can contribute in any other ways. 

Erin Brown 
(562) 879-1980 cell 


On Sunday, January 12, 2014, Heather M. Fernandez wrote:
Hello Rachel's teachers,

I'm Rachel Barajas' aunt, writing on behalf of her mother Elsa Barajas.  

As you might have heard, Rachel's father George unexpectedly passed away Saturday in the early morning hours. As you can imagine, the family is busy dealing with this horrible tragedy.

Rachel will not be able to attend school this week; her mother wanted to get in touch with you to let you know.  As you might expect from Rachel, she is worried about falling behind in her classes with the reports, tests, homework, etc.  We are hoping that you can provide some flexibility so that she can focus on her family until she is able to return (likely the week of January 20).  

Could you please let us know what is expected of her, or if we need to notify someone in the administration?  I've CCed her mother Elsa Barajas on this email, so please include her on your responses.  

Thank you for your understanding.  I can be reached at this email or 415-710-1832 if you have any questions.

Thank you,
Heather

From: Nicole Weiss 
To: Deena Lamb 
Sent: Thu, Jan 16, 2014 9:51 am
Subject: Re: GEORGE BARAJAS

Thank you for sending us the information. Kaitlin and I were totally shocked when she read on Facebook. We will go to the viewing tomorrow but unfortunately we have another funeral to go to at the same time. The end of last year and beginning of this one has been filled with people passing at such a young age.
If you talk to Elsa please send our love and prayers.
Thank you,
 Nicole

From: Andrya Markham-Moguel  [Edit Address Book]
To: 'Elsa Poyatos-Barajas' 
Subject: RE: My Husband George
Date: Jan 15, 2014 3:51 PM
Thank you.
 
I will share the information.  I have received many inquiries.  We have much love for you and your family!!
 
Andrya Markham-Moguel, CSA III
Contract Services Bureau
11539 Hawthorne Blvd., 4th Floor
Hawthorne, CA 90250
(310) 263-2003 Phone
(310) 263-7738 Fax

From: Dolores Ochoa  [Edit Address Book]
To: 'Elsa Poyatos-Barajas' 
Subject: RE: My Husband George
Date: Jan 15, 2014 4:10 PM

Hey girl, Gerardo sent it to me.  I will post it etc.  You are a strong person and I wish you much strength during this difficult time.  Sincere condolences to you and your kids. 
 
Happy Holidays!!!
 
Lola Ochoa, Secretary to ARA Ibarra
Department of Children & Family Services
Palmdale office, SB 1, 661-223-4131
 
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away."

----Original Message----- 
From: Jenny Valenzuela 
Sent: Jan 15, 2014 4:09 PM 
To: Elsa Poyatos-Barajas 
Subject: Re: My Husband George 

Hi Dear Elsa, we are heading out of town for the official college visit so we will not be able to attend. Please know although there are no words that can help with the pain you and your family is going through. On behalf of the Valenzuela Family we have heavy hearts and will keep you and family in our prayers. Love Jenny 

Jenny Valenzuela

From: Kenneth  [Edit Address Book]
To: Rachel Barajas 
Subject: Our Condolences
Date: Jan 11, 2014 12:16 PM

Elsa, Rachel, and Barron,
We are very sorry for your loss. George was a favorite and we will surely miss him. Please let us know if we can help in any way. If it's okay for us to attend the services, please let us know when they will be.

Love,

Kenneth, Janice, and Cindy

From: Tracy Groendyke 
Sent: Thursday, January 16, 2014 11:29 AM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: Sorry for your loss

Hi Elsa, 
I just want to express my sympathy for your loss. I was looking at all the pictures posted on the website and even though I did not know him you can see the love he had for the children in his life. I can only imagine what you may be feeling at this time and I hope you find comfort with those that love you and knew him well. 
Take care, 
Tracy Groendyke

Tracy Groendyke, M.A. .
Supervising Children's Social Worker
4060 Watson Plaza Dr.
Lakewood, Ca. 90712
(562) 497-3476

Dear Elsa:

I read about the passing of your husband in LA Kids, and I wanted to extend my condolences.  I'm truly sorry for your loss.  If you should need anything, please do not hesitate to contact me.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Glenda L. Quintanilla, MSW/MBA
Supervising Children's Social Worker
Los Angeles County-Department of Children & Family Services
Adoption & Permanency Resources Division
28490 Avenue Stanford – Suite 100 
Santa Clarita, CA 91355
Tel:  661-702-6471
Fax:  661-295-3519
Email:  quintga@dcfs.lacounty.gov

Elsa.

I am very sorry for your loss.
Please accept my deepest condolences in connection to your husband's death. 
I wish you and your family strength and patience in these difficult times.

Sincerely 

Hayk Martirosyan / Palmdale ER.

From: Hayk Martirosyan 
Sent: Wednesday, February 05, 2014 9:40 AM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: RE: Re:

Welcome back Elsa.

Again I want to wish you the strength to endure the challenges waiting ahead. 

Sincerely

Hayk

From: Sylvia Soriano 
Sent: Thursday, January 16, 2014 10:18 AM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: 

Good Morning Elsa. 

Just wanted to take some time to send my condolences to you and your family.  I am deeply sorry for your loss, and want you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of loss.  



CSW Sylvia Soriano
DCFS- Medical Case Management Services
1373 E. Center Court Dr., Covina, CA 91724
626-938-1748   /  Fax#: 626-859-3748
RDO Every Monday

From: Tori Frozina 
Sent: Thursday, January 16, 2014 9:53 AM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: Sorry

Hi Elsa,

I am so sorry.  I am in shock for you.  If there is anything at all you need, please let me know.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,
Tori

Thank You,
Sincerely,
Tori L. Frozina, RN, BSN, PHNS
DCFS Palmdale Office
Office # (661) 223-4282
Cell # (661) 305-7332
email: frozit@dcfs.lacounty.gov
RDO - Friday

Elsa, 

Please forgive me for being so informal, but I figured this would be the easiest way to reach out to you. I just read about your husband's passing.  My deepest condolences to you and your family.  I really am at a loss for words, but I pray that you and your family will take comfort in all the fond memories you share of him.  

Sincerely,
Lillian Soto

From: Trinh Huynh (CSW III) 
Sent: Thursday, January 16, 2014 9:04 AM
To: Elsa Barajas (Poyatos)
Subject: 

Hi Elsa,

I was one of your EASE-IN drivers.  I saw the post about your husband and wanted to send you my deepest condolences for your loss.  My prayers are with you and your family. 

Thank you,
 
Trinh N. Huynh, MSW
DCFS-Adoption Permanency & Resource Division
Adoption CSW III
1373 Center Court Drive
Covina, CA 91724
626-938-1636 office
909-418-0237 cell
626-859-3759 fax
RDO Mondays

Elsa,
I am really sorry for you loss.  My thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family.

Poli

Hipolito Mendez, MSW
SCSW, Pregnant and Parenting Teen Conference Facilitator 
Child Welfare Health Services Section
Bureau of Clinical Resources and Services
1933 S. Broadway Blvd. 6th Floor
Los Angeles, CA 90007
mendeh@dcfs.lacounty.gov
(213) 763-3144
Fax (213) 742-7015

Maria,
While I do not know Elsa personally, please pass along my condolences and let her know that she and her family are in my thoughts.
Julie


Julie Gould, LCSW
CalSWEC Child Welfare Consultant/Mental Health Program Coordinator
Department of Social Work
Cal State University, Northridge
818.677.5033 office
818.677.7630 department
818.677.7662 fax

Hi Elsa,

I just wanted to tell you that I'm very sorry for your lost. I know it's hard to lose someone you love dearly. My prayers are with you and your children (family) in this time of need. I hope you feel better soon. I miss you and the EASE-IN team. 

Best,

Rene Obando

EMAIL:

From:  Lola (Dolores Ochoa) My deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family Elsa.  I am so so sorry for your loss; so sorry.  ?

From: Jolene Swain [mailto:jswain@usc.edu] 
Sent: Wednesday, January 15, 2014 4:37 PM
To: Maria Camarillo
Cc: Cbittmann; Mroz, Carol; Julie Gould; Joy Rubin; MKO@UCLA.EDU
Subject: RE: Need to Reschedule the 1-15-14 meeting!

Hi Maria,

I know that I can speak for my colleagues in saying that we are so sorry to hear about Elsa's husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with her and her family.

Thank you,
Calswec PC's

Emails:  

My sympathies for your loss.

Bertha Hollis, Supervisor
DCFS-Fiscal Operations
Accounts Payable/Central Mileage Unit
425 Shatto Place, Room 304
Los Angeles, CA  90020
Phone: (213) 351-3200
Fax:     (213) 637-2551
E-mail: hollib@dcfs.lacounty.gov

FB post 1-11-14:  I can't believe that your gone you were such a big part of my life even before I was born you were one of my dad's best friends, I remember when I would spend the night at your house you would get up extra early an go get Krispy cream donuts for me analicia an Rachel !!! It doesn't feel real too me!! You new me even before I was born lol I'm glad my son got too meet you!!! You will be missed kiss my cousin Jesse for me I hope you an him have the greatest time in heaven Rest in paradise GEORGE BARAJAS ??

FB post 1-11-14:  Losing somebody is probably the hardest thing u can deal with. I'm so saddened to hear this news and I don't even know how to feel. He was a great guy and it's gonna be so weird not seeing him at our house every week. RIP George. Ur family is in my prayers and I know you're in a better place now.

Elsa, Rachel, and Baron:  We are all saddened by your loss.  George was torn from your family far too early.  He was a good man and will be missed.  His daily actions showed just how much he loved all of you.  We are all grateful that you shared him with our family.
 
A friend shared the following poem with me when I lost my mother.  I hope that you enjoy it as much as I have.
 
TO THOSE I LOVE..AND THOSE WHO LOVE ME
When I am gone, release me, let me go.  I have so many things to see and do.  You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears, be happy that we had so many years.  I gave you my love.  You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness.  I thank you for the love you each have shown, but now it's time I traveled on alone.  So grieve a while, if grieve you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust.  It's only for a while that we must part, so bless the memories within your hearts, I won't be far away, for life goes on…so if you need me, call and I will come.  Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near and if you listen with your heart, you will hear all my love around you, soft and clear.  And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and say “Welcome Home.”
 
With love ~ The Lambs (Kelly, Deena, Ashley and Haley)

"Elsa, Rachel and Baron, our thoughts and prayers are always with you.We will surely missed Uncle George and all the good memories shared with us.
He was one of the good folks I first met when I joined the Poyatos Family.
Sure glad Jasmine spent sometime during the Thanksgiving 2013 with you all.
We will be missing him alot especially during 49 ers and Lakers games. 
                                        Edgar Jr. Aida and Jasmine Poyatos

Elsa, I know how hard this must be for you but you are one of the strongest women that I know.  Your strength will serve to carry you and your family through.  Please know that you are all in my prayers so that you find peace and comfort.   Your "DCFS family" is here for you.   Blanca Vega (LA, CA)

Hi Elsa and family,  I am always thinking of you and your family and praying that god see's you through these tough times.

Elsa and Family, I've never had the pleasure of meeting George however in knowing you the last 10 years, I know you to be a very happy person and I know George had a large role in making you such the wonderful and real person that I have come to love.  My prayers are with you Elsa and your family during this time.  I know it was far too soon that this unfortunate event had taken place and I hope if there is anything I can do to please call on me.

I can't look at George's picture.  It's as if he never left us.  I know he can't be here.  But I want to to hear his voice, see his smile, hear is laugh.    ...all of him!  "George, if you can hear me, I really miss you bro'!  Laters."

I love you.  From your brother Edgar Poyatos Jr.

Hi Elsa, 

I remain in prayer and continue sending my heartfelt regards to you and your family. Please know that in the mist of the darkness, "God" is still the light. May God continue to bless you and your family with the fruits of the spirit...Sandy M. Hamilton (Carson, CA)

Elsa, 
I never met George, but he must of have been a wonderful man to have won your heart over.  George sounds like he was an awesome father and husband.  I wish I could have met him.  Keep his memories in your heart and he'll never be too far away from you.  Adjusting to life without George will be hard. Remember that you have of all of your family and friends here to support you through this difficult time. God Bless you and your family.

Elsa, Rachel, and Baron my heart goes out to all of you. George was an amazing husband, father and friend. Treasure the memories of him as they will carry you through the difficult times. We are here for you always. Praying for peace for all of you! 

Love, Magda and Family

Elsa,
You may not remember me, but I was in the Training Objective Workshop while it lasted only a short while. I was so shocked to see your name and your husband's passing, and I am truly sorry for your loss.  May God comfort you and your family during this time with His peace.
God bless you. Shalom, Toby Iland

Facebook Yvette Hernandez-Gjonovich January 18, 2014

Good to c these beautiful ladies. We will b there for Elsa. :'-) you had an amazing hubby. We taught him well.  U guys raised two great kids. It will take the village to continue.

Elsa, Rachel, and Baron:

You are all too young to lose someone so dear and close to your heart.  May the memories that you created through the years carry you forward in life.  George will forever be by your side.  He loved you all in his special way.  He shared his love for sports with you, and you made him proud with your successes on the court and on the fields.  Elsa, my sister, I know you lost your best friend and love.  He loved you through the years and stood beside you through the hills and the valleys.  Be strong, as I know that is what he would have wished for you.  He will undoubtedly be remembered and be missed at our family functions.  All my love to you and the kids.

George was a good neighboor and a good man. I will miss him.

Jim Dare

Dear Elsa and family....Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. My deepest condolences for you and your family.

I love you George. Thank you for helping my father raise me into being the young lady I am today and helping learn everything I know about softball. You honestly were a second father to me, and no one will ever replace that spot. Its too soon for you to leave us, but I'm still grateful to have a mom, sister and brother i get to spend the rest of my life with. RIPLove, Ash

Elsa, Rachel, Baron and the entire family - We pray for strength, healing and comfort today and in the days to come.  George was an amazing person and loved by so many. Our thoughts are with you.

Elsa, My heart is with you and your children, My prayers are with God to help comfort you

Dear Elsa I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. As I stated to you in the text message I sent the living room crew just found out today! Everyone sends their players words cannot convey how much our hearts go out to your and your family, but what I want to say God will take care of you. continuous prayers Beverly

Elsa, My heart goes out to you and your family.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elsa, 

My condolence and God's comfort to you and your family.

Elsa I am so sorry for your lost. Wish I could be with you and your family on tomorrow but know my heart will be with you and my prayers will cover you and the kids.  Love Sharion

Dear Elsa, Rachel, Baron and the entire family.  We are so very sorry for the loss of your husband, father, brother, & friend.  George was and always will be a great guy. You all are in our thoughts.  Much love to you all.

Elsa, I am so sorry for your loss for your family. I send prayers of healing and comfort for yor, your children and family members during this time. Blessings, Stacie!

Dear Elsa, Rachel and Baron,  We are so sorry to hear of your loss.  You are in our thoughts through this difficult time.  We are honored to have met George.  He will be greatly missed.  Love, Gary, Minako and Toko

We are so sorry for your loss my dear cousin. Our prayers are with you and your family. We are here for you!

Love,
Fariva, Vernon and Jaguar Villanueva

Elsa, I'm so sorry for your loss.George will be a great loss. Linda Scott

Elsa, Rachel and Baron, Although it's extremely difficult to see beyond the sorrow of losing your husband/father may you find comfort in the wonderful memories you made as a family.May all the happy memories help carry you through this time of sorrow.

Love always,
Cousin Carol Barajas

Elsa, My thoughts and prayers are with you daily. I pray for peace and healing for you and your beautiful children.

Barajas family: please know that you are in the thoughts of many at this difficult time. You have my deepest regard.

Chatisee Fuqua

Elsa, “I'm so sorry for your loss.”  "I hope you'll be comforted by your memories."

Elsa, 

My thoughts are with you and your family during this rough time in your life.  May you be strengthened during your time of loss,

"Comfort for the Bereaved"
 
I am the Life and the Light and the Way--
The Earth is my Garden.
Each of the Souls I plant as seeds
Germinates and flowers in its season,
And in each I am fulfilled.
There is no cause for grief
When a blossom fades
But only rejoicing for the beauty it held
And praise that my Will is done
And my Plan served.
I am one with all creatures
And none is ever lost
But only restored to me,
Having never left me at all.
For what is Eternal
Cannon be separated from its Source.
I am with you all,
And each of you is a channel for my Light.
Feel my Love
Enfold you now and evermore.

Elsa, I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in the love you shared, the memories and the support from all your family and friends. Deepest condolences from our family to yours. Take Care.

Hi Elsa,
 Sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Cookie, PHN (CPT-West)

Elsa, 
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope the memories your created together help comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

Elsa, I am sorry for your loss. May you and your family find comfort in the beautiful memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Elsa, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.  My condolences to you and your family.  Praying for all of you.

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss...our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.. Peace, prayers, and blessings! The Goncalves Family

On behalf of Al Rodriguez and family , we want to send our condolences and gratitude to Barajas Family. Thru softball we became family, we share many moments and memories and we will miss George's voice behind the fence. We love you guys, be strong and when you look to the stars in the sky his will shine.         
2 Corinthians 5:8  " To be absent of the body, is to be present with the Lord"

I am going to miss you my dear cousin I love you with all my heart
Dan Barajas and family

Elsa,  our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss.  May you take comfort in the life and love you shared with your childhood sweetheart and in the memories of a wonderful husband and father to you and the children.  Love, Strength and Courage to you!

Please accept my sincere sympathies. May God bless and keep you in his care, now and in the days to come. With sincere sympathy Kimble Mealancon (Palmdale, CA)

Thoughts and prayers with our Barajas clan always.  We will always love you "Jorge".

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