I’m so very sorry for your loss i seen this on my facebook and am heartbroken for your family may she rest peacefully 😞

Dear Alyssa am sorry for your lose when I heard you died I start crying hard I just went too say you will live inside of my heart forever no matter what I love you always and forever alyssa god bless your family 😭

RIP Alyssa..  I hope your Family and Friends Find Solace in their Memories of you.

From my daughters best friend Maya-

"I love you forever and ever Alyssa. I hope you know how much of an impact you had on our lives. I'm so glad I asked you for three hugs friday, I wished I asked for four, or even five. I wish I hugged you a little tighter. I wish I could give you one more juice box. I wish you could be there with me this weekend, you were so excited. Words cant even begin to describe what I've felt in the last 24 hours. Alyssa, you're one of the most beautiful and caring souls I've ever met in my entire life. Thank you for accepting me, and loving me for me. Thank you for helping me love my true self and for being one of the most influential people I've ever had in my life. You never failed to put a smile on my face or make me laugh, even on the worst days. You mean so much to me and you will always be in my heart. I love you forever, and ever, and ever."

"From my daughters best friend"
Mia Part 2

"You made me feel comfortable in my own skin, made me feel special, beautiful, and so lucky to know you. I cant thank you enough for everything you did for me. Thank you for the memories, thank you for sticking by my side even after I wasn't the best person at times, thank you for making me into a better person."

-Mia

"From my daughters best friend" -Mia Part 1-
"Dear Alyssa, I never saw myself writing a eulogy for you at such a young age. I saw ourselves living out our dreams together, moving away, living together, supporting each other till we were old and grey. The moment I met you I knew how special you were. I never wanted to be someone's friend so bad. Your energy is truly unmatched, your humor, your style, your laugh, your heart. You really turned me into the person I am today. You pushed me to explore things out of my comfort zone, such as clothes, art, music, and speaking up. You were so big on being respectful and treating everyone so fairly and I really admired you for that. You pushed me to be a better person in every aspect. You taught me what a real friendship was. You taught me that family didnt need to be blood related. You always brought out the best in me, even on my worst days. No matter what I was going through, you always found a way to make me smile. You always knew exactly what to say and what to do. I am the absolute luckiest human being alive cause I had the chance to be your bestfriend. You always talked about us being friend soulmates and it made me feel so special. It felt like I didnt need anyone in the world when you were around. Seeing your face light up when we'd talk about our interests, new music, or what our plans for the future were, was the best. You were wholesome in every way possible. You never talked bad about anyone, you never had anything negative to say, you were just so real and beautiful and you kept me grounded. I've never met anyone stronger than you. No matter what you were going through, you still got up in the morning, you still took care of business, and you still made time to check on me. I miss the sound of your voice, the cuddles, the way you always said you loved me before you hung up on the phone. There's not a soul on this earth like you.

"From my daughters best friend"

(Part 2)

 But if I know one thing, I know that alyssa would do everything in her power to make sure you knew that she loved you, to be there when you want to give up and fight everyday to try and live for her. Lyss I miss you more then words can even explain and that will never change. Thank you so so so much for loving me with all of you and for every moment I got to spend with you. I love you more then I can even fathom  Lyss and I promise you that your energy will live on forever. I love you forever my Capricorn. Love, Raquel <3

"From my daughters best friend"

(Part 1)

"Hi. My name is Raquel. Alyssa was my best friend  in the entire world besides this one next to me. And I am pretty sure that feeling was mutual. 
Alyssas had the kind of soul that was rare that only the lucky did get to experience. Alyssas soul was gentle, genuine, loving and you felt that the second you met her. The kind of person that feels like you've known in a past life, a girl with such a pure aura. She wore her heart on her sleeve for anyone and everyone because lyss did not have a bad bone in her body. She was one of the strongest people I will ever know. The type of girl that made sure to ask me if I was okay before talking to me about what she was going through and how she felt. She put the people she loved before herself no matter what and she did so with expecting absolutely nothing in return. She held no judgement in her heart, she truly heard and cared for every word that came out of your mouth and would respond and treat you with the most caring and honest intentions. Even during the lowest points of my life, alyssa took away that lonely feeling with solely her presence.  From the moment I met alyssa I knew she was special and truly one of a kind she was unique in the most perfect way. The way she dressed, how she did her hair, the love she held in her heart for other people, to her dope ass makeup looks. Lyss did it like no one else ever and she freaking rocked it. She was so so so much cooler then she even knew. It's so hard to live in a world that doesn't have lyss in it. It's hard to wake up knowing I can't make her feel less alone anymore or see her smile again. And it will forever will be. I lost a piece of my heart when alyssa passed away. And I know many of you felt the same. That's just how deeply she touched everyone in a purely positive way.
(See Part 2)

"For those of you that couldn't attend my daughters service, I'd like to share what I shared...

"Hello everybody,
My name is Eric, and I am Alyssa's father. Thank you so much to all of you for coming here today for Alyssa. Thank you to everybody that reached out to somebody regarding Alyssa's passing. Our family is overwhelmed with appreciation. Without all of you this wouldn't be possible. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. 
When I met Evelyn, she already had two amazing boys, Anthony, and Nilo. Soon we had my son Eric. I thought life couldn't get any better. Then Alyssa came along. She was our baby, our only girl. She was beautiful inside and out. She was a little artist, and a fashionista, and very creative. She was loving, and giving, and selfless. She had a huge heart that only the lucky got to experience.
My son Eric remembers a memory where Alyssa and him were hanging out in his room, and they had gotten into an argument over what movie to watch. He said they yelled at each other, then she stormed out of the room and slammed his door. Then she opens up his door, and in her mad voice says "I love you!," and waited for Eric to say it back. He said she always had to have him know that even if shes mad at him, she still loves him no matter what. He said that's what made her an amazing sister to him. She never left any doubt in his head as to whether she loved him or not.
Alyssa, you were the best daughter in the world. We will never stop missing you. We will never stop loving you. I guess this is goodbye for now. I hope you liked your slideshow. I know how much you hated how I edited your photos. I love you daughter. Thank you for everything."

I remember the first time I laid eyes on Alyssa I was new to the school and didn’t know anyone it was the summer before freshman year. I remember seeing her in her red dickies and colored hair and I thought to myself that girl has cool style and I would love to be her friend. Thank god we had French class together and we sat next to each other.  I remember wearing a save the bees hoodie and she was like do you even listen to Tyler? And made me list all his songs and ever since then we hit it off. Alyssa didn’t just have cool style and cool hair, she had a beautiful soul, she was super creative, she had goals and dreams, Alyssa was real to me and I appreciated that. I remember making it my goal to make her laugh everyday. I could never get over her laugh it was so contagious. I’m very thankful to be apart of her life. Unfortunately it was cut short. Her love was so divine, I just wish we had more time. 

i reamber when my daugther was younger eating ice cream alyssa was caring her destiny got cholate on me is ok

OBITUARY

Alyssa Dorothy Kittendorff

December 26, 2003 – October 30, 2021

Miller Mies Downey Mortuary

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