It's been three years.  I miss you more now than ever.  You should be enjoying your senior year and waiting for college acceptance letters, because I know you would and could have gotten into Amy college of your choice.  I love you, my Baby John.  Love, Mommy.  😘😘

Dear Miller Family,
You and John are in my thoughts. I know most days its hard to put one foot in front of the other, as I walk the same path as you. 
Please be good to yourself and each other 
Love, Coach Sue Butler

Dear John,
I swam 100x100 in memory of you!! It hurt alot, but not as much as losing you. 
You are so missed. 
Love, Coach Sue

I just wanted to let you all know that I know these anniversaries are hard and it takes a lot out of us to remember what that day was like. We just have to go on and remember all the good memories and know that they are with us each day. We never forget but we learn a new way to manage. I love you and am here if you need for anything. Thinking of you all and praying for you. 🙏

I would like to personally thank everyone who took the time to write a message on this platform.  I have read every one of them, and each one has touched my heart.  It is almost surreal that the one-year anniversary is less than a week from today, and reading these messages has truly comforted me during this unbearable time.  May each of us find peace in our own lives by honoring the ethics and altruistic standards by which John lived:  kindness, charitable, compassion for others, and the ceaseless desire for equity and equality in this world.   John,  you were generous to a fault, and I love you for that, but with greater reason, I am forever proud of you for that.  You will always be my Baby John, and yes, I still smile EVERY SINGLE TIME  I think of you walking into my bedroom and asking, "Mommy, are you smiling because your baby is here?"  The answer always was yes, and always will be yes.

Rhonda and Jason, words cannot express how sorry I am over John Henry’s passing.
I remember the day he was born, as if it was yesterday.
I know what it’s like to lose a grandchild, but not a child of my own.
I only wish that I had known about this tragedy so that I could have been there for you.
Hugs and Love,
Emily

I know this is very late and no one will probably see it, that’s the only reason why i’m saying it honestly, i wasn’t one of johns best friends, but i would still consider him a friend.  Going through this photo album of him really has me thinking and i hope his family has gotten through the grief, i know that they still feel his presence the way i do, and the lasting impact he has had on our lives. John (and his family) i just want to say that you will forever be in my heart and my prayers.
-Everett young

 The Kinneberg family sends prayers to you. I did not know John. My granddaughter Ella Kinneberg was a friend of Johns at Patterson Mill.  She is devastated by his passing. John will be missed by all that new and loved him.


Rob and Charna KInneberg 

Dear Miller family,
.    I had the pleasure of being John's fifth grade teacher. I remember him as a kind, considerate boy.  Well liked by all of his classmates for his sense of humor, John was always part of the group. I remember one particular school spirit day, the students were encouraged to wear the uniform of a sport that they played. Students wore baseball uniforms, soccer, lacrosse - I even had three students wear their football helmets all day -  even to lunch.  John, not to be outdone, wore his swim cap and goggles all day. We loved it. 

   .  I truly hope your many memories of this sweet boy will help sustain you through this difficult time. I pray for peace and healing for your family.  May you rest in peace sweet John.

My family and I we are heartbroken for your tragic loss. 
A little angel has left.
Our thoughts and prayers for his family.
😢

I remember when he use to come to work w his dad and big brother , that “little face” the smile and laugh was so sweet- 

I am so heartbroken for your loss.

My thoughts are with your family.

Denise Helwig & Family 

John Henry, 

I will never forget the day you were at my apartment and you decided to take a ride in my motorized wheelchair. You went out the door, down the hall just laughing. You were in your glory. 

I love you and will miss you very much.

Love, 

Gramma Sylvia 

Words cannot express our sincere sympathy and grief over this tragic loss.    We watched John grow up since we became neighbors years ago.  We will miss him.   We are here for your family. 
 Our hearts are broken.  Love you,  John.  

The loss of John is absolutely heartbreaking, we are praying for him and for your family.  He was a funny, sweet and kind young man and he will be greatly missed, may he Rest In Peace.

Susan, Jon, and AJ

We are praying Gods strength and peace upon your family during this time.  Your family  has been in our thought and prayers. 

Syleana Adrian Jaylen Laci

To the Miller Family,
  We are so saddened to learn of John's passing. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Andy, Tracy, and Courtney Levy

Miller family,

We were heartbroken for your family to hear about John’s sudden passing.  While we haven’t seen you in a few years, Gavin & Jackson (Peganoff) and I have fond memories of Valleybrook swim team, playing connect 4 with John, and his team spirit (including his green hair).  Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.  May your wonderful memories of John keep him close to your hearts forever.

Dear Miller Family,
I did not know John personally. But, as a substitute teacher, Member of the Fire Service and retired military, I share your grief. God bless your family and God is with you in this tragedy.  My condolences on your loss. Just to let you know that we are here for you and your family in your time of need.
GOD BLESS

Dear Miller Family,
Nothing I can say will help to ease the pain, but your son was an amazing person who’s warmth and good nature touched all who knew him. I can’t imagine your sorrow , I’m so sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for strength for all of you as you continue through each day. 

To the Millers family, 
 I have no words to explain the grief I feel for you and your family, I didnt know John to well, but I wish I knew what a beautiful soul he had, I would see some pictures here and there and I know that he put a wonderful smile onto their faces, just remember hes never gone, he'll always be here in our hearts, day by, day. I'll forever pray for you and your family... much love ! 
   ❤🙏R.I.P JOHN❤🙏 -karleigh gill

I wish I had words to offer that could take away the wrenching sorrow that comes from John’s loss.  It sounds like John was extremely kind and  his loss will be a constant reminder to me of how powerful kindness can be in reaching others.  

John was one of my closest friends, he was always there for me and never failed to make me smile. Just being around him made my day better, he was always looking out for me. If I ever felt bad about something he always made me feel better and showed me I was worth it. I will never forget my 1st day at Patterson mill, I was scared and he came up to me and told me his name and helped me find my classes. He was such a light in my life. He was one of my best friends and I will never forget him, I will always miss our long talks. John Miller will always hold a place in my heart. I love you John 

Dear Miller family,

I knew John since the second grade and he was always an outstanding friend. I truly aspired to be like John. Just this school year I can remember his humorous smile and friendly attitude. I am so sorry for your loss. I know the Patterson Mill community loved him just as much as you do. We can fight against the grief of loss together. 

I love you, John, & The rest Miller family

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your precious son John. We're so very sorry. 

My heart is aching for your entire family. I cannot fathom how deep your grief must run. I am praying God washes over each of you with a flood of grace and peace. 

Dear Jason , Rhonda, Ariel and Adam, 
my heart is broken for you all. I have very fond memories of John from coaching him at The Y , Valleybrook and Sailfish. Cody really enjoyed every time they were together, whether it was swimming, playing or overnights. I loved when we went out on the boat together. Your family is very precious to us. We are praying  for you all. 

Dear Miller family, I am a friend of John’s. He was a good man. He always cheered me up when I was sad and he also always had my back. I’ve always enjoyed spending time with him. I just wish he was still here today, I’m sorry for your loss. Thanks for making me laugh John. I will always keep you in my heart. I love you.
🙏🏼❤️🕊 Fly high John🙏🏼❤️🕊

Dear Miller Family,
My heart is filled with grief for your loss. 
I so enjoyed coaching John at the Abingdon Y. 
I know the pain of losing a child and my thoughts and love are with you. 
May you find strength in this difficult time. 
Coach Sue Butler

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John Henry Miller, III

February 7, 2005 – February 26, 2020

Schimunek Funeral Home

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