Debbie, I am very sad to hear of Tom's passing.  He and I spent hours discussing music, sports, politics, and life in general in our time working together at Max Webber's.  We also spent time outside of work as friends.  I am grateful he and I had the chance to talk on the phone in 2011 before our reunion.  I will always remember him as a unique and gifted individual.

My prayers go out to you and your family.

Sincerely,
Steve Easton

I knew Tom from the Middleton & Masconomet days - he was a friend and a large part of my growing up. Deb, this is "The Mole" - and I want you to know that those memories are still a large part of my life. I hope that the memories of the years you and Tom spent together will prove more powerful than the loss you must feel now. Thinking of you both - Dennis

Debbie ~ the news of your loss only just made it to me via facebook (from Steve Easton's post).  My heart goes out to you & yours.  The wonderful pictures posted here tell me you & Tom built a beautiful life together.  I don't know if you even remember me, but Tom & I worked together at Max Webber's in Middleton another lifetime ago.  He never stopped talking about you when we would all go back to his house on our lunch breaks listening to Jeff Beck's "Definitely Maybe".  I always knew you two were meant to be. So sorry that we all lost touch after those days.  But I can see he touched many lives since then.  Now THAT'S my idea of a success story! Wishing you continued strength and peace in your heart. With much love, Dona

My sincerest condolences go out to the entire Pinkham family.

The pictures were amazing. What a life!! Bless you Debbie and family

Debbie and family,  I just arrived home from vacation this week and one of the first messages I received was of Tom's passing.  I was so sad to hear this news.  Tom was such a special person.  He was a delight to have as a patient, and I felt honored to have cared for him.  In our many conversations, he shared his love of family, books, music, travel.....he lived life well!  Cherish all the great memories you have of him.  He will be a special guardian angel to all of you.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

To the Pinkham family

My family is deeply sorry for your loss. I am very fortunate to have known Tom. Knowing him has made me a better person overall. He will never be forgotten by me or my family. May God bless your family.

The Alvarado Famiy

Debbie and family:  Barbara and I are so sorry for your loss.  While we did not get to know Tom personally, the love you all shared clearly shows he was someone special.  We pray for you and the entire family.  God Bless you all. 

Love,

Kevin, Barbara and Kyle O'Meara

Uncle Tom, you are forever in our hearts.

May God Bless you Pinkham ladies in your time of sorrow, and may you find laughter in your tears and peace in your hearts, all the days of your lives, in knowing that Tom will always be watching over you from above.

My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with the Pinkham family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Tom, You left us too soon. Debbie & the girls have a wonderful life because of you. I cherrish all of the memories I have while raising our children. I am so glad I got to visit with you during the holiday's, your home was such a peacful Loving place to visit. Thank you for being such a wonderful friend to Destiy and all of our family. I am so proud & blessed to call you my friend. May you fly with the angels until we see you again, I will always be here for Deb & your girls. Gods speed. Dennis & Lorrie Grisham

Our thoughts and prayers are with Debbie and her girls - - Tom was a gentleman and we are happy to have known him.

Tom was an amazing man and Father! I always loved hearing stories about him from Steph! I know he was a hero to all three of his wonderful daughters. My thoughts and prayers have and will continue to be with you. I pray that God will give you all strength and comfort in this time of sorrow.

His sarcastic humor and bickering will always put a smile on my face. I am trully blessed to have had him as a boss as well as friend who always watched out for me. Prayers to his wonderful, loving family.

Dear Pinkham Family,
I wish to express my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom was a very special person; he always came to my aid when I needed help with a job. His analytical mind would always find the right solution to a situation. Tom and I used to go to lunch weekly to catch up on each other's business and lives. He and I must have eaten a gazillion pounds of pizza over the course of those lunches. Tom's obsession for pizza was matched by no other man. When you know someone for 32 years they tend to rub off on you, and with Tom's values, and the way he lived his life, I am so fortunate to have been blessed to have Tom as my coworker, my boss, and above all MY FRIEND.

Tom was the best boss i had and not only was he my boss he was someone i could say was a friend to my family, he saw my daughter grow up and seen my grandson Teegan grow too .I
am thankful for knowing him we all were blessed .

OBITUARY

Thomas Daniel Pinkham

October 9, 1951 – February 2, 2013

Funeraria Del Angel Hillcrest & Hillcrest Memorial Park

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