Robert John Lotito

On January 2, 2021, Robert John Lotito passed away unexpectedly after a brief illness at the age of 69. Robert will always be remembered lovingly by his wife of 16 years, Cydney Donnell, his twin children Austin and Asianna Lotito, his daughter-in-law Theresa Lotito, his siblings Ann (Charles) Mainieri, Joan (Bob) Grissom, Mark, Mia Wagner and John, first wife Terri Arenella-Lotito and beloved niece and nephews. He was predeceased in death by his parents Robert and Marie Lotito.

A mass will be held at the Church of St. Joseph in Garden City, New York at 11:00 am on Saturday, April 17, 2021 and a celebration of life will be held in September in Fredericksburg, Texas.

A graduate of the Willsey Institute of Art and Interior Design and owner of The Interior, Robert had a 40 year career in design. He passionately designed and restored homes which he described as “interpretive restoration” on Long Island and later in Fredericksburg. Some of his favorite projects included the Garden City Historical Society building, Buckram Stables Cafe and “Albert’s Cottage” an historic Texas farm house.

Robert John Lotito was truly one of a kind. He was so very proud of his family. His twins, Asianna and Austin were his greatest joy in life. His granddaughter, Adrianna Grace Lotito, who was born on Christmas Day, will continue to build on his legacy.

Robert was extremely proud of his heritage. He could speak Italian with his hands while embracing his Lotito Italian birthright and when opining about his McGranaghan family name, pronounced with his best Irish accent, his eyes would gleam with pride.

And then there are his Texas roots that started in college but really dug in deep and solidified when he married his wife Cydney. His love of Fredericksburg, Texas had a profound influence on him in so many ways. His approach to design was unique and creative. Every garage a dancehall and every design element a tale to tell. He frequently quipped “Trust me, I’m a designer,” and he was!

Robert’s anecdotes were unending and his ability to spin a tale was beyond compare. His many stories of growing up on Long Island could take you well into the wee hours of the morning.

His love of music was boundless! Jerry Jeff Walker and many other Texas musicians became friends with “Bobby John” through the years. Just as he could spin a tale, he could spin around the dance floor with his own distinct flare. Oh, the dances we would all share! He was always the life of the party and lived his life to the fullest. His favorite phrase was “the unexpected party is the best party”. Robert is already deeply missed by not only his family but many friends since he never knew a stranger.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Garden City (New York) Historical Society, Hill Country Memorial Hospital in Fredericksburg Texas or to a fund of your choice supporting musicians.