Robert James Tufts

With heavy hearts and deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Robert James Tufts, who departed this life far too soon. Born on November 7, 1990, at Fitzsimmons Army Medical Center in Aurora, Colorado, Robert was the firstborn child of Regina L. Bosma and Daniel T. Tufts. He grew up surrounded by love and chaos, leading the way for his siblings: Kaejauny L. Tufts, Justice E. Bosma, and Landon T. Bosma.

From a young age, Robert's spirited personality and sense of humor were evident to everyone around him. One memorable moment from his childhood that still brings smiles to his family’s faces is the time, at age 8, when he pouted through an entire dinner after discovering that the Air Force could not teach his dad (who was in the USAF) to eat as fast as 'Major Payne'—a disappointment he took very seriously.

Robert was a gifted athlete, and his drive and determination shone through in everything he did. As a freshman in high school, he defied the odds and won the Colorado State Wrestling Championship, defeating upperclassmen and making a name for himself as a fierce competitor. He played basketball and football with equal passion, leaving it all on the court and field, driven by love for the game and his team.

He went on to play football at Glendale Community College in California and later joined the semi-pro Colorado Pirates when he returned to his home state. Whether on the field, climbing a rocky trail, or at a family gathering, Robert’s energy was undeniable.

Robert was more than an athlete; he was a devoted father to four beautiful children: Nehemiah J. Tufts (13), Santana N. Tufts (6), Yasirah A. Tufts (2), and Zaveah M. Tufts (1). He loved them with a fierce loyalty and made it a point to be present in their lives, creating memories and sharing his humor, heart, and wisdom.

Those who knew Robert best will miss his radiant smile—the kind that could light up a room—and his unwavering loyalty. He had a gift for making people laugh, and an even rarer ability to truly connect with those around him. Robert never knew a stranger; he welcomed people from all walks of life with open arms and a compassionate heart. He sought out authentic connection, embraced people for who they were, and offered understanding even in life’s darkest corners.

Robert found joy in the simple things: watching or playing football, hiking and rock climbing, trying new foods, and most of all, spending time with his family and close friends. His presence was a reminder of how boundless the human spirit can be, and how deep our capacity for love truly is.

As we remember Robert, we hold close the image of a man who lived loudly, laughed fully, and loved deeply. May his legacy be one of compassion, courage, and connection—and may we all carry a piece of his spirit forward in the way we love others.

He is loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.