Elena-
I carry you with me every day.
Love you sweet pea,
Mamei

MIchael Patrick, I am so sorry and devastated that I can't be with you to give you a Michael Brooks bear hug. I know your loss is tremendous because Elena was such and extra ordinary person. Thank you so much for bringing her into our lives. Cousin Jen and the boys.

Paul and i and our family hold you each in warm embrace and celebrate with tears of missing the vibrant good life of Elena.  always, Margie and Paul

My family and I send our sincerest condolences. I was deeply saddened by the loss of Mrs. Cahir. Our prayers are with you and your family.

My heart goes out to you with love and caring.  Joan Thompson

My daughter Saule had the great fortune of having Elena Cahir as a math teacher during Second Grade at Eaton Elementary School.   Elena also served on a team that ensured my younger daughter would be able to access help that she needed to suceed in school.  Words cannot adequately convey my appreciation for all of her efforts on behalf of my children. I also remember fondly the conversations we shared about motherhood and the joy in her face when she talked about Carol.  I  want to express my condolences to her family. Thank you for sharing such a special person with all of us, especially all of the children whose lives she touched and changed. I also want her beloved daughter to know that nothing in the world made Elena more happy than becoming "Carol's Mom".

Warner  and I send our love and deepest sympathy to Mike and Carol and to Maria and Richard.  Elena fought a valiant battle which was an inspiration to all.  Please know we grieve with you and for you in your loss.  Carol Henry

I was saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Grant Cahir. Our prayers are with you and your families.

The Scales Family

Words fail at expressing our sadness at your loss.  Our thoughts are with you.  We will always treasure our memories of Elena.. her laughter and ability to take pleasure in all things.

May God's blessing for peace be with you Mike and Carol as you create a new "normal". I will keep you both in my prayers.

Dear Mike & Carol:  We are so sorry for your loss.  We knew Elena for only a short time, but found her to be a vibrant and lovely woman.  We will be there for you for the longer term.

Dear Mike and Carol:  We are so sorry for your loss.  We knew Elena for only a short time, but found her a lovely and vibrant woman.  We will be there for you for the longer term.

I knew Elena growing up in Pasadena and I was so sad to hear of her passing today.  I will always remember her infectious smile. Sending love and prayers to her family.

I am saddened by the news I received today my friend. You were truly an a beautiful being for all who knew you. I will always remember your infectious smile and your love for the students.  You will be greatly missed.  Mike, Carol, and both families my heart goes out to you all. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Elana's positive upbeat outlook is an inspiration to us all. I was always so glad to see her hanging out in the cul de sac. I knew a good time and great conversation would follow. Her spirit lives on in all of us and especially in Carol.

Bill and I --and Joanne and Bill Jr and their families--are shocked heartbroken.  Elena fought so hard with the support of Michael, Carol, Maria, Richard, Jill and the Cahir family.  We send each of you our love and our prayers.  Love, Cheryl and Bill Doyle

Elena leaves our family with many wonderful memories.

Wishing all Love and Peace to Elena's family, Mike, Mike's family, and Carol.    --Joseph Ross

In celebration of the incredible friendship you showed Marina and the extraordinary faith you showed us all.  Godspeed, dear friend.  With all my love and continued prayers. XX

Mike, Nick and I knew how special your beloved Elena was to you after just spending a short amount of time with you both. It was so evident what a sweetheart she was. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I heard the news this afternoon and am just in shock to learn of this terrible loss.  Elena was my colleague and friend at John Eaton Elementary School.  She was such a beautiful, caring, intelligent human being, and I am so sorry that she is gone.  Gone but never forgotten.  Love you Elena.  My heart goes out to Mike, Carol and the entire family.

Elena was a wonderful person and was loved by so many of us. She was a great teacher and made a difference to many students. Mike, I am keeping you, and Carol in my prayers.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mike, Carol and the Grant and Cahir Families. Elena was a very special woman and deeply loved by all of us who knew her. Elena will live on in the wonderful memories we hold and share. Love, Sister Eileen Dunn

Dear Sweet Elena,

We know you mostly through your dear sweet sister Gillian, and the images and stories of you and your family that she regularly shared with us.  As the universe unfolds as it will, you and your sister were brought into our lives and we are thankful for that experience.  

Just one week prior to losing you from our Earthly world, your sister Gillian was encircled within our own loving family of friends who have been with us along our own adventures through life.

Please know that we will continue to be committed to loving, supporting, and hugging Gillian as long as we are blessed to be able to do so. Though no one can replace you as her sibling, we dedicate ourselves to being the most powerful 'brothers and sisters' we are capable of.  So long Elena, we look forward to your spirit saying hello here and there in Gillian's life.

In sorrow, love, hope, and in peace,

Todd Klawinski
Timothy Langan
Jennifer Mullen
Jason Mullen
Christina Minner
Steve Minner
Katie Loizeaux
Courtney Heller
Brian Matarese
Chloe Smith
Trevor Mischler

Dearest Duque, 

I love you so much, and I am so grateful that you were part of my life. Thank you for 20 years of a beautiful friendship. I will miss you tremendously. xoxo, Cheddie

We lift our prayers up for your beautiful repose soul, my God speed your entry into His Heavenly Kingdom.
John and Ruth Landry

Miss. Grant,

You were a wonderful educator. Our family would like to thank you for all you have done. You will remain in our hearts.

The Lyles Family

I am so sorry to hear of Elena's death. Please be assured of my prayers and the prayers of the entire Carroll High School family for the repose of her soul. May God comfort her husband, Mike, and all Mike and Elena's family during this most difficult time. "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; believe also in me," says The Lord.

ELENA
Elegant
Warm
Gracious
Generous spirit
Infectious smile
Authentic
ELENA

We lift up our prayers for the repose of the soul of your loving Elena.  My God speed her entry into His Kingdom.  
All our prayers,
John and Ruth Landry

You are such a beautiful person and my family and I will forever Love and Cherish you. I appreciate all you done for my children at St. Gabriel's. I'm not saying bye but I'll see you later. Truly you are an angel. I Love You.

You were always smiling, always pleasant. I wish I could be there. Everytime I see Gob or hear The Final Countdown I think of you. I will miss your friendship X
Ar dheas Dé go raibh a anam

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Elena Grant Cahir

September 26, 1975 – June 22, 2013

Murphy Funeral Homes

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