Scott, Rachel and the rest of the family. I’m so very sorry to hear this. Becky was one of the kindest person I’ve met and she was a fast friend when Ashley and Rachel became friends. My heart breaks for all of you and will keep you in our prayers. 

Becky was a good friend and dedicated, caring, and loyal employee for 22+ years.  She was always positive, gracious, and happy to always think of and “take care” of others.  I also know from our many conversations that she cared deeply about her family.  She will be dearly missed.

Steve Terranova
Withrow + Terranova

The only good part of ‘Himalaya Hill’ was ice sledding in the winter!

Halloween with the Hartner’s were always the best! Kids trick or treating together, adults having drinks back at the house & massive candy swap afterwards!

A sweetly remembered schoolmate. RIP Becky🙏🏻❤️

Oh Becky! My heart is so heavy to hear of your passing. Your humor and love for your family brightened so many of my days. I will miss you and keep your beautiful children in my thoughts! 
Your friend,
Donna

I am so very sorry for the loss of such a precious person. Becky was a dear lady for which I thought the world.  Having been in my life for so many years, she was like one of my own.  My memories of her will always be very special.   I wish you comfort now and beyond. 

Laura, my sweet friend, I am so very sorry.   Sending prayers for strength to you, and your family, during this difficult time.  

Scott, I know what it is like to lose a wife, mother, friend, and love of your life. I lost my wife, almost four years ago, and it still hurts, and always will, but the pain will ease with time. It is hard to understand why someone so young, is taken away, but God, has a plan for all of us, we just don't know what it is, I always question, why her, and not me? The good news is, that you will be reunited some day, in a much better place. I am offering my Condolence, sadness, and prayer, to you, and your entire family, I am available, if there is anything that I can do for you, I still live in Cary, it has been a long time, since we have seen each other, but I never forget family, Becky's, mother and I, are first cousin, and I love all of you, very much.

Uncle Scott, Rachel , Jake and Haley, no words will ever ease the pain  your going through.. Aunt Becky loved you all so much and was so proud of the family her and Uncle Scott  had together…. she will be missed more than i can ever express.. We love you Aunt Becky  and we will never stop missing you….   until we meet again…. Love Jenny , Brandon and Jake

There are no words.  Sending Scott, Rachel, Jake and Haley love and prayers.  Heaven has a new angel.


Scott, Rachel, Hayley, Jake, Linda, Laura and extended family my heart is broken and I am so, so sorry for the loss of our beautiful Becky. 
She was a dear friend to me  for many many years.  I will miss her so much.  
Her greatest joy has been her family.  Her children were her life.  I see so much of her in each of you. 
I pray for peace, comfort and strength in the days ahead. 

I'm so sorry for the loss of Becky, a good friend. Praying for her family. We went to school together for many years. Always enjoyed her smile. 

Laura -- your USAO family is thinking of you during this difficult time and sending prayers for you and your family. 

Scott, kids, Linda and all that love her,  I am so sorry to hear of Becky’s untimely passing. Growing up with her in my life definitely added joy.  Everyone knows her children are her pride and joy. I wish for warm memories to soothe such heartbreak.  


Becky was an amazing person and while I didn’t get to spend much face to face time with her I still consider her a friend.   She was always there dropping fun and inspiring comments, and you could feel her authenticity.   She loved her kids so much and was so very proud of them.  She had a big influence on my daughter in middle school and I’m forever grateful for the guidance and talks she had with her.  Becky will be missed and I wish I got to spend more in person time with her.  Becky and Scott have raised an amazing family and I know she will always look down at them with joy and pride.  My heart breaks for them and no one should loose their mom at such young age.  Love you all. 

I worked with Becky at The State Newspaper many years ago.  She was a sweet friend and I am sad to hear of her death.  My condolences to her family.


I am saddened by the loss of a sweet friend.   Scott, Rachael and family,  you are in my thoughts and prayers.  

Ronda Rudd 

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. 

Laura, I am so sorry to hear this news.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  Please let me know if I can do anything for you on a personal or professional level.

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Rebecca Hartner

June 25, 1965 – June 19, 2023

Apex Funeral Home

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