To Milinichik Family,
I still think of Jordan as that sweet kindergarten 
 student I was blessed to know at AES. He will always have a special place in my heart. I hope you are all doing the best you can. 

With loving thought to you all,
Pam Clarkin (Mrs. Clarkin) 
God Bless

To the family of Jordan,
I would like to send you all my most sincere condolences on the passing of Jordan. I don't know if you remember me, but I had the privilege of being Jordan's Teacher Assistant when he was in Kindergarten. I just want you to know that Jordan was one of those student's that I absolutely adored. He was so sweet  and had a smile that would light up the room and always made my day special. I am so saddened by his passing and have you all in my prayers as you go through this difficult time.  Again, I'm so sorry.
With Love to all of you....Pam 

So sorry to hear about Jordan. He was always so sweet and friendly .  As a diabetic myself I understand the ups and downs this can cause. May God bless all of you and know he is in God's arms now.

Jordan, I cannot just think of one memory to share. There are too many. I remember the first time meeting you. I remember how we quickly became friends. I remember how you always looked after me. I remember how you always took care of me. You always found a way to cheer me up. You always found a way to calm me down. 
We would talk for hours on hours, endlessly. We cared for each other. You would always go out of your way for me. You would always share every last bit of whatever you had with me. You were so kind and so protective.
I remember laughs, I remember fights, I remember love, I remember driving eachother crazy. And now I’ll remember forever, tears.
I remember matching outfits. I remember shopping malls. I remember long drives. We were like siblings. Ups and downs but always around for eachother when in need. 
Out of all the things you wanted in life, you wanted a family. From what I consider a young age to be wanting those things, around 20 years old, that is what you wanted for your future. You wanted a wife and children to love, protect and take care of. That was your life mission. You loved your nieces (and now nephew). They were so important to you.  
I wish I would have met your family like you met mine. They are so torn.
You would accept anyone. You could converse with anyone. You could find a way to make everyone smile!
I wish I could attend your service today. I’m 8 hours away but with you in spirit Jordan. 
Of all the things, I just hope you are happy. You will be missed by everyone. Thank you for the memories you left here with me and everyone who got to know you. Rest easy my dear friend. Heaven will take good care of you. 

It was a pleasure to work with Jordan at Kights medical. He was one of the first employees  I had met when I arrived . He was funny and had a good heart. We had some fun deliveries together. My favorite one would had to be us going to do a delivery in Fayetteville N.C.. We found out J cole childhood house was 5 minutes away, we just had to go. We were so excited we even sign our name on the fence. That’s was good day . We are saddened by your loss, but  you will never be forgotten.

My condolences to Kathy and the entire Milinichik family. My God grant you peace and keep his loving arms around you all 🙏🏽

Our hearts are deeply saddened over Jordans loss. Words simply can’t express how sorry we are. We pray that God will grant the Milinichik family the strength needed to get through this very difficult time. May the happy memories keep Jordan alive in your hearts. 

I met Jordan in middle school. In 6th grade I was harassed constantly. I didn’t have any friends. Jordan went out of his way to sit with me when I had no one else despite being a “popular” kid. He made me feel appreciated and happy when no one else had the courage to. Fast forward to Apex High. I was constantly made fun of for my sexuality. There were only three guys I can remember standing up for me when I was berated. Jordan was always there for me. We never had a close relationship, but he genuinely went out of his way multiple times to make me feel safe. The world didn’t deserve his soul, it was too good. I cannot express how much of an impact he made on my life and how he made happiness accessible to me despite having no obligation to. I am sending you ALL of my love and (although I am not religious) I have been praying to a higher power that where he is now is where that beautiful soul deserves to be. 

My condolences to Kathleen and the Milinichik family. Praying for strength, peace and comfort for the entire family during this difficult time.

Joe & Josh,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. A son & a brother. My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Trust in the Lord for he will guide and comfort you in this time.
Chuck Henline


Our hearts are so full of sadness for all of you. In his short life he has touched so many. Prayers for strength for all during this difficult time.  Love, Marty and Tammy

Please accept my sincere condolences for your lost. It was a pleasure working with Jordan for these past two years. He always made me laugh. He had his moments but don't we all. It is still so hard to believe he is gone. 

I leave the family with this scripture for comfort: Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted (Matthew 5:4)
Jordan will be greatly missed. I will continue to pray the family strength as you continue throughout this time of bereavement.

Sincerely
Co-Worker Sharon Heckstall

Oh Jordan. You are so loved by so many. I have come across few people as kind-hearted and accepting as you. Your energy was indescribable and your goofy nature never failed to light up a room. It breaks my heart that I never had the chance to properly thank you for always looking out for me. I’m not sure I would have survived my first year out of my parent’s house without you by my side. I’ll see you on the other side, my friend. We will finally catch up like we had been meaning to. You will be missed.  



May God bless the family during this loss and forever.  We have fond memories of spending time with Jordan and his family. We’re saddened to hear this news tho Jordan is now with our Savior.   

Our condolences, 

The Oaks family. 
Tennessee.  

Kathy and Joe, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks with you and you will all be in my prayers. Having experienced the loss of a child, I can only say to lean on the Lord. He will support you during this time and for the coming years. 
Love, Mel

Jordan. I do not know where to begin. My heart aches knowing that you are gone. You were such a special person and I will never forget the summers we spent together. Your kind and protective demeanor ways made me feel safe and like I always had someone to count on. You were always there for me and made everyone around you feel special. Never forget me re-breaking my ankle in your pool when you decided to attack me underwater, or the time we decided to sleep/watch movies in the back of a hookah bar (sorry mom). Never forget our 5 hour long “oovoo” webcam chats. Those were the days. I also laugh at the times that you got so sensitive about your polo bear and your silly Wiz Khalifa laugh. Today, I listen to the “Rolling Papers” album, to remind me of the times that you, Tyler, and I had. I love you. Forever. RIP sweet boy. 

What a handsome young man! Our hearts are broken, we love you and we are with you in spirit. May God comfort you as only He can!
Love, John and Raluca Milinichik, Luke and Julie

Kathy and Joe, we are absolutely heartbroken over the loss of your son.   We remember him as a baby in San Diego.   You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. 

Jordan and I dated from October 2018 to March 2020. We had our ups and downs, but he was the love of my life. What was understood between us, didn’t need to be explained. 

I only knew of Jordan through my niece Lindsay. He seemed like a really great guy. 

I worked  with Jordan a couple of years ago when I first moved here to North Carolina at Outback. I remember being so new and not knowing what I was doing but he was always so helpful and always made everyone laugh with his jokes. Didn’t know him very well but he was always kind to me. Sorry for your loss 

OBITUARY

Jordan Alexander Milinichik

May 27, 1994 – May 10, 2020

Apex Funeral Home

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