Dear Jeffrey Dennis Small: My second boyfriend at Indian Creek. You were truly such a great boyfriend and we had seen each other off and on for years after middle school. You were the most kind-hearted loving person a girl could ask for. You always put me ahead, and your hand hold was so gentle and I still remember your kisses and those beautiful eyes and hair. I pray that you are in heaven and that God is taking care of you as one of his own. May your soul rest and may I see you again when the lord sees it fit. KF

I  remember Jeff’s wonderful smile, which he showed us since he was a tiny one. His smile could light up hi face, faces around him, a room, a family. 
His smile was particularly great when he was losing his teeth. So cute!

Jeff and I went to elementary school together and though we didn't see each other much after my family moved, I could always count on him for encouragement and a kind word no matter how long it had been since we'd last spoken. 

Jeff had a great smile that made everyone feel good.

When I sit down to think of Jeff the first word that comes to mind is kind. 
He was always the first to come over give me a hug and say hello even when we barely knew each other. He was the kind of guy who made you feel like you were special without ever saying a word. 
He was the kind of guy who you could go months without talking too and end up in the same place together and he would make it feel like you never skipped a beat. 
He was kind to everyone strangers and best friends. He was easy to like, easy to be friends with and easy to be around. 
My favorite memory of Jeff was at our wedding. This story will totally make us look like bad people but We were young when we got married and had no idea what we were doing. I don’t think we had even attended a wedding much less planned one so of course we made a ton of mistakes. We actually originally hadn’t asked Jeff to be in the wedding, not sure why just at that moment in life we hadn’t hung out much. When a groomsmen we did ask to be in the wedding ghosted us, we decided to ask Jeff to step in. I know we are jerks. So basically in much nicer terms we said hey Jeff we want you to be a groomsman in our wedding because this other guy bailed and I’m a bridezilla and need an even number of groomsmen and bridesmaids. Again please remember we were young and dumb. But Jeff didn’t have negative thought. He was over the moon. You would have thought we had given him a million dollars! He teared up a little. Exclaimed how honored he was. He showed up to every event making kevin and I feel so special and loved. He honored our love and marriage the way you would want a groomsman too. I don’t think I will ever forget him thanking us for asking him to be apart of our wedding. That shows the kind that Jeff was. He was the selfless kind that is not easy to find in this world. 
And the saddest part is I’m not sure he even realized his worth and how special and unique his kindness was. The world, and I, will certainly miss his :) 

When I think back on my friendship with jeff there isn’t one story that stands out in my head but rather a collection of fun memories and good times. 
From age 10-15 we spent every moment possible together.
		 we Lived one street over from each other for a few years and we quickly went from being good friends to best friends in short time. Spending as much time together as often as possible. 
        Our good times came in the form of playing 1 on 1 basketball in his driveway and football Next door at the Melrose house. Skateboarding to 7-11 or Grauls, or downtown. We’d hang out all day moving from one activity to the next. 
		Jeff loved to attend Navy football games, we’d walk down to the stadium, watch a little of the game but mostly walk around the stadium throwing the football around but mostly walking around trying to find Jeff’s next girlfriend or add a 2nd or 3rd. 
We had so many laughs and good times I can’t imagine how boring my middle school years would have been with out him. 
It’s those times that I will treasure and look back on to remember my friend Jeff. 

Kevin Campbell 

Each Life that touches ours for good, reflects thine own great Mercy, Lord; Thou sendest blessings from above , Thru words & deeds of those who Love.
When such a Friend from us departs, we hold forever in our hearts, a sweet and hollowed memory, Bringing us nearer, Lord to Thee...
A kind & smiling little boy, funny and happy became our friend.  The friendship he & his family gave over many years, will be remembered, cherished, respected & loved.  We love you Jeffrey. God be with you, Til we meet again.


Jeff was one of my day one friends. He was always there when it mattered the most. For example, he was there for my wedding, my son’s graduation party  and whenever I needed him to vent to.  

I miss his optimistic encouragement to see past my emotions,  his contagious smile that would light up the room and his  positive impact on my family - especially my son. 

May we honor his memory by being there for one another. 




Dear Azalea, Annie, Dennis, Will, Robin, Luciene,

One of our favorite sayings is: "A joy shared is doubled; a sorrow shared is halved".  We have already shared in your joy of knowing Jeff. Now, please let us also share your sorrow at his loss. Let his broad and welcoming smile be your memory. 

Bill has put him and all of you in nightly Rosaries before falling asleep. And remember, the Irish side of our family believes, that should you start a Rosary, and fall asleep, the angels will finish it for you. 

We will visit with you on Saturday.

Love to all,

Bill and Priscilla Mitchell.

Jeff teaching me about true love right before my wedding vowels. 

I am Jeff's aunt and I have been a part of his family's life since he was born. As a child, super-social Jeff was busy playing with the other kids. He was adept at avoiding trouble while in the middle of the action. As a teenager, Jeff was an athlete, often at lacrosse practice. And I saw less of him when he was attending Blue Ridge School. As an adult, Jeff always called me "Maam" which was a sign of respect, he said. While I understood that, I would counter that this made me feel old! No matter, that was his habit!

I met Jeff many many years ago. At first meeting him, I was like, he’s got the Air Force Ones on? The hat backwards? With the shaped up beard? I thought to myself, this guy is cool as ice. No way he can be that cool all the time. But, yes, he was that cool, all of the time. 

We ended up becoming roommates for some time.  I got to see just how awesome of a person Jeff truly was.  He has a heart of gold. Would give the shirt off his back to help somebody. He loved his family, especially Momma Smalls. Seeing them dance at his wedding was one of my fondest memories of them. 

Jeff was a great friend to many. A loving and dedicated father.  He touch the lives of people from all walks of life. And all parts of the planet. The stories, the memories, the camaraderie. That’s something I’ll never forget about Jeff. 

Jeff, I miss you brother! Your friends miss you! Keep watch over us all🙏

Since meeting in high school it was always love when Smalls and I would see one another. He was always super cool and smiling. I’m at a loss for words to hear of his passing and I want to send my heart felt condolences to the Smalls Family, friends and most importantly his beautiful daughter. Love live Jeff Smalls a beautiful soul gone way too soon. 

With warm regards, 
Erick M. Beavers Jr. 

Halloween in West Annapolis.  Such a great stair step picture with family heirloom costumes.

Christmas 1989 - Chinese dinner on Christmas eve.

We shared many happy events and holidays together over the years.  Jeff was always a positive, joyful addition to any festivities.


OBITUARY

Jeffrey Dennis Small

November 25, 1980 – January 12, 2022

John M. Taylor Funeral Home

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