Gary was born in Ilion, New York, to Keith and Ione Kidder on October 13, 1931. He graduated from Ilion High School in 1950, and, at 18 years old, was signed to a professional baseball team, the Poughkeepsie Chiefs. He went on to serve in the Air Force, including Korea and Vietnam, retiring in 1976 as Chief Master Sergeant. Gary led major military personnel automation initiatives for the Air Force, and afterwards in corporate and civil service programs, retiring a second time from Federal Civilian Service in 1997.
Gary is survived by his partner, Cheryl Fuller; his sons, Sam and Dale; daughters, Robin and Jackie; 9 grandchildren and many great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents; sister, Dorothy; and son, Steven.
Though a true Yankee, Gary considered Texas his home, with over 50 years in the State and many personal and professional ties to Randolph Air Force Base. He will be greatly missed by everyone whose lives he touched.
Gratitude is extended for the exceptional care provided by Franklin Park, Sonterra, Assisted Living, and VITAS hospice caregivers.