Danette Curtis

Stockton - Danette Gay Curtis was born November 15, 1963 in Stockton, California and passed away December 20, 2020 in Lodi, California.

Danette was married for over thirty-four years to the love of her life, Joseph (Joe) Curtis. Danette and Joe were married and made their life in Stockton. Together they have three beautiful daughters Taylor Brooke, Alexandra Rae and Samantha Mae who were Danette's pride and joy. Danette was born to Ronnie and Bonnie Musser and has one sister, Dana Barnard (Clark) as well as a mother in law, Mary Lou Hoffman (Michael), a brother and sister in law Chris Curtis and Francine Simmons (Tom.) She also had one nephew Ryan, three nieces Ashley, Danielle and Kaitlyn, and nine great nieces, all of whom she adored. Danette was loved and will be missed by aunts, uncles, cousins and life-long best friends.

Danette lived her life for the dash, she was often heard saying, ""the dates signify beginning and end, but what matters most is what happens in the dash."" She did just that, her dash was full of joy, laughter and fun. Her dash came with unforgettable hugs and love that will not be forgotten.

For more than twenty years Danette served the Diocese of Stockton. Eighteen years at St. Luke School where Danette managed the office, taught, and could be seen doing a little of everything. Danette loved the students of St. Luke, and was invested in their growth even in their high school years and beyond. Danette was also involved in parish life at St. Luke. She was active in the RCIA program for many years and, with Joe, re-established the ICF Chapter 138. Danette was a staple at St. Luke, and just two years ago, promoted with the eighth graders to St. Mary's High School. Danette loved the opportunity to continue her ministry and begin her new adventure. She quickly made a new community of colleagues and friends.

Her beautiful smile, contagious laughter and remarkable work ethic will be missed by all who knew and loved her. Danette's life was a shining light that will not be replaced. Due to COVID restrictions, funeral mass and burial at San Joaquin Catholic Cemetery will be private. There will be a zoom link shared on Facebook for the service. As restrictions are lifted there will be a celebration of life date TBD. In lieu of flowers, donations to honor the life of Danette Curtis can be made to St. Mary's High School, Danette Curtis Memorial Scholarship, 5648 N. El Dorado Street Stockton 95207 Attention: Rose Leonardini.