Bernard Salky

Bernard (Burney) Salky, known to some as “Big Benny” or “Benny,” passed away on January7, 2024, at 95-years old. He was born in Memphis, TN—part of the first generation of children born to a tight-knit family of Jewish Polish immigrants who reached America between the world wars. In Memphis, he attended Humes High School before enrolling at Washington University in St. Louis. There, he met Leatrice (Lee) Salky, his beloved wife of 71 years.

Burney served in the U.S. Army in Fort Benning, GA. There, he and Lee welcomed their first child, Paula. Upon concluding his service, they returned to St. Louis where their son Kenneth (Kenny) was born, and Burney began his career in sales. They remained in St. Louis where they raised their family, built cherished friendships, and hosted countless milestones under their roof.

Burney was preceded in death by his wife Lee, and his sister Faye Blyveis. He is survived by daughter Paula, son Kenny (Molly), granddaughters Sarah Salky and Ellie (Jared) Weinstein, and great granddaughter Rosie Lee Weinstein.

With an infectious love for life, Burney gathered friends wherever he went. His community stretched from family far and wide, neighbors, friends from every stage of life, and many, many more—including even patrons of the gym where he stayed active well into the final year of his life.

He loved to entertain and share his table, often cooking for the people he loved. His trademark barbeque (always Memphis style) was a well-known and much sought-after treat for those lucky enough to have it.

Together, Burney and Lee loved to travel. They saw the world together, and later shared their love of travel with their grandchildren. Burney shined as a grandfather, delighting in spoiling his two granddaughters. Together with Lee, the two delighted in every challenging and joyful role as grandparents, passing on their wisdom, love, and zeal for life along the way.

Last year, Burney met his great granddaughter, Rosie Lee Weinstein. Not surprisingly, she took an immediate shine to him, and he never failed to make her laugh—like he did so many.

Burney lived his life to the fullest in his 95-years and will be deeply missed by the many people who love him dearly.

Visitation Wednesday, January 10th, 12:00 Noon at BERGER MEMORIAL CHAPEL, 9430 Olive Blvd, followed by funeral service at 12:30 PM. Private family interment. Memorial contributions preferred to the Alzheimer’s Association of Greater St. Louis.