Patsy Coppola

Patsy Coppola, a beloved mother, sister, grandmother, and friend, passed away on August 16, 2023, in New York, NY. Born in Lubbock, TX, on September 1, 1949, Patsy's remarkable journey of compassion and care touched the lives of many.

Patsy's final years were a testament to her unwavering love for her family. Her children, Jessica Coppola and Jason Coppola, personally devoted themselves to her care as her dementia gradually progressed. Their steadfast dedication over the last six years of her life was a reflection of the incredible bond they shared. Patsy's legacy also includes her son, Joseph Coppola, and her cherished grandchildren, Baylor and Mireya, who held a special place in her heart.

Having served as a registered nurse in intermediate care for the Baptist Health System, Patsy's commitment to nurturing others extended beyond her family. Her profession showcased her innate ability to care for those in need. Patsy's caring nature left an indelible mark on the lives she touched during her nursing career.

Patsy's life was interwoven with love, loss, and profound connections. Her previous husband, Donald J. Valitzski, a Vietnam veteran and teacher, preceded her in death, leaving a void she carried with grace. Patsy is survived by her brother, Manuel. Early in life, they mourned their sister, Mary, who dies during childbirth. Her surviving niece, Vanessa Ortiz, expanded her nuclear family, and through Vanessa's son, Matthew, Patsy had renewed purpose as a grandma. Patsy's presence at Vanessa's wedding the year before her death was a cherished memory, a final hurrah with her beloved friends and family.

Patsy's passions illuminated her days. She found solace in the pages of books and the embrace of swimming in water. Her commitment to her faith was unwavering, as she attended church services and shared her warmth with her fellow Guadalupanas until her health permitted. Patsy's spirit of generosity and community involvement shone brightly.

A memorial service to honor Patsy's life will be held on September 1, 2023 at Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe Church at 10 am. A lunch reception to celebrate her life to follow in the church hall. A later internment will take place at Fort Sam Houston, where her ashes will be laid to rest beside her late husband, Donald. Patsy's preference was clear—rather than flowers, she sought to help support her family until the end. Those who wish to contribute monetary donations may contact her niece directly at 210-290-6580 or send via Zelle or Cash app to the number above.

The family requests if you are able to share any memories or stories of your time with Patsy, to text or leave a voicemail at 646-598-6768 so that your stories may help them grieve. Patsy R. Coppola's memory endures through the love she shared, the care she provided, and the special connections she cultivated. Her legacy remains etched in the hearts of all who were fortunate to know her.

In honoring Patsy, the family encourages attendees to wear bright, colorful, and comfy clothing in honor of what would have been Patsy's 74th birthday.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.funerariadelangelcupples.com for the Coppola family.