If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Ella Mae Bell. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Ella Mae was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.
Ella Mae was born at home in Prattville, Alabama on February 12, 1940 to James and Bessie Kate Houston. Ella Mae was raised in Prattville but moved to Chicago in 1952 where she attended Lutheran Elementary School. She was raised with four siblings. She had three sisters, Mary Elizabeth Elmore, Bessie Mae Foster, and Kathryn Tomlin; and one brother, Proceed James Houston Jr. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Ella Mae was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Ella Mae's personality throughout her life.
As someone who reveled in the sheer joy of her experiences, Ella Mae was always enthusiastic about new adventures. Although she had an exacting nature, Ella Mae was always tactful. One thing Ella Mae will certainly be remembered for is that, when she got up in the mornings, she was ready and raring to go. As a young girl, Ella Mae had a number of interests and was an active child. She loved to ride her tricycle and play house. She had such a big imagination. Ella Mae was sweet and kind, and she always said something to make you laugh. In her spare time she loved to be in the kitchen with her mom and was a great cook at an early age.
There was one thing that all of Ella Mae's friends knew and will still remember, and that is that she was a talker. She could pretty much talk to anybody about anything. This quality is one of the primary reasons that Ella Mae was such a popular person throughout her life. But Ella Mae was also dependable, loyal and trustworthy. Ella Mae was the kind of person who simply radiated good fellowship. While she maintained personal standards and her own personal values, Ella Mae was very accepting of others. On any holiday Ella Mae would open her home to friends and family, near or far. In fact, Ella Mae was fairly comfortable playing the role of “host” for just about any occasion. When Ella Mae made friends, she made true and lasting friendships. While growing up, her sisters were her best friends! Even so, she had such a warm soul, and everyone loved her. She had lots of friends throughout her life.
Ella Mae was a faithful and loving person. Most would call her sentimental and a compassionate at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. On September 12, 1959 Ella Mae married Ephrium Bell at her mother's house in Chicago, Illinois. Her compassionate and devoted aura would carry over into her marriage.
Harmony was important to Ella Mae and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Ella Mae was blessed with two sons, Mark and Ephrium Jr.; and four daughters, Tammy, Vivian, Jacqueline, and Yvette. She was also blessed with twelve grandchildren, Zachary, Zion, Mia, Jacqueline, Paul, Tyler, Timinique, Seneca, Chaz, Shanice, Christopher, and Sheena; and twelve great grandchildren. Ella Mae loved her children and grandchildren. She was always a safe haven for all their thoughts because she was so reasonable and understanding. They knew they could come to her and she would be objective and understanding. As a result, Ella Mae was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Ella Mae would listen before she would act.
Ella Mae was primarily a housewife and worked in childcare as a cook and teacher. She brought harmony to every environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues. Ella Mae was also a lover of animals and cherished her pets. One of her favorites was Abby, a Yorkie/Shih Tzu, who was her best friend for over 6 years.
A methodical woman, Ella Mae enjoyed spending time working on her various hobbies. She had no problem following all of the steps and instructions on a given project and was proud of the fact that she could have something to show for her efforts. Her favorite pursuits were crossword puzzles, going to the casino, shopping for her grandchildren, and cooking, but most importantly Ella Mae loved to celebrate all of her grandchildren’s accomplishments. It even made her into something of a sports fan because she loved watching her grandchildren play basketball and lacrosse.
Her high moral standards and traditional values served Ella Mae well with her faith. Religion and faith were important to her. She was a member of the Holy Temple Baptist Church. She was well respected because she was such an outgoing individual who sought to help in any manner she could.
Not only did Ella Mae enjoy traveling, but she also seemed to enjoy planning any trips that included spending time with her family. She was a facilitator who could easily make up a near perfect schedule of all of the things to do and see. She loved going back and revisiting her favorite places. Favorite vacations included going back to Chicago.
Since it was easy for Ella Mae to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and talking about the good old days. Since she was practical and cost effective, Ella Mae was ready when that day to retire finally came in 2002. Her new life involved relocating to Las Vegas, Nevada. In retirement, she found new pleasure in shopping and visiting casinos. Even in retirement, Ella Mae stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community – all of her neighbors loved her! – and felt she fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.
Ella Mae passed away on October 13, 2019 at Complex Rehab in Las Vegas, Nevada after complications from diabetes and hypertension. She is survived by her children, Mark, Ephrium Jr., Vivian, Tammy, and Jacqueline Services were held at Palm Southwest Mortuary.
Ella Mae was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Ella Mae was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Ella Mae Bell dearly.
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