Name: Feeney-Hornak Shadeland Mortuary
Address: Indianapolis, IN

I did not have the joy of knowing Kathy As I read others words of respect love and kindness  I have meet a loving smart teacher and loving spouse  to my long time  
Friend Ann the days will be hard but with  
God help you will remember the wonderful days and years you  had with such a loving spouse love Ruth ippolito 

Where to start... there just aren't words to express my sadness for Kathy's departing but also for the years of happiness I have experienced with her.  Kathy came to Allisonville the year after I did.  We started that year with some team building activities and I KNEW that Kathy was going to be "my people."  We became "teacher friends" but very quickly became very good friends.  I knew that I could always share anything with her.  Over the years, we've shared so many things - 4th grade camping, Vegas vacations, Professional Development conventions, campfires, book fairs,  playing Wii, hotel rooms, karaoke laughing, field trips, fun teacher dress-ups, water aerobics, buttery nipple shots, Champps nachos, painting Kathy and Ann's house,  Chicago, seeing each other get married, never knowing if we were on the good list or "THE LIST",  growing in our profession and helping others grow with us.   "Thus the Gargoyle" and "By God" could always make us smile and laugh.  Kathy's jokes, comments, and emails made my day!

Kathy never really understood my love of country music... she always called it "country and western".  For my birthday one year, she actually gave me big glossy picture of Toby Keith!  

 My heart is broken knowing that you are gone Kathy, but I will focus on the thought that you are free of pain and watching over all of us.  I'm sure Cooper and Wilson were waiting with cuddles and kisses.  

Both of our children have special needs and we were incredibly blessed that they both had Kathy as their teacher. She embraced the concept of inclusion in a way no other teacher came close.  We moved in after a bad experience elsewhere and will never forget the first case conference where Kathy would chime in, “Oh, I can do that…that’s no problem for me to do, etc”. She took ownership of our kids as students just as much as every other child. 
 She was an excellent teacher but she also made it so dang fun!  We were part of the surprise “Ms Parrish’s Bowling Party” mentioned above-and remember the kids jumping up and down cheering when they found out😀. 
I’m glad she no longer is suffering but we will greatly miss her wit and humor. She has left a legacy of love, learning, fun and compassion that extends far beyond just the students she taught. ❤️ From the Neals (Sara, Kip, Julie and Kevin 

I met Kathy in 2008 when I was working at Allisonville as a special education assistant. She was one of the kindest and most caring people I think I've ever met. I know she blessed an incredible amount of students, co-workers, parents, friends and family in her lifetime. I loved interacting with her on social media for the past 10 years. My heart goes out to you, Ann, even though we have never met. May the knowledge that your beautiful, wonderful wife left behind such an amazing legacy give you comfort in this time of grief. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I wish I could join for the celebration of life but we are out of state. 

We are all gathering to celebrate Kathy on Saturday, September 18th, 2021 from 5-9pm @ 8111 Bayberry Court, Indianapolis, IN, 46250.

We ask that all friends, co-workers and family members joining us for this celebration be fully vaccinated and wear a mask.  

The event will be primarily outside in an effort to respect social distancing. If you would like to bring a lawn chair, please do.

We will be breaking bread together by enjoying pizza - Kathy's favorite food!


Ann, 
I am sending thoughts, prayers & “virtual” hugs your way.  I am so sad to hear of your loss. The world is now missing such a wonderful, loving person.  How blessed am I to have had the opportunity to know her & share in her joy & love of animals.

Mary (aka Dr. Mary)




When Kathy was a 3rd grade grade teacher at Allisonville Elementary in 2005, I was assigned to be her instructional assistant.  Going to work wasn’t “work” at all. Instead, it was a time to appreciate the incredible talent of someone truly born to teach. She was also born to connect with students and adults alike with her amazing sense of humor . She made everyone enjoy just being in her presence.  If I could relive any one day from my years at Allisonville, it would be  any day I was with Kathy Parrish. My heart goes out to her family and especially to her beloved Ann. 

We have all lost a dear friend!  Kathy brightened the hallways of Allisonville Elementary every day whether she was telling a joke, swinging a lunch box from her vast collection, or beeping you as she passed on her scooter! Kathy's class buddied with my 2nd grade class for 6 years and did we had fun!  We sang along with Kathy and her guitar every Friday afternoon...and the kids didn't want to go home!  One of my fondest memories is taking our two classes to an overnight at the Indianapolis Zoo.  We woke to see the dolphins swimming around us - and, there was Kathy singing and laughing with my little ones! Hugs to you in heaven, Kathy!

Dear Ann - My children learned compassion, empathy, joy, caring and so much more from Kathy.  We were blessed to have our oldest two have her for 2 years each.  Kathy talked often of you in class and we remember you coming on our after school bowling outing one year. My oldest will work with special needs children as a physician, inspired in part by how Kathy taught her to honor, respect, and included ALL people, always.  Kathy was a genuinely passionate human being who touched so many children in such lasting and positive ways.  We were devastated to hear of her passing.  We know she is in a beautiful place now, with no pain or struggles.  It's you now we pray for.  
The Ceglio Family

I remember meeting Kathy at parent's night that year my son was in 3rd grade.  I remember leaving that classroom in tears and on cloud nine knowing my kid was going to have THE BEST year ahead.  It was such a blessing to have her again the next school year.  We loved her for her kindness, her respect for ALL the kids and those morning meetings that gave the students the opportunity to learn to care for one another.  She was an amazing person.  This world is a better place because she was in it.  Our thoughts are with you, Ann. 

I am very sad to learn of Kathy’s passing.  I worked with Kathy as a reading specialist at Allisonville Elementary and remember her well.  Her classroom was a warm, caring , inviting place where her students felt  welcome and safe.  I remember her commitment to morning meetings where each member of the classroom shared one thing each morning; I recall her bringing her guitar to school to start the morning with a song.  She was a cheerful, happy presence in the lives of the students and staff at Allisonville.   I pray for peace and comfort for her beloved Ann.  Rest In Peace, dearest Kathy. 

Ms Parrish was my 3rd-4th grade teacher at Allisonville elementary. We had a special connection because my parents are both from Bedford. She was such a fun, supportive teacher. She organized special events like kiwi vs kumquat day where the class spent the day playing games. She took us overnight to the zoo and to Abbots chocolate factory. I remember her teaching me how to multiply and divide. I am so heartbroken to hear of her passing, and I wish I would have reached out to her and told her how much she meant to me in my early years. I will always have fond memories of her and the loving classroom environment she provided to all of her students. 

So sorry to hear this,  thinking of you Ann.

Kathy was such a light in this world! Easy to laugh, delightful to hang with, delightful to work with. She was kind, thoughtful and just a good, good person.  

She brightened the lives of many children over the years and was a favorite of many. She was an inspiration. 

To Annie, and to all of Kathy's family my heartfelt sympathy. She was a treasure.

Disney Halloweens will never be the same without Kathy's presence.

Kathy will be severely missed. She was a bright light that just made the world better. The memories we have shared together will be ones I will never forget. I am so grateful for having had a chance to share the time we had.

I am so sad to hear about Kathy’s passing.  I loved working with her as the Autism Consultant in the school district.  I rejoiced when one of my students was placed in her classroom.  She had insight, intuition and real love for her students.  Ann, I don’t know you, but know you through the amazing woman named Kathy.  I hope you can find  peace at some time through your memories of your beloved Kathy.  

We were so blessed to be able to call Kathy our friend. Our two girls were so thrilled to have her for a teacher and as parents we were so impressed by her love and care she had for all her students. The world was a better place because of her.  We already miss her terribly. Rest in Peace

I'm so very sad to hear of Kathy's passing. We enjoyed many years as friends participating in various church functions, road trips, and citywide muscials.  She was a joy and shared her happy, sunshine smile with everyone. This earthly world has lost a beautiful person. My condolences to her family. 

Kathy was my cousin , we grew up together .I will always remember you  & carry you in my heart sweet girl 💔

I remember Kathy’s sweet  smile and sense of humor.   We were home room buddies in high school.  Twice  we saw each other by chance in Indianapolis and I’m so glad.  Too young, my condolences. 

I am so sorry to hear about Kathy. I knew her in high school, she was so fun and very sweet.

Very sad to hear of Kathy's passing. She and I were close in high school. We had a connection. A connection that Facebook allowed us to rekindle. She was always supportive, always kind, and always made me feel special. When she read my musings (essays) her comments were always warm and loving. Like she shared my thoughts. Like we were still in sync with each other. She will be missed in more ways and by more people than any of us will ever know. Love to Ann ❤️

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Kathy Jo Parrish

27 avril 1954 – 29 août 2021

Feeney-Hornak Shadeland Mortuary

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