Sally J Ellis

Sally was born May 17th 1939 at Cape Cod Hospital to Raymond and Jennie Ellis. She was one of nine children. Sally is survived by her sister Beverly Pina and brother Donald Ellis. Sally joins her siblings Jean Duprat, Phillip Ellis, Doris Karras, Lois Lopes, Marilyn Hallett, Allen Ellis.

Sally was born at a time when her extensive needs exceeded what her family could provide for her. From the age of 5, Sally would have to call Wrentham state hospital her "home" for the next 40 plus years. Early on they didn't expect Sally to live past the age of 7. Sally was a fighter who was never able to let down her guard. The conditions were unimaginable, inhumane and unjust. After finally being released into a group home in the 80's she attended a day program at CCI (community connections).

Many years later, Constance Murrill would take Sally home for the next 19 years. "Comey" as what Sally affectionately called her would become her saving grace, guardian angel, and ultimately her voice and advocate. Sally and Comey shared an unwavering mutual love. Something which they said Sally wasn't capable of. Shame on them!

Comey's daughter, Dawn Day Doucette, Sally's beloved ally would take her on many adventures. She loved car rides, cold drinks and great music. Parades, fairs, festivals and many family trips to Disney. Always looking to go "bye bye", Christmas tree shop and par tee freeze were staples.

Although Sallys verbal communication was limited, she had many favorite phrases she loved to repeat randomly. "Nice talk", "put the needle on the record" "picklehead", "Beatles", "she didn't know" and so many more. Her sweet voice and contagious giggle will be missed.

Many knew her and many loved her. Conveying her wants, needs and love was a language of her own that few understood.

Sally Mae will be missed dearly and deeply, leaving us with an irreplaceable void. She was a true gift to all who took the time to know and understand her. Especially her two favorite pickle heads, who had the honor and grace to witness the miracle unfold and see the power of love triumph.

Visiting hours will take place at Doane, Beal & Ames, 160 W. Main St., Hyannis on Tuesday, January 23rd from 4-6 PM immediately followed by a 6 PM service. Graveside service 11 AM Wednesday, January 24th at Ancient Cemetery, Yarmouth Port.

We'd like to thank Capabilities for bringing her into our lives with there home sharing program. We are Forever changed. Plus for all the support over the many years. Thank you Beacon hospice for providing Sally with dignity and comfort on her final "bye bye".

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