Karen Barsky O'Connor

Karen Barsky O’Connor, age 76, of Sterling, VA passed away on December 31, 2021 at home surrounded by her family. Karen was born September 8, 1945 to Cyril and Elsie Barsky in Detroit, MI. After graduating from Washington-Lee High School in 1963, Karen went on to work for the CIA for most of her career teaching effective writing, briefing techniques and instructional development. In 1973, she met James (JJ) O’Connor, the love of her life. Happily married for 43 years, they shared an unwavering love and devotion. Karen loved JJ and her family fiercely and enjoyed nothing more than spending time with them, spoiling her nephews and grandchildren as much as possible. She was truly a special person, and it is no exaggeration to say that this world is a better place for her having lived in It. She brought light and joy into the lives of everyone she met. Her exuberance, joy, and love of life was contagious. The perpetual optimism she radiated was a source of comfort and inspiration to all who were blessed to know her. Yet her joyous disposition was only one of the many, many aspects of her personality that made her special; she was also remarkably kind and generous, a shining example of Christian virtue. The seeds of goodness that she sowed will forever blossom in our hearts. Karen is predeceased by her parents and her nephews, James and Keith Anderson. She is survived by her husband, James (JJ) O’Connor; her sister Gretchen Anderson (Bruce) and nephews Eric and Peter; stepson Kevin O’Connor (Karen) and grandchildren Lauren and Ryan; and stepson Chris O’Connor. A private service with her family will be held at Columbia Gardens Cemetery on Friday, January 7, 2022. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to one of the following organizations Karen supported: Divine Mercy Care, 4001 Fair Ridge Drive, Suite 304, Fairfax, VA 22033-2917 or Community of Poor Clares, 2505 Stone Hedge Drive, Alexandria, VA 22306-2451.