Name: Tobias Funeral Home - Far Hills Chapel
Address: Dayton, OH

Madelyn and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss.  Joel was such a kind person.  His warm and loving smile will always be remembered.
Love to all,
Cousin Karen and family

I did not know Joel on a personal level.  What I do know is that he always smiled and greeted me warmly when our paths crossed at WPAFB.  My sincere sympathy goes out to his famlily and friends at this most difficult time.

I want to express my deepest sympathy to Joel's family.  We were friends many years ago and had lost contact.  Was trying to find him on facebook, but was unsuccessful. Now he is gone and I can never talk to him again.  We danced, partied, talked and cried together. I have missed him over the years and didn't know he was so close and could have seen him at Yellow Rose.  I would have been there in a heart beat if I would have known he was there.  RIP Sweetheart and only wish that I could have seen you and hugged you one more time before you were called home.  My heart aches for our great lose.  Big Teddy Bear hugs and dances will be missed.  God Rest Your Soul..Love you

So sorry to hear of Joel's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Madelyn, my heart goes out to you as you lay to rest your boy.  My prayer is for you to find comfort and peace in knowing you raised him well,
for that boy became a real
gentleman and unconditional
friend of people from all walks
of life.  I shall always treasure
the times I had with my
"traveling buddy" on this
journey of life.  His influence of
goodness, caring, and peace
will live on thru the lives of
those he touched. Margaret, he was a great Big Brother to you in more ways than one.  Know that Joel loved and cared for you deeply, as he did you,
Madelyn.  On our last trip, he
said he wanted to stay around
awhile because he was having such a great time at work, eating out with you, dancing with fun friends at the Yellow Rose, spending time by phone or in person with his godchildren and special friends, but most of all he wanted to be there for his mother and sister.  If his number was called, however, he said he was ready.  What a grand Thanksgiving Day it will be when we all reunite with our
beloved Joel....and Joe....on 
that glorious dance floor of
Heaven!  Thanks for sharing
him with me, my friends......
Much love, Terri Koles

My deepest sympthy goes to Joel's family.  I new Joel through dancing at the Yellow Rose dance club.  He was a great person and a good friend.  Sorry to hear of his passing.  My name is Sharon Cornett Null, now living in Leesburg, Fl.  He was the best dancer I ever danced with .  He was very special in my life.

My HS big brother, friend and protector.  I will remember you always.  Your smile and fun personality.

I was so sorry to hear of Joel's passing. Joel and I worked together at Systran for many years, and I knew him as a great person, employee, and friend. I know he will be missed by everyone who knew him. I know I will. My thoughts are with his family in this difficult time. Lynn Trainor

Dear Joel, our big teddy bear.  There are no goodbyes for us.  You will always be in the hearts of your friends.

Joel was a dear friend and a co-worker for many years at Systran Corporation.  I remember well his love for dancing, his cheerful spirit and his love for Jimmy Buffett concerts.  He was a wonderful man and a wonderful friend.

Joel my friend, I was proud to have know you in high school. We had some fun and I am glad we got back together in recent times. Our world has lost a truly nice man, god bless you and goodbye my friend.

I am so sorry to hear of Joel's passing.  Another angel in heaven for you guys.  I will add him to my prayers, Carol Monnin WCCVB

Joel and my husband Bruce were best friends in high school and he soon became mine too. I remember going for ridesin his Nova... we will miss youbut never forget you. Love you Joel

Joel you were such a pleasure to know, loved seeing you come in the Yellow Rose with that smile on your face, loved it even more seeing you out on the dance floor, you were good. I will miss you that's for sure. Love you my friend.

Joel, I wish I had a good pun right now (I know how much you loved them) to make the pain go away. You taught me many things on our journey together… the latest was the power of forgiveness. I will forever remember the night on the bluffs outside of Roswell where we felt we could touch the stars. You are playing among them now my friend. I am so thankful that through the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ we will meet again.

My condolences to his loved ones, Joel was my husbands best friend (Steve), they had great stories to tell of each other as children, their time in New Mexico, later in life Joel being Steve's boss.

Joel was a light in my husbands life and I appreciated his honest and kind words of encouragement to Steve and myself when my husband was facing death. I am grateful to have know Joel.

Memories last forever, never do they die;  Friends stick together and never really say Goodbye.
 - Ralph Waldo Emerson
You will be missed my friend.

I knew Joel for several years in the 1990's while at AFIT, but have lost contact since.  I remember how much we all depended on him for his knowledge and ability to figure out a solution.  But I also remember just having coffee with him.  He had a great sense of humor and we always looked for reasons to pass by and talk with him.

I cannot truly grasp the reality that you are gone. I have loved being your friend for the last 18yrs. You are my family and will always be a shining light in my heart. God truly blessed my life when you said "yes" to the dance. I will never find another partner, friend, confident like you. You will be forever in my heart. I take peace knowing that your dad, mine and Kellie's were all there to greet you into Gods kingdom. I love you always and forever, Joel.

We will keep you in our hearts always, you were a wonderful friend, a great dancer, a super instructor...Joel had such a love for the Country/Western dancing and learned and taught so much to others.  He indeed will be missed....but we can honor his memory by remembering all the good times we shared with him.
God Bless Joel, he is always in our prayers, Margie & Darrell Lairson, Dayton, OH

Madelyn: I am so sorry to hear about your son.  I know how much sorrow the death of a child (even one that's grown) can bring to your heart.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.  Judy Glenn

Madelyn:   My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.  May your loving memories be of comfort to you.  Blessings to all.

Joel was a wonderful friend with a very infectious smile. I feel truly blessed to have met him and and enjoyed his hugs and dancing. I hope he saves a dance for me when I see him again! He will be missed.

The life given us, by nature is short; but the memory of a well-spent life is eternal.

Madelyn,
I am so sorry for your loss.  Thinking of you and sending hugs.

My thoughts and prayers are with Joel's family. He was the BEST! Such a great friend and such a great listener. He was a gentle teddy bear and his hugs could always make everything better. I will truly miss you....shine on you crazy diamond....until we meet again....

You're the best friend a girl could have ever had.  I remember you holding Josh right after he was born.  He looked so tiny in your big loving arms.  You had a great big smile on your face.  I have many fond memories of working together, Buffett concerts, partying, dancing, etc.  I remember you taking me home after a night of partying, making sure I got in the house and standing at my door until you heard me lock it.  You always were quite a gentleman.  You really made my 40th a great night.  You will be missed more than you can ever imagine.  Love you!

Joel was just such a good person.  So happy and full of life and just so easy to talk to, you could talk to him about anything..He will be greatly missed by many.  Prayers to his family and frieds during this trying time....
Kendra Gastineau

It is not possible to put into words all the things I'm feeling with the loss of such a warm, wonderful man. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends at this difficult time.  I can't imagine that Joel will never be laughing in my office again.  So much taken for granted, so much not said.  I will miss our spirited conversations and the light you brought to the world. Goodbye good friend.

Joel was a GREAT friend and co- worker, could talk to him about anyting. My heart goes out to his family. RIP my friend.

Thoughts and prayers to Joel's family and friends..

Joel was my Godfather.. He was my very Best friend.. I miss talking to him every morning. He Always made me smile, no matter what was happening in his life, he always smiled and wanted to help me thru whatever I needed. He always thought of everyone else, before himself. He was such a blessing in my life. I have never known a better man..I will forever have a hole in my heart without him. I miss you so much Joelly..

Joel was my first boss here at AFIT, and I wil miss him. His staunch support of all of his contractors was without equal. We will miss him.

I don't even know what to say besides the fact that I am very thankful lto have known and worked with Joel. He is one of the first people that I met when I started working at Wright-Patterson, then I had the opportunity to continue working with him the past 5 years. It is going to a different place now without him here. Joel will be missed and remembered always! May God bless his family and friends at this time.

I worked with Joel several years ago.  We had a good time when he worked with us.  We will miss you Joel.  RIP.

Quite a shock hearing about Joel. The man was so full of life, a good friend to everyone he met, a real dear heart. I will miss him. I offer my condolences to family and friends, especially to Kellie and Holly. He will be missed.

I did not know Joel very well, but had the honor of a two step once.  I always loved watching him dance... so light on his feet, so graceful, so happy, and such a wonderful lead.  My deepest condolences to all the lives he touched and sending prayers of peace and comfort.

Joel, my dear old friend! You will be deeply missed. My only regret is that we lost contact after I left Dayton. Facebook was how I found you again. You helped me in many ways n I'm just sorry I wasnt able to receive one last hug from you! 
Love you my dear friend!!

It's very difficult to make any comment about Joel in the past tense. He has been such an important part of my life and was there when I had a need for a friend the most, more than once. He was more than just my Godfather. He was truly a friend and a confidant for me. My Journey to Catholicism would have been a much more difficult journey without his lead. Joel still has a huge impact on my life and the way I live my life each day, even though it has been a long time since I have physically seen him. My biggest regret may always be that I didn't make the time to tell Joel how important he really is in my life and now I won't have that opportunity again. You are still my mentor and I will still try to live my life the way you showed me. You have touched so many lives and yet there is no person that I know of that is not a better person for knowing you. I'll always love you Joel and you will be missed for the remainder of my lifetime.Rest in peace my friend.

I will miss you and I'm glad I had you as a friend.

Joel was a great friend and co-worker who will be missed. Our prayers go out to Joel's family during this time, and that they are comforted and given a peace that would help them through this difficult loss. We will miss you Joel!

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Joel Cary Coons

26 juin 1958 – 17 novembre 2012

Tobias Funeral Home - Far Hills Chapel

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