VERY SORRY TO JUST NOW BE HEARING OF THIS TERRIBLE LOSS. IT HAS BEEN MANY YEARS SINCE I HAVE SEEN RUBEN BUT I HAVE VERY FOND MEMORIES OF THE YEARS WE SPENT TOGETHER. MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY.
CATHLEEN GARCIA

It's has almost been a year boy where has it gone ... I will never get closer on the way the took u  and I won't ever be the same person ... Again they stole that part from me ... I take u everywhere I go I think that people may think I am crazy cuz I talk to u like ur right here boy I always make sure u get to see the scenery and get to watch all the ladies lol Love you 
And think about u daily just know u are missed and will always remembered .....

Hey Ruben,

I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday we miss you all the time. It still feels unreal. I hope you are dancing and smiling I hope you are happy and most of all I hope you know you are loved. We think of you very often and today is no different. Fly high always. Happy Birthday Ruben 21 forever!!!

Hey Uncle Ruben, 
Okay so the other day I get a call that we can pick up your ashes in a few days so I call my mom right and I tell her , "hey Mom , Ruben need you to pick him up " she's all instantly she's lost, confused, straight blonde moment.. little Ruben she says I'm oh no Ruben Ruben " My brother " oh yeah  hello oh my God it was so hilarious she fell right into it but I didn't mean to be to do that but it was just sweet you would have been rolling I know you hadn't been rolling sorry Mom anyways I miss you haven't been able to deal with this completely I got your ashes the other day I take you everywhere I go so you get to see all kinds of stuff you know people watching your favorite pastime man I've never gone through death and I don't know what I'm going through is normal but I feel so lost I didn't even see you everyday you were just my I had to see it when I came down you were my uncle I look forward to seeing you see what you were up to and give you whatever I I brought down or whatever and go or go to take you to the casino man I know this is final but I hate the anger I have for these people I give them too much credit that bothers me I love you and miss you.....m.

Ruben was a very good friend. Any time I needed help I called him he was there. He was funny and caring fun to be around. He had a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. I'm going to miss him very much.

I think one of the first battles in grief is guilt. We think about what we should of did prior to our sudden loss. How we should of done better with the time we had. I need to work on forgiveness and Ruben has taught me to let go. He has opened my eyes to see what’s important and theres no room for bitterness. Thank you Ruben for being my Mothers other half. Thank you Ruben for being the BEST GRANDPA to my kids. You taught my son how to make a fire and catch snakes. Eliah misses you Ruben we all do. We have the memories of the BIG RUBEN SMILE, his charisma will forever be held in our hearts. Lay to rest Ruben 

Ruben
 I want to thank you for everything you have done for my family and I want to say thank you for being in our lives, for every accomplishment you were there smiling at us. I have never met anyone like you, you were always happy and never judged anyone, you always tried helping  people every chance you got and you always protected us. You were the life of the party at every party. Most of all anything my family or I would ask of you, you did without questions. You were a hero in my eyes I never got to say it, but you knew I always needed you almost as much as my mom.  You will be missed and you are always loved.  And don’t worry for my mom I know you were the one always taking care of her but she’ll be fine we’ll take good care of her for you. Until we see that smile again. Love you Always & Forever 💜 

Well hunny,
You always said we have to go home and check on Jerry (his cat Jerry Garcia). So I made sure your cat was included ok hunny! I love you so much.
Always yours
Lisa Rivas

Today's the day I sit down and write a eulogy for your services I just don't know where to begin I don't know what memories share I want to share with others I'm so conflicted with a heartache and anger that all I wanted to do is show the love I have for you and let it shine because you deserve that so guide me I need your help I know that you're with me I keep telling my mom to get online to leave a message you know she's not a big internet person so I'm going to say a couple things for my mom.... I remember back in the days Ruben and my mom were crazy wild and Ruben he always was on vacation so when he visited they were off the wal always full of life and having a good time he was a Playboy boy he was just like my Grandpa Bob women were his passion for many years as I remember my mom and my uncle were very close I know my mother struggling right now without you here she always worried about you she wanted the best for you these last years I have gotten so close to you that when I see the impact that you have on everybody to make some smile everybody speaks good on you there's been good days and bad days just like everybody else but just know you're going to be greatly missed as I sit here cry like a baby I can see your face look at me like what the heck is wrong with you suck it up I love you Ruben I know for sure you're not far you're always in our hearts and I got you know that I got you protect my mom  Comfort her heart right now I know she's hurting protect her and and Lisa I'm proud to be Garcia I have two men to be proud that make me a Garcia as you look down I want you to smile looking at how you have made of your impact look how many people you affected how many people you touched and know that you're loved like I told you before the family that we have you brought them together yes it's a  tragedy look at the good out of the bad you did that Ruben you nobody but you I hope you rest in paradise I know you were tired rest uncle rest you  got that coming..

Ruben was one of my good friends for maney years .I remember when him and his brother showed at my grandfathers both had hand cuffs on and where both laughing .with help from there sis thay got away so me and my uncle Gary cut them off and we had a few beers and shots after  some good times .I will miss that funny guy may.he r.i.p.tell we laugh again

Ruben was a very special person. If Anybody Needed any kind of help he would try his best to come though for you!! He was a good Friend And Will Be Missed by everyone that knew him!!! Rest In Peace Ruben.
Lori and Geno

Ruben you will always be remembered for your kind heart, your since of humor, and your big smile. I hope your at peace Ruben, It was an honor to have met you, till we meet again fly with the angels , you will always be remembered  and never forgotton R.I.P my friend.
                  Holley Acosta

Ruby Tuesday!
Ruben I will miss your crazy laugh. I’ll miss you and Lisa being you guys haha. You were always happy, always willing to help others. You were one of the most unselfish people I’ve ever met. Full of energy and ready for a good time. I’m so sorry that you were taken so soon. Thank you for always be here for us, thank you for all the memories. I hope you find peace and know how loved you were, I don’t know anyone who is more deserving then you. Fly high Ruuueb!


My Heart goes out to Lisa  and the family. Your love and memories will always be with us. I will never forget the love you showed to the ones closes to you. And that crazy  smile  that could change any mood in a room. Heaven has diffently gained a 😇 Angel..
Forever missed Ruben G.

Ruben always has been a good hearted person from the time I had the privilege of meeting him. He would give his last dollar  if he knew you needed it .he was always happy no matter what was going on in his life he always had a smile on his face he will be missed and he was loved by many .always be remembered and never forgotten. Much love and respect .

I am so angry with people who have taken u away from us has caused so much heart ache in our family it suck but I try to find the silver lining Your With Joseph and I know u missed him and  this tragic incident has brought our family together and has brought us new members we didn't know  lol you did it Ruben u brought the family together once and for all we needed that I wish u were here to share it but I know it looking down smiling your my guardian angel give my grandpa Bob a smack on the back and tell my cousin Joseph I miss him and know u will never be forgotten about and will always be in my heart ❤️ 

Hello there to the Garcia Family and friends, I am still in disbelief , May he Rest In Peace with our  Lord Jesus, I will always remember his big smile and how happy he would get when we would show up to pray for him and pass out lunches, thru the years I would see him here and there and he was always smiling 🙂 my son hung out with him for a while,  I would ask Ruben what kind of advice are you giving my son he would say go hard or go home lol 😂 I would just laugh and tell him you need to behave and he would just laugh and say I do behave, he will forever be in our hearts ♥️ and he will always be alive in his families hearts and mind, once again Rest In Peace Ruben 

I love you so much , I'm so  lost without your my world I will  not be whole til we meet again in paradise I love you Ruben Rest in peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️always Your other half ....

         Lisa. Rivas

Ruben Garcia was a good man and will be missed by many my uncle was always making others laugh and always up beat he was took from his family way too soon and will be missed by many I myself will miss this man extremely my heart goes out to his longtime girlfriend Lisa Rivas for her heartache and his kids and step kids and many grandkids and great grandbaby he will miss the precious little memories but he will never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts I love my Uncle Ruben my personal  guardian Angel ....

Ruben Garcia was a hard working man he was quite very. Proud father brother uncle grandpa he would speak proudly of his family he lived in the desert where he felt was very comforting for him even though he has left us he will forever be in our memories rip our dear brother you will be missed by many people who you touched thier life's rest in peace  amen






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Ruben Garcia

28 février 1961 – 31 juillet 2021

Weaver Mortuary and Crematory

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