Marilyn Ruth Cates

Marilyn "Lyn" Cates, nee Jeune, age 82, passed away peacefully on January 19, 2019 surrounded by her family. She was preceded in death by her husband, Udell Cates. Survived by her children Deborah Essif (Les), Michael Alonge, Gaetano A. Alonge Jr. (Nancy) and Paul Alonge (Melissa). Grandchildren include, Davenne Essif (James Rice), Amien Essif, Angelena Alonge, Julieann Alonge , Christal Alonge, Andrea Alonge, Thomas Alonge (Shirley), Emily Alonge, Olivia Denny (Miles) and great-grandchildren, Ainara Rice and Ava Alonge. She was also close to Del's son Kim Cates (Brenda) and daughter, Robin Bowles (JB) and their families. She is also survived by her life long friends Lil and Louis Gradillas.

Born in Catskill, NY she moved to Arizona at an early age. She had a particular love and unique appreciation of the Southwest which she passed on to her children.

Marilyn was a gifted interior decorator who had an eye for detail and arrangement. She and her late husband Del were owners of Arizona Furniture and active members of the Elks, where they made and enjoyed many friends. They were always generous to friends and employees. Prior to being a store owner, she went from being a stay at home mother of four, to legal secretary and owner of a private in-home day care.

Marilyn loved to dance, go on cruises, camp and travel both domestically and abroad. She was always proud of her children and grandchildren, as they were of her.

Marilyn loved to have fun and developed a keen sense of humor, especially in her later years. She was quick to make enduring friends, including during the last months of her life.

We would like to thank Sunrise of Gilbert and Hospice of the Valley for their excellent care, support and respect given to her and her family. In lieu of flowers, donations to Hospice of the Valley would be appreciated.