Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow, but remember me in every tomorrow. Remember the joy, the laughter, the smile, I've only gone to rest a little while. Although my leaving causes pain and grief, my going has eased my hurt and given me relief. So dry your eyes and remember me, not as I am now, but as I used to be. Because, I will remember you all and look on with a smile. Understand, in your hearts, I've only gone to rest a little while. As long as I have the love of each of you, I can live my life in the hearts of all of you. Joan E. Gaiser passed away on July 19th, 2012 at Lawrence Hospital in Bronxville. She was 81 years old. A funeral Mass will be held 11AM on Tuesday July 24th 2012, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Scarsdale. Visiting hours Monday 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the Edwin L. Bennett Funeral Homes.