She was born September 20,1953 in Rockville Center, NY the daughter of Robert Crandall and Mary Jane (Hendee) Crandall Allen.
Mary attended St. Mary’s School and then Oneonta High School where she graduated the Class of 1971. Following graduation, she went to SUNY Morrisville and graduated in 1973.
On October 24, 1981, Mary married Mark Lossi at St. Mary’s Church.
Mary was a worker. Her motto was, "You have to work; it gives life purpose." For many years she worked as a claim's examiner for the NYS Department of Labor. After retiring she celebrated by traveling cross country by train to Albuquerque, New Mexico. Though *retired*, Mary stayed busy working for The 6th Ward Athletic Club, her buddy "Bones" at XOF Catering, The Carriage House and Sunrise Catering. Mary was always doing for others. She had a huge, generous heart and always put the needs of others before her own. No matter what was going on in her life, she always called to check on her family and friends to make sure they were doing well. Mary would make sure to help with anything they needed. She very much enjoyed watching her kids play sports as they grew up, but one of her greatest joys became her grandchildren. They were the loves of her life. She loved spoiling them with special presents and homemade treats that she baked. Her favorite holiday was Christmas and the Lossi's hosted Christmas Eve parties with a full house of friends and family for over 30 years. Santa always made a special stop at Grandma & Grandpa's house. As her granddaughter Lena said about Christmas morning, "you can't even walk through her living room because there are so many presents."
She will be remembered for her spunky personality with the most loving heart.
Mary is survived by her husband, Mark Lossi, Oneonta; two children, Mark and Katie Lossi, West Oneonta and Kristina and Erik Lauvas, Mt. Upton; four precious grandchildren: Lena, Brik, Gia, and Mack; sister, Rhonda and Douglas Willies, Cooperstown; brothers, Brian and Debra Crandall, Rohnert Park, CA, and Barry Crandall, Sacramento, CA; her beloved black lab, Breighle; as well as many nieces, nephews and cousins. She was predeceased by her parents; brother, Bobby Crandall; and her two chocolate labs, Cassie and Tilly.
Mary's family would like to extend a special thank you to Mary Drago, Deb and Paul Chicorelli, Becky and Bob Thomas, Danny and Jess of Bassett Cancer Center in Oneonta and the staff at Helios Care and At Home Care for the love and support they provided to Mary.
Calling hours will be held on Thursday, October 5, 2023 at the Bookhout Funeral Home, 357 Main Street, Oneonta from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. Funeral services will be held on Friday, October 6, 2023 at 10:00 am at the Bookhout Funeral Home. Burial will follow at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Emmons.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations in Mary's name to The 6th Ward Athletic Club or Helios Care, Inc., 297 River Street Service Rd, Oneonta, NY 13820.
To send the family and online condolences please visit www.bookhoutfuneralhome.com
Arrangements are by the Bookhout Funeral Home, Oneonta.
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