So sorry to hear of Jose's passing.  He was always one of my favorite members of the Lustgarten clan; fun to be with and always with interesting information and stories.  Have not seen him in quite some time and it sounds like recent years were difficult but I know he will be missed by those who knew him and enjoyed his company.

Thank you all who joined us at the cemetery, attended shiva with us, and/or sent food to honor our father.

When I think about my dad, the word that comes to mind is giving. He wasn’t the type to hover over us or coddle us, but his love was evident in the way he devoted himself fully to our entire family. He worked tirelessly to make sure we had everything we needed, and in doing so, he gave us the greatest gift: the security to know we would never go without.

My father’s generosity wasn’t limited to us, though. Whether it was offering his time, lending a hand, or helping someone financially, he always gave freely, often without being asked. If someone needed him, he showed up. It was just who he was.

He was also deeply devoted to our mom. Their partnership was the core of our family. He found joy in taking care of her, making her smile, and making sure she had whatever she needed or even dreamed of. His example showed me what it means to love through actions and not just words.

Dad’s hard work and sacrifices gave us the opportunities to grow and thrive, and while he may not have always said, “I love you”, his love was in every early morning he spent working at Picasso, every late night he shared his Hagen Daazen vanilla bean ice cream while watching Married with Children, and every decision he made to make sure we never had to worry about our future.

He was there for you and he was proud of us. And Although it was difficult for him to share his feelings, if you knew him, you just had to look at his face and there it was. 

Today, as I stand here, I realize how much of him I carry with me—not just in the lessons he taught but in the example he set. He gave us a legacy of generosity, hard work, and a devotion to family.

Dad, thank you for showing us the value of showing up and the importance of providing for others. Now it is your turn to rest peacefully knowing that your example will continue to guide us. 

Love you Dad.

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2 enero, 1956 – 17 diciembre, 2024

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