Mom-

This is truly the hardest thing that I have ever attempted to write.

What can a person say about their "Mom"? The word "Mom" covers it all.

A child learns just about everything about love and family from them.

In searching for the "right" words, I find peace knowing that you were "My Mom".

I know that you have taught me well...and that you will always be in my heart!

Your son- Kevin
With love from Althea, Kristina and Jason

Hi Lorene, I was very sorry to read about your mom's passing. Patty % Steve Fellner--formerly Patty Kurkowski/Patty LaMere--Steve and I both graduated from MVHS'70--How long has it been since we worked at Target together?

Grandma,
 
I am very, very sad this day had to come; we are all blessed to have had you in our lives.  I hope all is well.  

I know that today you would have wanted us to focus on the great memories and appreciate the time we have spent together.  I have much comfort in the feelings my memories give me, 

Your devotion to Grandpa of over 56 years, the dedication you’ve portrayed raising your family and the unconditional love that you’ve shown the generations throughout the years is unprecedented.  

The hours you’ve spent volunteering to make a difference in other people’s lives, the selflessness, your elegance and grace, the peaceful demeanor you’ve always demonstrated, 

You are truly one of them grandma, one of the “Beautiful People”, you are irreplaceable!

You have been the common bond that has held us together, it’s up to us now Grandma, 
You have taught us well..  

We won’t let you down!

In one of our last conversations, I asked how you were feeling and you asked if I had earned my wages that day?  “Leave it to you Grandma” later in that conversation you proceeded to tell me that in the future you would communicate with me in ways that I would not understand.  Days later, upon receiving the news,

On that early flight home, I know in my heart you were smiling down on me, telling me that everything was fine; I believe this was one of those moments…

The seemingly brighter than normal sunlight shining through the plane windows that morning, Grandma you must have known that when I fly I close the window shade, you just wouldn’t let up; I was intrigued to see the light.  Thank you for being so persistent, when I opened the window shade to see the dark reds through the light greens and all the colors of the rainbow represented on the horizon and the bright glow of the morning sun I knew in my heart that it was you; Telling me that you had finally made it and you were happy to be where you are.  
Thank you, hope you said “HI” to Gramps..

I am fortunate to have known you, and lucky to have spent the last 39 years with you. 

You have impacted our lives in ways that that most wouldn’t understand.

I am truly, truly “HONORED” to have been able to call you “GRANDMA”, 
Thank you for being you, you will most certainly be missed..

You will forever be in my thoughts and in my heart!

Until we meet again,

Your Grandson Brian

I am so saddened to hear the news of Arlys passing.  Over the past few years I've had the pleasure of being one of her organ teachers at Schmitt Music.  My family and I have been back in South Dakota now for 2yrs. but that was a big highlight of my life.  She always came in, made a point to say hello and the most meaningful thing she ALWAYS did was...SMILE.  No matter what kind of day I was having, she would flash that smile and everything was perfect.  It took some time before she would play the organ in front of me but when she finally was comfortable to do so, it was so beautiful.  I will always have those wonderful memories.  As you already know she was an amazing woman and loved by so many.  May you find comfort in knowing that during this time

I have known Arlys for a couple of years through the Schmitt Music organ program.  She was always very sweet and had a big smile on her face.  We all will miss her.  You have our deepest sympathy.
Bonnie Jellinek

We want to convey our condolences from the Carol Hanson family.  Unfortunately we are unable to attend the service due to being snowed in.  Arlys will be missed at family gatherings.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Daniel, Janice, Loren, Sandy, Garry, Joni

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. You will be watched by two special angels. You are in our prayers.
Alan and Jo Ann Leritz

Dean-Joni-

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Your friend,
Kathy Green

I have been fortunate enough to have had Arlys as a mother-in-law. Arlys has been in my life longer than I was able to have my own mother, she was a wonderful "mother" role model for me growing up over the years. Arlys was there anytime I needed her and believe me I don't know what I would have done without her sometimes. 
I remember exactly the first time she told me she loved me and how special that made me feel. I will miss our Friday night dinners (with the occasional glass of wine) and the way she ended each phone call with an "I love you"  I am grateful that I was able to spend time with her in her final days and had the opportunity to tell her how I felt and what she meant to me.

Thank you Arlys, for making me feel welcome from the first time I walked in your door.  I love you very much and I will truly miss you!
Joni

Many of my earliest memories included Arlys. From the times when Wayne had twin boy baby dolls named Pete and Repeat and Arlys and Joretta were in high school and of course the double wedding. At the age of 65 I still get referred to as "the flower girl." 

I recall how impressed I was that Arlys and Joretta were roller skaters! That was exotic and unique to me.

Since my Dad was so close to Ruth and Ivan, we were always at their home for Sunday visits, too. So I've always thought of myself as a part of the family.

I remember the days I babysat for Lorrie, Kevin and Dean (he was just a baby), at 2888 Sheldon - who could forget that address. I thought you were rich because I had never seen or used a microwave! In fact, Lorrie was a more confident and accomplished cook than I was! But I recall we had fun. 

I regret that I haven't kept in closer touch with all of you over the years, but life just happens. I want you to know I love and care about each of you and hope you will continue to include us in your family gatherings.

Arlys cared so much for this family and was delighted with all of you. She had her own suffering but remained vital and involved until the end. Her smile stays with me and will always lift me up and be an example to me of a life well lived. As a deeply spiritual person, her love will live on in all of us and we can be confident she is indeed with her Lord.

Mom,
 "I'll miss you for the rest of my life, but I know your in a better place with no more pain or suffering. I'm so glad that I was able to hold your hand for six hours, in the early morning on the day of your passing. Thank You for being here for all the things you did for my family and me. The trips to the Mayo Clinic and attempting to confort me in those trying times.Life will never be the same without you and dad, until we meet again, RIP you deserve it."
  Your Loving Baby Son,
  Dean

I've never met you Arlys, but I wanted to tell you that you have a wonderful granddaughter, Angie. I know you'll watch over her and make sure she's cared for. I know you're family will miss you, but you'll be in their hearts forever.

OBITUARIO

Arlys R. Grudem

21 noviembre, 1932 – 15 febrero, 2011

Sunset Funeral Home & Sunset Cemetery

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