She was born on November 5, 1935, in Omaha, Nebraska, to Earl and Clarice Stoley. Ethel was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Bernie; her siblings, Elden, Margaret, and Earl; and her parents.
Ethel is survived by her brother, Michael (Betty) Stoley; and brother-in-law Dale Widhalm; as well as her children: Bernie (Kathleen), Mike (Terry), Karen Case, and Aggie (Ken) Cooper. She was a proud grandmother to Chris (Heidy) Cooper, Anthony (Jennifer) Widhalm, Brooke Widhalm, Brandon (Ariel) Case, Caty (Jonathan) Patterson, Zac (Beth) Cooper, Dylan (Jules) Case, and Peyton (Jesse) Davis; as well as a loving great-grandmother to 13 beautiful great-grandchildren.
In 1971, Ethel relocated to Kansas City, Missouri, where she became a devoted member of St. Catherine's of Sienna Catholic Church in South Kansas City. One of the most remarkable milestones in Ethel’s life was her work as a lab technician at Fairmont Dairy, where she tested dairy products for the Kansas City region. Her pioneering role made her the first female Teamster in the city, a testament to her strength, determination, and trailblazing spirit. After retiring, Ethel enjoyed her time as a receptionist for an advertising and marketing firm, further showcasing her work ethic and dedication.
Ethel’s greatest pride was her family, and she found joy in spending her retirement with her grandchildren. A gifted baker, Ethel often brought joy to others with her sweet treats including her cherry puff tarts and famous chocolate pistachio cake, leaving a lasting impression on everyone she met. She was a kind friend, a role model to her children, and a loving grandmother and great-grandmother. Ethel's compassion, generosity, and unwavering faith touched the lives of all who knew her.
Her visitation and funeral service will be held on Friday, December 20, 2024, at St. Sabina Catholic Church with a Rosary to be said at 10:00 AM, a Visitation to immediately follow and a Mass at 11:00. A private burial will follow. Mass will be streamed for those who are unable to travel and can be seen at the https://www.facebook.com/StSabinaParish/.
Ethel’s legacy will live on in the hearts of her family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing her. She will be deeply missed.
In lieu of flowers please consider a contribution in her name to either the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation or the Alzheimer’s Association. Links to donate below.
May she rest in peace.
