My memories of Mom go back a long way. She was my mother for 53 years. As I reflect, I realize she set great examples that have influenced me and who I have become.

I remember, when I was very young, watching and waving to her as she left for work. I would sit in the living room looking out of the picture window and wave to her in the morning as she drove out of the lane. She would wave back to the very end. She was like clockwork. We all knew when she was home. We could hear her Challenger when she turned into the lane, it had a nice rumble to it. I believe she was able to find the perfect balance between work and family. A balance that I feel I try to strive for as I try to raise my family and continue to work.

She also loved children. I especially remember when she watched the little ones at the UCC Judd's Church school. They were very little, so it was more of a daycare. I was able to be there with her a bunch of times and loved the way she interacted with the children. I would have to attribute the fondness I have for children and babies to her. I don't know how else to explain this love of little ones except through her.

I now know I as quite spoiled growing up. Mom and Dad both worked, and I believe this afforded them to take us on many family trips. We went to Disneyland, Canada, and even an Alaskan Cruise. When I think back, I got everything I needed or wanted. It took me having children of my own to finally realize how much I took my parents for granted. I sure hope I can provide and raise my children as well as Mom and Dad raised me.

Her examples from when I was very young about being able to balance work and family are instilled deep within me. I strive to reach this balance as she was able to. Her love for children extends to others also. She was very caring and kind to everyone. Her generosity was unending. I hope I can be as giving as she was.

May she rest in eternal peace and love. May she know that I am forever grateful.  

Your son,
Rodney

I miss being with Mom, talking to her, asking her for advice, for her opinion or just talking about things.  I miss her laughter and smile and hugs.  We would watch Hallmark movies and end up crying and needing kleenex.  She would watch me play Animal Crossing and laugh at the funny things that happen.  Some nights, Mom and I would sit on the couch and eat Haagen Dazs coffee ice cream from the container.  That was nice.

I am so thankful for the memories I have of Mom - all of our trips, the Alaskan cruises, the trips to Las Vegas with Popo and Aunty Ami, our family gatherings - big and small, our New Year Eve get togethers, the church luaus.  We had a lot of fun.

Mom was such a part of my everyday life.  She was always there.  I would see her.  She was there for me in the good times and the bad times.  In the bad times, Mom was a reassuring presence.  It was comforting just knowing she was there.  In the good times, well, Mom sure knew how to party.  She would celebrate you, be proud of you and she would be so happy and joyful.

Thank you, Mom, for everything that you have done for me, for taking care of me.  I know you worried about me a lot and I'm sorry about that.  I am so grateful for the love and care you gave to me, for nurturing me and for always being there for me.

Mom, you will always be in my heart and I will love you forever.

Love you so much,
Donna


Mom was such a big part of my life.  She was there for me each and every day, taking care of me, supporting me, loving me.  I miss her so very much.

I remember waiting for Mom to come home from work when I was in elementary school.  I would watch her car, the Challenger, come into the lane through the big picture window.  The Challenger was a two door car with a blue body and a white top.  Everybody thought it was a police car.  I would watch her back up and down into the garage.  Then not too long after, Dad would come home.  I watched him back up and go down by the garage.  Now, everyone was home.

In high school, Mom encouraged me to try out for the JV volleyball team.  I think because she knew the coach.  Anyway, I ended up on the team.  Practices were hard but I learned a lot about volleyball.  I wasn't very good like the other players but all the girls were very nice.  Sometimes Mom had treats for the team after practice or a game.  Even though I never played in a game, it was fun and quite an experience.  We even became JV volleyball champions that year.  How amazing is that!  I even got a letter for volleyball.  Never thought I would ever be on a school sports team.  I have Mom to thank for that.

I was quite active in high school with clubs and activities.  Mom was there to support me through it all.  I was also very active at church after high school and Mom was there to support me too, chauffering me all around.

I remember helping Mom cook our dinners when I was in college.  Mom was a great cook!  So ono the food she makes - corn chowder, sweet and sour spareribs, cream of mushroom meatballs, shoyu chicken wings, fried rice, lamb riblets - oh, so ono!  I miss her cooking.

Mom was a steady, constant presence in my life, one that I could always depend on and did.  Mom did so much for me.  She spoiled me.  Mom also helped me through so much, especially with my health issues.  She saw me through it all.  Thank you, Mom!

Love you so very much,
Donna

Mom was always there.  When I was in the hospital, coming out of surgery, who was standing by those double doors waving and smiling.....Mom was there.  Every morning before breakfast came to the room.....Mom was there.  Even when Dad was in the hospital.....Mom was there.  Mom was always there.

Mom always knew.  Whenever Mom and I would talk on the phone, Mom always knew if something wasn't right with me the moment she heard my voice.  Mom knew what I needed to hear and when I needed to hear it.  Our daily phone calls were important to her so she knew where I was and that I was ok.  Even now, Mom still knows what I need and when I need it.  Mom somehow still lets me know that it'll be ok.  Mom always knew.

Mom always loved.  Mom loved so much.  She not only loved her own family but so many countless others as well.  Mom shared her love through her generosity.  Mom gave as much of herself that she could.  If she could find even more to give, she would.  If you had a need, she would do her best to fill it.  Mom had a heart of gold - so kind, so generous, so loving.  Mom always loved.

Mom - I miss you here and love you very much.  I miss our daily phone calls.  I miss hearing your voice, your laugh, your encouragement.  Thank you for being my Mom.  Thank you for showing me what strength is.  I will miss sharing all those God-appointed moments we've had, but I look forward to the ultimate God-appointed moment we will share when we see each other once again.

Love you forever,
Darlene, your #3.

Aunty Moonie.  Growing up, I always wanted an "Aunty Moonie".  At the very many family gatherings we've had, I would hear Aunty Moonie's name be called, see Aunty Moonie love on everyone with her hugs, kisses and smile.  If you had an Aunty Moonie, you would be showered with love.....no matter what, at any time.  Aunty Moonie loved much and was much loved.....and still is.

I realize I can never have an Aunty Moonie because Aunty Moonie is my Mom.  It wasn't just at family gatherings where everyone else had Aunty Moonie but I had Mom - all the time.  I had Mom to call on - all the time.  I had Mom to love on me with her hugs, kisses and smile - all the time.  I was showered with Mom's love.....no matter what - all the time.

So Aunty Moonie is my Mom.  That will never ever change.  And I wouldn't want it any other way.

Love you forever, Mom.

Your #3 - Darlene.

My Mama. You have always been there for me. Never wavering from being my rock or being in my corner. Someone I confided in, my strength and such a great part of my life. I will miss you so much from our shopping excursions with the noisiest cart or you always trying to make me laugh even when I was sad. 

I know you are resting now and I wish I could have taken care of you as you have taken care of me. I know you're with Daddy and Popo and the many others who went before you.

I take comfort that my last words to you were "I love you" and yours to me was "Love you too".  I will miss you so much and I love you so so much. I know you are now watching over me as well and I will watch for those signs. 

I so should have taken more selfies with you instead of just this one. 

Miss you much,
Your baby, your namesake and from what others tell me your mirror image - just taller. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 



“ One more day, one more time
One more sunset, maybe I'd be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do
Leave me wishing still for one more day with you” 

I remember riding in the car with you and this song comes on, Before I went to college and you had said this song reminds you of my POPO and how you wish I could have met her and all the good and fun times you’d all have. Cooking, sewing, etc ever since this day I’ve always had this song on repeat even when I’m having one of those days. Words could never explain how grateful and thankful I am for everything you have done not just for me but my family. Who am I gonna call to check up on to make sure you’re okay? Or a “Hi baby how are you? How’s baby? I wonder who she takes after? Thanks for calling and checking up on us.”  But I realize you are resting and you are well. Another angel added to our blessings. 

I’ll leave this here the first & last text message I sent to your phone:

 “I just want to text you and tell you I love you and thank you for everything you’ve done to help me grow. And teach me most things right from wrong and shape me in the form of who I am today. I love you and I hope to see you soon! 🤞”

With love never far, always near walking beside me, no more pain! I love you forever! 

OBITUARIO

Diana "Moonie" May Lum

12 julio, 1944 – 28 octubre, 2020

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