TO ALL MY COUSIN I'M DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF MY COUSIN MARY DEPTUCH VAN SADERS PASSES AWAY.REST IN PEACE MARY.LOVE ALL WAY JOHN MICHAEL  DEPTUCH

RIP MARY DEPTUCH VAN SADERS LOVE ALL WAY JOHN MICHAEL DEPTUCH

Dear Mary,  
It took me time to be able to put the words in my heart down on paper.  Marrying brothers made us sister-in-laws, but our hearts made us sisters.  You are one of a kind Mary, and I thank God he blessed me by letting me have you in my life, even if only for what seems like a very short while.  I thank you Mary and so does John, for being a "mom" to John when he needed help with his homework, and for the endless mashed potatoes you fed him to try to put some meat on his frail frame.  I thank you from the bottom of my heart Mary for not only being a sister to me, but also a best friend.  Although we spoke frequently, some of our most important conversations were shared in silence when our eyes would meet, and we would both either shrug or break into laughter.  Although I miss you so much I have to stop myself sometimes from dialing your number, I carry you in my heart where you will always live and know you are loved deeply.

Dear Jimmy, thank you for being the big brother I always wanted; and to your children, son-in-law, and grandson, please know I am there for you if you need me, and love you more than I tend to express.  I pray God blesses you all with the strength and faith you need to get through this difficult time.  May you always remember what a wonderful woman your wife/mother/grandma was; and know that she will always be looking down at you, watching with love in her eyes.

Love,
Phyllis & John Van Saders

A wonderful kind woman , she will be remembered and missed

Dear Jim and family,
  So very sorry to  hear about Mary passing, she was a dear friend.  Always a kind word and smiles for everyone.  God Bless you all.  Knowing Mary  is in a better place and pain free.

Mary was a dear friend to me for many of our working years.
Mary always had kind words for all and always a smile and a laugh for everyone.  I will truly miss this wonderful  person, and I know Mary is in a better place and at peace with no more suffering.  God Bless. Jim and family- you are all in my prayers.

Dear Jimmy and Family,  I was so sorry to hear about Mary's passing. Mary never changed from grammer school to seeing her at our 25th class reunion she always remained a caring and sweet person.  May the memories you've all shared through the years bring you comfort.
Sincerely, Linda (Schroeder) Mack

Mary was the best friend I could ever ask for. Our many trips to South Carolina to get scratch tickets, mega shopping at the malls, and the hunt for the ultimate bargan in Food Lion. The many card games and meals at her home made me feel like part of the family. My heart hurts over her passing. I am happy to have held her hand the day she passed away. She will be greately missed. 
Dreama

I remember the always open door, warm welcome and coffee waiting! I remember the friendship between our families. I remember my parents 25th wedding anniversary at your house! I remember...my thoughts and prayers are with you. All our love...

Jim, Jim, Christine and Shelia,

We were very sorry to hear of your loss.  Please know that we are keeping you and Mary in our prayers.  Your family was a huge part of our lives as we grew up and Mary is missed...

Peace,  Bryan & Karoline

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mary will be greatly missed by all.

so sorry to here of Marys passing. What a great woman and teacher. She will be missed

We are all so sorry for your loss.

The Long Valley Animal Hospital Staff

Mary was a wonderful teacher, friend, and professional.  She had such a quick wit and sense of humor and always had us laughing at BCTHS.  

I am so glad I was able to visit her and Jim and that we had that nice trip on the ferry to Willimington for the afternoon.  Thank you so much for your hospitality each time I visited the beaches of SC and NC and was able to stay in touch.  

Her passing over will be a great loss to her wonderful family and all her friends, but I am sure she will send us her joy and happiness and watch over us.  A wonderful and special person will be missed in Mary.  With love, Karen

Back in the first days of BCA, I arrived as a new person who needed help in how to type a class test using a BCTS PC. I went to your classroom door where you introduced yourself as Mary. You say "Is there anything I can do to help you? From then you were always one who would chat and laugh with the new members of BCA in that hallway. Always took care of us in what ever way you could. You always had and always will have a heart of gold!

When I think of Mary, I smile and laugh because that is how I will always remember her - smiling and laughing.  She was a great friend and a fun, caring person to all.  We will miss her!  Thank you Mary for being such a great friend to Debbie and for treating my boys like a second Bubbe.  We will always cherish the tons of fun memories with you.

I am gratefull I was able to know Mary and her family.  All my sympathy to Jim and all the kids.  And to the extended family Sparky and Judi.

Rhonda Charles

So sorry to hear of Mary's passing.  Although I grew up across the street from her Mother and Brother in Edgewater, I will always remember her as Mrs. Van Saders a teacher at Bergen Tech.  I never had her as a teacher.  But, I remember she came in to help our Commercial Art class get through the math we were learning.  She really helped.  She always had a smile on her face when we passed her in the hallways.   Very nice lady and very good Teacher.   So sorry to her Husband and Family.....

Our sympathies to the Van Saders family on the loss of Mary. She will always be a part of our great memories of times we all spent together in Bogota. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

We love and miss you so much Mary...you were such a special person and loved by everyone who's life you touched. Our prayers go out to Jimmy and the family we love you guys.

I will always remember an open house, a patience that only now I realize and just a whole lot of fun. I will miss you.

VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. SHE WAS A GOOD PERSON AND FRIEND OF MY FAMILY.

Mary & i grew up together in shadyside, I will always remember her and Jim, God bless.  Paul Kochis.

Deeply sorry for your loss. May you all find comfort in the memories she has left behind.

What a wonderful thoughtful person, always ready to share a smile and good deed. 

Serving on the Swim Club Board while I was employed there, Mary's dedication was inspiring to us all. Not to mention the laughs and good moments when we'd go to lunch at the local diners.

My thoughts are with you all.

I was so saddened to read of Mary's passing. She was my biggest help with the BT students. She was welcoming in her Corvus Lab and very open to me as a new teacher in the district. She was the ultimate friend and of course Mother, wife and family member.
May her blessed memory be kept alive.
Love
Ellen Sklar,Paramus

The loss of Mary will be felt for years to come.  She was always great and giving good sound advice and at making me laugh.  I will miss her terribly. My prayers go out to all the ones she left behind here.

Time and distance can't erase the memories of Edgewater in our childhood days and how sweet and kind Mary was to know.  So very, very sorry Jim and family.  Love, Billy and Yvette

Words can not express how sad we are about your passing. You were a very special person. We loved you dearly. My mother is heart broken! You were a great friend. Zackory still talks about the birthday party you threw for him at your house with the ice cream cake. All our love to Uncle Jimmy, Little Jimmy, Christine and Shiela. Love the Prymak's

I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Mary.  I learned many valuable lessons as a new teacher from Mary, which I still practice to this day.  She will be very missed.  My deepest sympathies to her husband and family.

Rest in peace Mary.  Thank you so much for your contributions to our school in Hackensack, NJ.

We love you Aunt Mary!  Sending my love to Uncle Jim in North Carolina! 

Danielle, Dave, and baby-to-come

How sad to hear that you lost your battle. We all prayed so hard but I guess the comment that God needed another angel is true.
I think back to you sitting behind me in Homeroom at LHS, the double dates, the visits at night to play cards when you were balancing school and young kids, when you bought the house in Bogota, the time you dragged us to the Yankee game with PAL and there was a stabbling behind us! Ron having you as a teacher at Tech and the comment you left when Jim died. It seems like yesterday. You were a wonderful friend.
My condolences to Jim and your children.

Our prayers are with you at this very sad time.  Mary was a very special person.

OBITUARIO

Mary Frances Van Saders

20 marzo, 1948 – 13 mayo, 2011

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