Shirley Eileen Doyle

When someone is identified as a natural leader, certain images come to mind. First thoughts are of a no-nonsense, tough-minded, dedicated and disciplined person. This description accurately fits Shirley Eileen Doyle who was indeed a born manager. She will be remembered as being highly organized, practical and realistic. She was a person who always carried a strong sense of duty with her throughout her life. Possessed with traditional “old school” morals, Shirley was an individual who clearly communicated to those around her just who she was and what she was all about. Everyone acquainted with Shirley knew her as a well-respected woman who was a stable force in her community.

Shirley was born on December 5, 1929 at Stubenville Hospital in Mingo Junction, Ohio. Her parents were Gourley and Opal Roe. Shirley was raised in Mingo Junction. Even as a youngster, Shirley learned to be objective and decisive. Her faith in the principles of authority and dependability was something that she carried with her throughout her life.

As a young girl, Shirley was able to put her natural abilities to work. She was a bit like the sergeant of the family, helping to make sure that the others did what they should do and that they avoided those things they weren’t supposed to. In other words, she liked to organize and direct. Shirley was raised with one brother and two sisters. She had sisters; Betty, Ruth and one brother Don. Shirley had an inborn appreciation for the order in the family, allowing for the oldest members to be the most respected and to take on the most responsibility. For Shirley, this was a natural order of life, one she gladly embraced.

Shirley's matter-of-fact attitude about most things was developed during her childhood. As a young girl, Shirley enjoyed being part of teams, and organizations and groups of other kids who shared similar interests. In her spare time she liked to annoy parents and siblings.

In school, Shirley was as close to being a model student as one could possibly imagine. She sought to achieve perfect attendance in all of her classes. She would eagerly complete her homework, and often put in extra study time when she felt it was necessary. A logical and focused thinker, Shirley was always good at following directions and meeting her schedules, whether they were set by her teachers or were self-imposed. Shirley’s personal motto could well have been, “Do it right the first time.” She graduated from Mingo Junction High School in 1948. She enjoyed some courses more than others, having favorite classes and teachers.

Shirley’s practical work ethic carried over into her college years. Her logical mind permitted her to work hard without succumbing to the usual distractions of college life. She would tackle an assignment and work through it before moving onto the next project. Shirley’s orderly nature gave way to establishing personal study habits and procedures that not only helped her stay on track but often put her ahead of schedule. When Shirley saw the need or benefit, she would willingly take on the extra assignment or even attend extra classes in order to learn more and become a better student. She was a majorette in high school.

Shirley was sociable and approachable. Because she was always so straightforward in how she approached relationships, friends and family knew that what they saw was always what they got. She enjoyed the camaraderie of being with a group of friends. When Shirley was a member of a group, her interaction worked to keep the others grounded. She wasn’t afraid to confront her friends and, when necessary, she challenged them to stick to the task at hand. Those close to Shirley came to expect her high standards of performance. While growing up, some of her best friend was Bonnie Weldon. Later in life, she became friends with Georgie Esenwangger, Jane Jamerson, and Helen.

An objective and conscientious individual, Shirley reveled in the security of her family. One of Shirley’s most endearing qualities was her uncanny ability to remember important dates and anniversaries, and her unending enthusiasm for organizing a celebration for her family and friends.

Shirley was ever watchful of her children. She worried about them and was deeply concerned for their development as they grew up. She maintained a firm hand in their upbringing. Shirley would give her stamp of approval to their requests, as long as she could see how they might benefit. She also had the ability to enforce the rules as needed to ensure that her children were properly raised. Shirley was blessed with four, 1 daughter Cheryl, 3 sons; Thomas, James, and Robert. They were also blessed with 10 grandchildren, Sandy, Brenda, John, Ryan, Thom, Kevin, Peter, Renee, Jamie, ans Michael.

Being a hard worker who praised efficiency, Shirley was always striving to make improvements where they were necessary. She was able to analyze situations and problems, keeping everything and everyone on track. An excellent project supervisor, Shirley was a person who could quickly make decisions based on the information available. She worked cooperatively and expected the same from her colleagues. In both her personal and professional environments, Shirley upheld her standards. Her primary occupation was being a housewife. She was employed for Kaiser Permanente, Kaiser Steel, Marygold Nursing Home. Shirley was a team player who certainly lived out the motto of “give me a job, and I will get it done.”

Shirley approached her leisure time in the same manner that she approached her life. A person who enjoyed being neat and orderly and one who understood the nature of things, she appreciated the hours she was able to devote to her various hobbies. Her favorite pursuits were bowling, gardening, and bingo. Shirley was content to enjoy her favorite pastimes alone but was also willing to share her interests with others.

Playing by the rules was a natural thing for Shirley to do in life and that carried over to her enjoyment of sports. She also was something of a sports fan and enjoyed watching her favorite events whenever she got the opportunity. Tops on her list were football, nascar racing.

A civic-minded person, Shirley was usually ready to jump in and help with community activities. She was the type of person who could masterfully organize events and projects and then see to it that they were run in an efficient and timely manner. Shirley was a member of several community groups, including serving on committees for the Santa Clause,SDAR, Ayala Bingo volunteer. During these years, Shirley applied her analytical intellect to problem solving and so was an asset on most committees.

Faith was important to Shirley. She held high moral standards and was worried about the moral decay she saw around her. For that reason she held deep spiritual beliefs that she was willing to share. She was a member of Saint George for 40 years.

When it came time to travel or take a vacation, Shirley used her scheduling expertise to make sure everyone and everything was ready to go. That also meant that she made certain no single person was overworked in putting the trip together. Shirley had a knack for making sure that everyone who was involved had their specific tasks and that those tasks were completed. Favorite vacations included trips to see family.

Shirley was a lover of animals and cherished her pets. One of Shirley’s favorites was Buddy her dog. They were best friends for 6 years.

Shirley passed away on February 6, 2012 at at her home in Fontana, California. Shirley died peacefully at home from heart failure. She is survived by 3 children, 10 grandchildren, 12 great grandchildren, and 5 great-great grandchildren. Services were held at Wednesday, February 15, 2012 at 10:00am - Green Acres Mortuary in Bloomington, California. Shirley was laid to rest in Green Acres Memorial Park, Bloomington, California.

All who knew her would agree that Shirley was a pillar of the community. She lived her life with her feet firmly on the ground. She had a strong work ethic, was pragmatic in her thoughts and acts, and constantly sought the means for self-improvement. She was willing to share her ideas and knowledge for the benefit of others, so that they could accomplish more in their lives. Shirley Eileen Doyle did her best to ensure that her family, friends, loved ones, co-workers, and everyone whose life she touched was given the chance to become a better person. Arrangements under the direction of Green Acres Memorial Park and Mortuary, Bloomington, CA.